I had a deeply disappointing and upsetting experience at this bar that I feel compelled to share, not only to warn others but also to shed light on the unacceptable behavior I encountered. On New Year's Eve, I was out celebrating with friends when, unexpectedly, I was subjected to discrimination and mistreatment by the bartender. The night took a distressing turn when, just 12 minutes before the ball dropped, the bartender forced me to move from my seat so that a married couple could sit together--a decision that felt unfair, especially since there were other available seats, and I was simply trying to sit comfortably next to my best friend. I expressed my feelings to my friends, mentioning that I felt singled out because I stood out differently from others, which was overheard by the bartender. Instead of addressing my concerns with empathy, the bartender responded with aggression, getting into my face and yelling profanities at me. He aggressively told me to "cut my attitude" or he would throw me out of the bar--a threatening and hostile reaction that was completely unwarranted and disproportionate to the situation. This behavior was particularly painful because I have a diagnosis of severe anxiety and autism, conditions that make such confrontations especially distressing. When my friend kindly asked the bartender to lower his voice, knowing my medical conditions, the bartender responded with shocking ignorance and prejudice, claiming he "had never dealt with someone like me" and dismissively stating that people with autism have no place in a bar. (mind you i'm 30 and high functioning living my life not letting a disability define me). This display of discrimination and lack of understanding was unacceptable. It demonstrated a lack of empathy, awareness, and respect for diversity. The bartender's behavior revealed a concerning attitude that stigmatized individuals with neurodivergent conditions. When the night concluded with the ball drop, the bartender offered a weak apology, saying that if he had known I had autism, he wouldn't have acted that way. However, such an apology does little to undo the emotional harm caused by his behavior. This experience has left me feeling disrespected, and I believe it's important to hold this place accountable when they fail to create a safe, inclusive environment. No one should be made to feel out of place or unwelcome because of their challenges. Discrimination in any form--whether based on mental health or neurodiversity--is unacceptable, and businesses have a responsibility to show respect and understanding for all customers. I strongly urge this bar to reflect on its policies, educate its staff about diversity and inclusion, and commit to treating every individual with dignity and compassion. Based on my experience, I cannot recommend this establishment for anyone who values acceptance, kindness, and respect for diversity. read more