Gotta love the original. Dear Irving has a couple locations, but this one is my favorite. Each section has a different elevated vibe and the cushion chairs make you sink in and not want to leave. I had some mocktails here and I can't wait to go back for the full cocktail list! Pro tip! There is a button at every seat and you turn on the light for the server to come! So you can get lost in conversation read more

Date: Monday, March 2nd, 2026 Time: around 8pm Party of: 1 Accolades: No.26 North America's 50 Best Bars 2022 *Whiskey Business ($21) *Tax ($1.86) I had a little bit of time to kill before heading to dinner. Since it was right next to where I was leaving my friends, I decided to see if I could get a seat at the bar without a reservation. I checked in with the host and she said they had room. So no rezzie needed that night when solo. The bar area is very dark and intimate. I only had time for one drink and decided on the one above. It was nicely balanced. I'm a whisky girl, especially rye, so I enjoyed sipping on this. A nice stop on the way to diner. I was here years ago, but that experience is a little hazy. Glad I was able to revisit. REVIEW #4002 read more

Dear Irving Gramercy - Whiskey Business ($21) - Venues & Event Spaces Near Me - New York, New York

Very cool place to have a drink. Was unusually cold. Four rooms we were in the second with a buzzer doorbell to get service. The 3rd room is a nice bar the 4th room is absolutely beautiful. Something out of Italy or France. Drinks pricey the service was adequate but the place is the star. We did order the charcuterie olives gouda bread was good. The cured meat was not good at all. Will be back for drinks read more

Dear Irving is what you imagine a New York speakeasy to be. It's a beautiful cocktail parlor in a few locations but we go to the Gramercy location. It's quaint, elegant, kitschy, and all things you want in a special cocktail experience. There are several rooms to choose from including the JFK room that looks like you're on the set of Mad Men. The Gatsby room is perfectly over the top in design and our favorite, the Marie Antoinette room with chandeliers, gilded stools and sofas. The cocktails are some of the best we had in the city. The menu is extensive with custom creations and classics, but their off-menu execution is exceptional. We've been to a lot of great places that encourage off menu, but it can be spotty if they get your request right. The bartenders are true pros and everything we ordered was delicious and represented exactly what we asked for. We think they're some kind of wizards. The service is as attentive as anywhere we've been. It's the right rhythm to always be there when you need them without being annoying. They have their model down cold which is why we go back almost every time we're back in NYC. The first cocktail we asked for was an old fashioned variation made with scotch and some holiday flavors like allspice, a rich Amaro, cinnamon, or whatever they were feeling. It ended up to be a nice balance of highland scotch, Montenegro (Amaro), banana liqueur, cinnamon syrup and Barspoon of Islay scotch. It was delicious (photo 2). The second was a whiskey flip. They mixed both rye whiskey and cognac for the base with Lucano Amaro, allspice, simple syrup and winter bitters. It was the perfect nightcap (photo 7). I can't recommend Dear Irving enough if you're looking for a memorable cocktail experience. Grab some friends and enjoy a special place. Salute @thejohnnycocktail #newyork #cocktails #cocktailphotography read more

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Perfect, intimate date night spot. Really cool option to have a button you can press when you need to call your waiter. Good drinks and nice menu selection. read more

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Very nice ambiance and interesting menu. The server was super nice but he brought me the wrong drink. He really was super nice and seemed like he was trying and maybe he was new? So I didn't want to say anything. I ended up with this blueberry whiskey drink and I thought it left a bitter and strange aftertaste that wasn't so pleasant. Would definitely say for the taste the bar is overpriced. read more

Dear Irving Gramercy - Venues & Event Spaces Near Me - New York, New York

Went for a drink after dinner. Great ambiance and nice service We ordered Green Acres cocktail (Mezcal, Tequila, Cilantro) and a glass of red wine - Bordeaux Cabernet Nice light music Will go again read more

Dear Irving Gramercy - Green Acres and Bordeaux Cabernet - Venues & Event Spaces Near Me - New York, New York

Absolutely loved the vibes at Dear Irving. The lounge seating paired with the beaded curtains adds a classy touch while still giving you a sense of privacy. Need to order? No problem, just press the button right next to your seat. Our party of five had an excellent time from start to finish. Perfect setting for a date or cocktails with friends! read more

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I came here with no reservation. We were able to walk in. I love the ambiance - dimly lit and warm. Some of the seating was tight and you would have to lean across the table to talk. There's couches in the back towards the end of the bar that's has more space and feels more open. I forgot the drink I got but it was strong and good! read more

Great ambiance cool decor. We had a small holiday work party here. I only had a few appetizers, but they were great. Friendly service too. read more

Met up with a friend in New York to have a few drinks and Dear Irving was the place we ended up going. This bar is super cute and they have an adorable drink menu. I already forgot what I ordered but it was nice and delicious. I do know that it was a whiskey-based drink similar to an old-fashioned. The bar tenders are also super nice. Had a fun night and that is all that matters! read more

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Very cool experience, we had a larger party (6 people) and had a reservation - all our drinks were incredible. The building has such an amazing blend of old school, New York with 10 press ceilings and a splash of art deco. read more

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Finally crossed this speakeasy off of my bookmark list. Came here with a friend to check this spot out. We booked a reservation on Resy last minute for 10PM, but walked in about 30 minutes earlier to see if they could seat us earlier, which they had the space to do so. A lot of couples on dates, group of friends, and even families check the place out. Loved the decor that matches the prohibition era. I tried the Xantolo ($21), which is a mezcal drink with tequila, spiced pineapple, and lime. Tasted smoky, has that distinct mezcal taste, while also having that tropical pineapple taste to sweeten the drink. Perfectly made to my tastebuds. I also got the Phoenicia Old Fashioned ($21), which more bitter than I'm used to for a typical Old Fashioned. Overall, great service and fantastic drinks. The menu is a bit overwhelming, but there's probably something for everybody. read more

Came to this super cute cocktail bar with my friends. I loved the atmosphere, it was perfect for sitting and chatting comfortably. The drinks were also good! Would come back! read more

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We didn't make a reservation but we're sat down within 15 minutes. Great decor and great service, plus great drinks. Super cute date spot. read more

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Still a fan of Dear Irving. Feeling adventurous? Tell your server or bartender what you like and see what they come up with. I've not been disappointed once. When I'm not going for a dealer's choice, my current fave drink is the Gibson. read more

Dear Irving Gramercy - Hat in the hand - Venues & Event Spaces Near Me - New York, New York

Overall: I went here on a Friday night with my wife. We went in and asked for a table, but it was a 45 minute wait. When we finally got our names called we were seated immediately. It's got a really cool atmosphere with plenty of room and cool ambiance. Drinks were good, but nothing blew us away. Service was pretty horrible. Overall, it was a decent place, but it was quite a wait, pretty expensive, and the service was bad. I don't think I'll be back. Drinks: 4 Service: 2 Value: 3 Atmosphere: 4 Drinks: We each got a drink off of the 'Earth Elements' section of the menu. I got the 'Thinking Cap', which had cacao and shiitake mushrooms. I thought it was really unique. My wife got the 'Green Acres'. She said it had some interesting ingredients, but was basically just a spicy marg. Service: They had lights by each table similar to a call button on an airplane except that they didn't actually call anyone, just turned on an annoying red light. When we asked for our check, someone dropped off the check and ran away immediately, even though I was trying to hand my card to them. We didn't get much attention and it seemed like we were a bit forgotten. They seemed eager to close for the night. Value: Each drink was around $20. They're all pretty small so not great value, but they are well made and tasty. Atmosphere: The atmosphere here is really cool. There's interesting decorations everywhere and it's dimly lit with lots of barriers between the different seats so you feel like you're sort of isolated. Its not one of those cocktail bars that tries to pack people in. read more

Pretty comfy fun bar. Theres many different areas with different vibes. The back room is really great. read more

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Good drinks and good food. Cool bar with nice decor. Had some dumplings (nice and crispy) and some sliders.

Xantolo is THE drink for any mezcal and spice loving aficionado. Spirits instantly lifted along with the super accommodating staff who seated our party of 2 even though we missed our reservation window. Can't say the same for the drunk "bruhs" who knocked over parts of the vestibule on their way out. If you plan to get shit faced, go to a dive bar not Dear Irving. read more

My fiancé made reservations here to celebrate right after she proposed, and let me tell you, it was absolutely perfect. Honestly, the ambiance is the star of the show--imagine cozy, plush couches and this dreamy Victorian-inspired vibe (I think that's what you'd call it, though I might be wrong, haha). It's just so warm and inviting, making it feel like you're in a special little hideaway. As if that wasn't sweet enough, they greeted us with complimentary champagne and a beautiful "congratulations" card, which is still proudly displayed on our fridge! The staff was so lovely, and everything about our visit just made it feel like a place we'll always hold near and dear :) read more

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Stopped in with a friend for a drink and had a great experience. She got a French 75 & i got a bartenders choice citrus gin drink. Vibes were great would be a cute date spot read more

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I actually liked the ambiance and the drinks. But it's too bad I'll never come back and it's pointless to elaborate on what I ordered and what exactly I liked because THEY DECIDED TO ADD EXTRA TO THE TIP I ALREADY GAVE. Tipping culture is already out of control and Dear Irving decides it could be worse Thankfully it was easy and trouble free to dispute the charge with my credit card company. read more

This place is a true 5 stars. All of the cocktails and food that I tried were delicious. I would say that these are some of the best drinks in Manhattan, and trust any cocktails on their menu. Service was amazing. I asked questions, let the servers know what I like/dislike - and all of their recommendations were spot on. I was very surprised how great the food was! How good could a slider be? Caesar salad bites can't be that great, right? Wrong - here they are actually delicious and so worth getting! Do not skip out! Items my party tried: Tell No Tales, Marble Shore, Cottage Collins, Wagyu Sliders, Caesar Salad Bites - I recommend all of these, but I would trust everything on their menu read more

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Great vibes for drinks. Love the old timey, exclusive feel. The service is quick. Expect to spend $20+ for a cocktail, but each one is so creative and unique. Definitely recommend - and make a reservation ahead of time! read more

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This is a very cool speakeasy bar in Union Square and I had the pleasure of coming here twice last week. The cocktails are outrageously delicious and I like the snacks. The nuts and olives are awesome. The ambience is A+ read more

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Dim lightning, speakeasy vibes, Victorian decor, amazing drinks, multiple seating areas, friendly and attentive staff. It's a charming cocktail bar with a delightful ambiance. The dimmed lighting creates a classy and dreamy atmosphere. Overall, it was a fantastic experience and will definitely visit again in the future. read more

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Came here for drinks and it was awesome! I had a manhattan and my friend a martini. Service was great. A very cool ambiance. I can't wait to go back! read more

Fun spot for cocktails with a great ambience. When plans fell through for a reservation at a different happy hour spot, Dear Irving staff was nice enough to let us take a lot of the space in the private back room, which we appreciated. The couches are pretty comfy and is conducive for larger groups. I love the switches on the wall one can use to call staff over (when you're ready to order, need a refill, etc.). It's a fun location to get drinks and catch up with friends. They are standard NYC cocktail prices, but they are creative drinks in terms of name and ingredients. I'd recommend! read more

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I kicked off my birthday weekend at Dear Irving Gramercy with a friend. The vibe - Perfect for a cute date or pre dinner drinks if you want to impress someone. The food - Decent, not amazing. We had the lobster guacamole, wagyu sliders, and potato croquettes. The sliders were the standout--bonus points for the cute logo branded on the buns. The cocktails were a mixed bag. My friend's margarita was too sweet, and my lemon drop was just meh. We had to send them back to be fixed, but hey, it happens. Our server was efficient and courteous. She gave me a free cocktail for my birthday that was actually better than my lemon drop...can't remember the name but it was a pear something... Come here for the ambience, not for a culinary masterpiece. I'd still go back for the vibes, though! read more

Came for some drinks recently and had a good time. The drinks were really good, lot of simple twists on classics that are a bit unique and they seemed to work quite well. Really liked my cocktails. The food was better than expected - a very small menu and rather pricey but I quite liked the croque monsieur mini sandwiches as well as the other little bites. Service was super friendly but a bit slow - they said to use this light switch when we needed someone for another round or the like but the system didn't seem to work great. I'd return though read more

This place is a staple and go to, especially when we have friends over. I've been here a few times and this time I took my sister and friend. Service is fun and quick, good recommendations. It's beautiful inside with different rooms that have different vibes. Every drink I've had there has been fantastic. We also ordered the charcuterie board at one point which was delicious and fun to eat. Can't wait to come back! read more

It's affordable, the ambiance is pretty cool, and there are lots and lots of drinks. If you like whiskey based ones though I would look to Raines Law Room. But there are more fruit-forward drinks at Dear Irving. I think for what it is, this is a good place to go. Better than most bars and the selection is great. read more

Dear Irving Gramercy - Whiskey Business - Venues & Event Spaces Near Me - New York, New York

Bourbon based cocktails are the way to go here if you are into the brown stuff. The menu is season I believe. However, other cocktails are probably made just as well so cannot really go wrong from our experience. This was a fun cocktail bar and lounge where drinks are good and strong for the most part. A nicely decorated lounge with cushioned velvet chairs are located in the back, separate from the main bar area. The call buttons for when ready to re/order, yep, drinks are a nice touch. Difficult to get Resy reservations but a walk-in is doable. Put your name/phone number down and just wait at the bar next door. A text is sent 15 minutes before table is ready. read more

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This place is just... cool. The ambiance is perfect, the vibe swirls around like a mudslide but you'll never find a dull drink like that here. The bourbon drinks hit just right and while the service was okay, the prices quite high, the time spent was great. I think it was about 6 months ago maybe 9; My lovely date and I passed the place a couple times (across the street) until she spotted it, we popped in, put our name down, and zipped back over to the corner bar. Got the text our spot was almost ready and dashed back over where I sat first. Had a buzz when the hostess or somebody told me to buzz the little doorbell when I wanted service and sort of forgot that detail when it came time to make up our minds... but after looking around and it catching the corner of my eye, it all clicked and I pushed the button like I was trick or treating for brown liquor. It was a fun, sexy sort of time and I'd be surprised if that review I just read about a "business meeting" didn't end a little differently than she said; lol. Splurge on a round or two but if you're like me you're not spending the night draining your bank account in one cool place; on to the next! read more

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It's fine I guess. Cocktails are good, service was decent, atmosphere is nice...it just feels kinda dated in the sense that it reminds me of the cocktail scene in like 2017 when everything was just riffs on classics. I had two drinks: the tinderbox (a little spicy mezcal drink) was fun. My second drink was the weaving weber (basically a tequila old fashioned) that I thought was really tasty but it was a $28 cocktail so at that price point it better be. Honestly a good half of the menu are riffs on classic dark liquor cocktails (manhattans & old fashioneds). They don't seem to have anything inventive featuring vodka or gin. There's lip service to pisco, tequila, and mezcal, but those cocktails feel safe and obligatory. Good, bad, or ugly? Honestly, none of the above. The best adjective I can use is boring. [Aside, I also hate the 'button' method of service - it's fun as a novelty but as with the entire cocktail menu reeks of 8 years ago] read more

Sleek lounge vibes with call buttons to summon your server. Stopped by this cocktail bar right when it opened since we didn't have reservations. Great spot to get a drink before dinner. It's warm and cozy feel inside with buttons behind each pair of seats to call for your sever. They had good drinks and interesting small bites. Good stop overall. read more

Dear Irving Gramercy - Venues & Event Spaces Near Me - New York, New York

Cool spot in Gramercy! Funky dark bar and seating area with many original cocktails. Friendly staff and steps away from Union Square, Craft and other great spots. read more

Came by on a Saturday around 5pm. There were still seats available, but they were filling up quick during my time there. They have seasonal drinks, but it's interesting that they still had drinks that featured fall fruits and spices. Ended up getting the Cuzco Fizz which was a drink that was featured for Women's History month. It was refreshing and light. Honestly loved the sugar coated grapes that came with the drink. The alcohol was completely masked, but it was strong enough to get me a little buzzed from one drink. The drink also supports women as a part of the proceeds get donated. The place is a nice and cozy vibe. read more

Dear Irving Gramercy - Cuzco Fizz - Venues & Event Spaces Near Me - New York, New York

Fantastic experience in a space that stands out in the NYC landscape. We were greeted at the door by a friendly attendant who helped get us seated at a dark candle lit table for two. The space has shimmering elements and a very cool floor inlay. We loved the button system of calling the wait staff as well, was efficient and less awkward overall. Our server was friendly and attentive and the drinks including the mocktail were delicious, some of the best in a long time. read more