So I'm not one to write reviews of any kind, but I had a less than great experience last night that I think should be addressed. My family and I have been coming to nates since it opened and have always loved it. We've gone to live music nights as a family (including my now 19 y/o little sister) and always had a good time. As you may know, Nates seconds as a coffee house, so that and the fact that my sister has been there past 8 pm with our family led me to believe it was okay for her to be there past 8 pm. It's completely reasonable to close off to minors after 8 pm, I was simply unaware. So my cousin came into town from north Texas and he and I sat down by the central fire and enjoyed a few drinks. My little sister got off work at 9 and since she hadn't seen my cousin in a while, so he told her to join us. As we were sitting outside, it was about 10 or so now, one of the bartenders came out and aggressively asked her if she was over 21. We immediately told him that she was not and instead of explaining the policy and ushering her out, he said "you've got to get out of here now!" Me being a little tipsy tried to deescalate the situation by sarcastically telling her that she should leave right now I suppose hurting his ego with the mockery. This made him mad and he raised his tone and said that he "didn't need the sarcasm" and we all had to leave. My cousin (also tipsy) didn't love how he was shouting at us and causing a scene so he did his best to have the bartender apologize. This made the bartender more angry and he got in my cousins voice and had some unnecessary discourse. At this point the manager had come out and had told us to leave without closing out or finishing our drinks. Mind you, my sister did not have a drink in her hand and had not drunk anything, we were simply trying to catch up. All this to say there are much better ways to respectfully escort whomever you would like out of the bar. I don't know. People with power complexes should not be bouncing in general, but I guess that's just the way it is. Next time maybe explain the rules of the establishment and escort whoever is breaking those rules out with a tiny sliver of respect. My cousin and I had broken no rules so I don't think there was need to have us leave and make me tip the overly aggressive bartender 20%. Just a weird situation that could have been handled better. read more