What a humiliating, frustrating, maddening experience I had at this Walgreens this morning.
My three-year-old son and I stopped in to pickup a few things. I have never been in this store before, so I had no idea what it looked like or who worked there. We were in there for about 5 minutes and had four items to buy- supposed to be a quick trip, easy, in-and-out and home.
We went up to the register to pay. The cashier (I didn't see his name, but it was a man with black-dyed hair in a ponytail) informed me that my son didn't need to wear a mask. (Side note- the cashier was maskless, my son and I had masks on). This is like day four or five of the "masks not required if your vaccinated" rule. Okay, here's where I should have just nodded and said, "Okay, next time. Thanks." But instead I said, "Well, he's not vaccinated, so we're being careful." The cashier said, "Kids don't need to be vaccinated, it does more harm than good, this vaccine is new, the side-effects are more harmful than the vaccine benefits." Well, that was too much for me. I got mad! I basically told him that the vaccine is not new- it's the same technology as the 2003 SARS vaccine, just designed for this virus. "I understand that ma'am, but Covid is not harmful to children." WTF?! Children are not 100% immune to Covid, children have died and, thank God, not many, but it's heartbreaking for many families. I said, "Clearly you don't understand how it works." I told him the vaccine triggers the response in your immune system to recognize and fight the Covid virus, then the "ingredients" are gone. He told me that he's a scientist, so he does understand, and kids don't need it. WTF!? That's when I started to get emotional. What right does he have to tell me what to do? But he told me he's a dad, his son is 21. And then my son panicked because I was getting upset. And the other Walgreens employee was starting at me like I was some sort of alien, and other people in the store were watching this go down. I couldn't even finish my transaction, my adrenaline was going and I was shaking. I haven't had such a rude encounter with a stranger in a long time. And the fact that my son saw this man talk to me this way was heartbreaking, not to mention he was in tears because I was upset. Who goes into a Walgreens to be spoken too like they're stupid? Or told how to parent their child?
PSA to Walgreens - it's been a hard year for everyone.
Everyone is navigating this post-vaccine, masks-optional world together. Everyone is doing the best they can, making decisions they believe are the best for them and their families. If you're comfortable wearing your mask, go ahead! We're all used to seeing strangers this way. If you can't wait to burn your masks under a fill moon, go ahead! Most people hate wearing them! They're awful!
I am vaccinated and have been for a few months. My son is not. My son is small, he's a child, he isn't vaccinated. General rule is if you're not vaccinated you should wear a mask. So, why does Walgreens think they need to educate the public? Especially mothers, who have sacrificed so much this past year and a half!
At least, this was an opportunity to teach my son about resilience, and not letting a stranger ruin your day (Father's Day, no less!). After we took some deep breaths, and I reassured him that "Mommy's okay," we had a talk in the car that sometimes people are mean and bullies, and you have to learn how to deal with them. No one expects it from a store employee, though. read more