I LOVED Macri Park Bar up until all the mostly straight staff were fired without notice after providing a safe atmosphere for gay and straight alike. As far as I know, the one gay staff member was kept on.
I have never been to a cooler bar that felt like family. It was like the last episode of Cheers when they shut down on Thursday, August 20th, 2015. From what I've read on Gothamist and Next, the owners let go of their staff without any severance or notice, not even offering positions at other bars that they own.
Who would want to patronize an establishment that treats their employees like lightbulbs? The loyal regular following was HUGE.
This isn't a gay v. straight issue. It's about respecting the people who pour in the money, the community they serve, and vibe that made Macri more than a "tolerant" place: people were loved, "lives happened", people met and got married, got hired; real human connections were made.
There used to be events like drink and draw Tuesdays, drag night "bitchy bingo" on Monday night, stand up Sunday, karaoke night once a month on Wednesday, trivia night. Great DJs spun. Neighborhood people and even next door neighbors and I myself would bring food to share with bartenders and strangers alike.
Any suspicion that theft was afoot is absolutely absurd... security and most of all solidarity between bartenders and patrons, and the bouncers was TIGHT. Most altercations were handled smoothly and without violence. I suppose an owner who wants to clean house so s/he can open a gay bar, (which is absurd, because patrons determine that, not owners) will fire perfectly good workers to cater to the gaybourhood. Gay people came here regardless of what day it was. Some gay friends of mine are outraged, because the staff were friends, and now they are jobless.
Overall, it was what a real pub is: a public house, a den, or living room for the neighborhood. I rode back and forth from my house in Fresh Meadows to Macri Park Bar about 4-7 nights a week until they closed. That's 20 miles round trip, not including my daily ride to service my clients, landlords, and leads, (I'm a licensed real estate salesperson). I'd go after work until closing time at least half the time. I made SO many friends, met some real sweethearts, followed business leads, found clients from my network of Macri friends... Macri Alumni was huge!
*****Don't give your money to businesses that treat their employees like trash! Don't be fooled that just because it's self-proclaimed gay bar that they are ethical business persons! Real neighborhoods are made up of neighbors, straight or gay, and we hang in bars that feel like family.*****
We've taken the Macri Alumni to Lady Jaye, Redd's, and are considering others, especially if they have an open space in the back, or space up front to puff and drink while people watching/ogling/gawking on the street. That was the best part, besides there being 3 bathrooms.
Wow, what a great time it WAS, over at Macri Park Bar. It was a place where everybody knew your name, where you could dance, even if it wasn't a DJ night, where they played awesomely bad B-movies on Netflix and great shows as well. All the bartenders had such a distinct style and eclectic taste in music. Closing time was a ritual for those who were close to the bartender... few were allowed to chill for a bit and it was great being the selected "cool" few.
Yes, it was a dive, but it was one that had a lot of Love, and that's so goddamn rare these days... the search for the next incarnation of Macri begins!!!! :-) read more