Where do I begin?
After a softball game and grocery shopping, my fiancée and I decided to stop by for a beverage or 3 and some food. Friday's always has some type of mix drink specials and $5 apps that made it seem like a sensible choice.
(Disclaimer: we have been to this Friday's a few times and always got good service from the bartenders.)
The reason for the disclaimer is because I wanted this review to carry merit from our multiple experiences with Friday's, and to inform the readers that what is coming next will be real.
The few times my fiancée and I were there, we notice the patrons are what brings this place down. If you read my other reviews, my baby and I like to frequent dive bars mostly, and bars the have good eye candy for all. Well not Friday's (at night). Friday's has always been a sausage fest, but that is no big deal because I bring my own sand to the beach.
The main problem with this is the low rent mentality that many of the patrons seem to display. Once again, didn't really bother me much, because I have my lady with me and as long as they leave me be, I have no issues. However, with this mentality in the air, it's easy to see that this place would only get worst.
With all that blah blah said, let's talk about last night. We walk into Friday's around 10pm, and mofos are fighting in the bar area! Grown a$$ adults literally fighting. You would think at this point, I should leave...nooope not us, we take our seat at the bar and watch the crowd of people run, rumble, and work to push the disturbance outside. MoCo's finest finally show up and control the situation.
I know it's wrong for me to blame Friday's for their customers actions, and what we gathered, the staff did jump in to attempt to control the situation. However...here is why Friday's got one star.
- because i couldn't rate them a zero
- because the LACK of control the manager possessed with his employees. Allowing employees to still run their mouths about the situation long after the police had dissolved the situation did not make the remaining customers night better. Allowing ALL your bar employees to stand around while the police are there and the customers needs become second or third.
- because if you (manager) are going to allowing your employees and involved customers sit around talking about it, YOU CANNOT SIT AROUND AND TALK ABOUT IT WITH THEM.
- because Friday's allow kids (under 18, but we also saw kids under 12) in the bar area, even after this fight.
- because EVERYONE knew each other. Meaning, if you have approx 30 people in the bar area, and ALL 30 seem to know each other by first name, including the manager, there is something wrong.
We love dives and respect bar personnel creating a family atmosphere with everyone knowing each other. this is normal and appreciated by us. Friday's though? It's not a dive, and how do you get so friendly with patrons that look to barely be over 21 (questionable). Following a fight, this lends me to believe that week in week out, these same folks are at Friday's.
- because the manager allowed the other patrons (ones that seem to not start the fight, but took pleasure in jumping in to throw punches and kicks, to stay in the restaurant. I feel all involved parties should have been asked to leave immediately. Get the negative vibe out and show that crap will not be tolerated, regardless of fault.
- because after the fight and all had cleared (11pm), the doors were still open like nothing happened, and all we saw were more MFing young a$$ dudes coming in. I feel the doors should have been locked at this time especially 1045-11pm. No new customers, and allow existing customers to complete their meal with peace of mind. (You don't really get to relax when you overhear the manager telling his friends/customers that the assailants ran away. One with some common sense would feel a little threatened that someone could double back, re-enter with the intent to cause serious damage or get revenge. Who knows? But lock the f'ing door.
- finally, because we will never go back. It's a shame too, because it's right up the street from our house. Their food is consistent and special are ok. They offer music and good people watching. The shame comes from the lack of authority there and the feeling of a free for all.
- this place needs security just to give the presence of authority.
I know anyone that reads this review may be foolish enough to think that race and/or sex strongly influence my review. Noooope, wrong. If that was the case, I would not have returned after a few visits. We have tried to give this place a chance, only to be disappointed with the bullsh*t from the restaurant not being able to get out of its own way.
I will end with this. If you work everyday for your money, have love for people, and enjoy the simpler or fancier things in life...avoid this place. If you are a b*tcha$$ and a low rent simpleton. This place is for you.
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