My boyfriend and I went to this Ralphs on the night of Friday, April 5th to get some alcohol and mixers because we were visiting a friend and wanted to take some drinks to contribute. The store is very nicely laid out and clean. However, the customer service is downright despicable. We had the marvelous privilege of dealing with a cashier named Helen C. She was downright rude and put a damper on our moods. My boyfriend, who is a Ralph's employee in Irvine, started to hand Helen his identification and employee Ralph's card. Afterall, this is an alcohol sale and identification is required. Helen snapped without hesitation, "I don't want that, you scan it yourself!". This was clearly in recognition of the Ralphs discount card. Quite simply, the biting attitude was entirely uncalled for. Without a word, my boyfriend scanned the card himself and again tried to offer Helen his identification for the alcohol. She snatched it out of his hand and then in dramatic fashion eyed the card, front and back, then eyed my boyfriend and I up and down in entirely uncomfortable fashion while mumbling incoherently under her breath. Her deafly rude silence and evil glare was more than enough to express what a miserable person she must be. It was entirely uncalled for. After being satisfied with the identification, she wouldn't even hand it back politely. She slammed it down on the small customer counter space and wouldn't make eye contact. We remained trying to be friendly and wished her a good night. Afterall, we have no idea if she was having a bad day or going through rough times, so perhaps remaining polite could help ease whatever she was going through. Not at all. It made no difference. Upon wishing her a good night, she would not even respond to us. She turned her back and in a complete 180 and as she recognized the next customer in line, became an entirely different character. She actually acted excited to see these customers and was putting on a friendly front. It was complete BS!!! I was at a loss for words. We stood there for a split second, gathering our items. I almost wanted to say something then and there. But, did not. I simply tried to remind myself that perhaps she was having a bad day and perhaps she was friends with these new customers and they were able to lighten her mood. I gave her the benefit of the doubt.... But, upon reaching our friends house, he was surprised we had stopped and gotten drinks to contribute, as he had told us we did not need to bring anything. In simple conversation, our experience with Helen came up. Without even describing what this woman looked like, he started laughing and knew EXACTLY who we were talking about. Our friend lives mere blocks from this Ralphs location and explained that he has had to deal with her for years. He claimed that the woman will sometimes speak to his mother when they are at the store together. But, anytime he has been there alone and gone through her line, he meets the biggest attitude he has ever encountered with a cashier. He went on to explain his experiences of Helen being so completely rude to him, then nice as can be to someone she obviously knows. He had a few "choice words" to describe her rude behavior! We summed it up that she must be entirely homophobic. We had no other way to explain it.
But, now I come onto Yelp to share my experience and I am SHOCKED to see so many other reviews point out how evil Helen is. Seriously?! There are multiple reviews over the course of quite some timespan, from customers that have encountered Helen's bad attitude. Now, reading these reviews, I see our experience shared by many.... Whether they feel she is racist, or homophobic (as was our only explanation for her actions), etc. she obviously profiles customers and presents her hatred quite regularly. I can't find a way to rationalize this ill behavior. It is very unsettling to so the least. My boyfriend found himself very upset by the experience. Him, having worked at Ralphs for several years, is aware of how the company wants employees to interact with customers. Customers are supposed to be number one! Employees are supposed to be friendly and welcoming. Helen clearly missed this lesson in being a good employee. After having our own experience, then hearing from our friend about his experiences with Helen, then coming onto Yelp and reading plenty of other customers that have taken time to share their story about Helen, I am confused and downright appalled at why or how she manages to work for Ralphs. The company really should be ashamed to have such a rude and hateful person working for them. She gives this store location a very bad name. This employee really needs to be evaluated and dealt with!!!!
Location:
217151 Lake Forest Drive
Cashier: Helen C.
Date: 04/05/19 -- 09:16 PM
Receipt #: 79 5 101 105
Mng: Chris Boucher
Phone: 949-855-1241 read more