My girlfriend and I were excited to celebrate her birthday here at Tom Ham's Lighthouse!!! We were super lucky to walk in and get seated right away. The restaurant is out on the end of the harbor, with a beautiful view of the sea. You have to get up stairs on the top floor for the restaurant, with an elevator also on the side. We were served by Christina, although it took quite a long time to be approached and order. She was sweet though and we picked out what we wanted. I got the calamari for our shared appetizer, then I ordered the paella and my girlfriend got the salmon. The calamari was crunchy and delicious, and was seasoned very well!!! The sauce on the side was like sweet soy sauce. This dish came out very quick!!! Like less than a couple minutes after ordering!!! We however waited for a pretty long time for our entrees. I figured it was because of the busy day. Downstairs there was a private engagement reception room going on!!! Luckily the ambiance and setting of this place kept us relaxed and calm, and the weather was beautiful!!! We were both pleased with the food when it finally came and were so hungry that we ate the plates clean. After we finished eating, Christina was sweet and sang happy birthday to my girlfriend, lighting a candle on the brownie dessert plate we chose. It was very soft and warm, deliciously created with the caramel and chocolate drizzles!!! Overall a fantastic end to our night, so we were very grateful. As we were leaving, many people were coming in and I'm sure it was because they were trying to get the sunset views. Such a nice classy place to go out and eat at!!! Perfect for a seafood craving as well. read more

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Discovered Tom Ham's Lighthouse while in San Diego! One word...youmustgoforbrunch! I started at the bar with the Mai Tai.. holy cow... This is not for the thing at heart! Enjoyed the brunch featuring seafood lobster claws crab pasta omelet station and everything in between.... Finished off with dessert selections and a nap. Service was excellent....and the view by the bay is as good as it gets in San Diego. Treat yourself and visit Tom Ham's Lighthouse read more

Tom Ham's Lighthouse - Sunday Brunch - Breakfast & Brunch Near Me - San Diego, California

These bozos add a 5% suitcharge to the check. Just pay the fair wages, and charge the fair and full menu amount in the first place, and don't hide fees like this. Tom would roll over in his grave! Maybe I'll.go to his grave and tell him what his asshat family members are up to. You are like the idiots at the hotels and airlines with all the hidden fees. Games suck, and so does the ownership at Tom Hams. read more

We came for happy hour and got a table outside. We had 4 people. Later 2 more people joined us, so we got a second table next to it. ( They don't allow more than 4 people per table outside) They have a great happy hour that includes $2 off Small Bites and $3 off Appetizers. The Chicken Lollipops and the Steak Bites were delicious! You can also get oysters on happy hour. Our server was very accommodating and we really appreciated him - I believe his name was Gilbert. I'm going to check with the others that were there to verify his name. And the view can't be beat! It just can't be beat! read more

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Short on Time, too Long to read Review: Great service, amazing reviews, creamy pasta and flavorful soup. Steak and potatoes okay. Long review: Firstly, the views were amazing. Especially at 530pm. Suns slightly going down and your finishing dinner by the time it's dark outside. Our waitress was great. Constantly checking on us and ensuring we were doing okay. Soup of the day was lobster bisque and it was so creamy, had the hint of lobster taste and just enough to truly be set as an appetizer. The linguine noodles were clumped together, which is my only negative review. Typically I enjoy not having large clumps together. Clams were cooked well and the sauce was great, you could taste the hint of white wine without being over dominating. The portion was great enough to have left overs. The NY Steak was okay. We asked for Medium Rare and it came out more on the medium side. The potatoes were a nice texture. I would say for the price the steak may not be worth it. Overall a great experience while in SD. read more

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Love at First Light Stunning family-owned restaurant situated along the San Diego shores that's been in operation for over fifty years (ca. 1971) and even features a working US Coast Guard maintained beacon. The Good: *Renovated back in 2014, the interior of the restaurant is almost as stunning as the surroundings and views from the dining room. *Heated outdoor dining area (see "The Meh" below) *Local beers on-tap, as well as a full bar. *Reservations via OpenTable *The downstairs are rentable event spaces *Service from "Desiree L" was fantastic. *The Chicken Lollipops weren't quite what we were expecting, but holy-fucking-shit were they delicious! We were all fighting over the last ones. *We love a good Beet Salad and theirs was very good. My only complaint was I wish they'd use a blue or feta cheese instead of the burrata, but I'm probably in the minority on that. *Overall, the paella was good but I didn't get any soccarat (crispy rice from the bottom of the pan) w/ it. The Meh: *Service dogs only on the patio The Ugly: *The fact that they're not within a reasonable driving range from our place. :( Conclusion: Honestly, this place has everything we want in a restaurant: gorgeous interior, spectacular views, stellar service, good beer, and delicious food. Is *ALL* that really too much to ask?? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ read more

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My family and I made reservations for the Easter buffet brunch in advance. It was $95 per person plus some surcharges, taxes & other fees. Only coffee, water, juice included. Made to order omelet & pasta station. I thought my omelet needed to be cooked longer. Plenty of different options for all. Some of the food needed more seasoning. I wish the egg for the eggs benedict was runny. Overall it was good but probably not worth the price. read more

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Honestly, you're coming here for the view -- and that part absolutely delivers. The waterfront setting is beautiful and feels special, especially around sunset. That's 100% the highlight. The food was pretty good, but not mind-blowing. Everything tasted fresh and decent. Service was friendly and attentive though, which I appreciated. read more

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Tom Ham's is a beautiful restaurant with beautiful views. I came for restaurant week and not only that menu was extensive but the regular menu too. The oyster menu is great. I had the RW 3 course menu (lobster brisque, short ribs, and NY cheesecake) and everything was great. My server, Abby was really friendly and attentive. Overall I give this restaurant a 10 out of 10 and I will for sure be back. read more

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I'm so glad Tom Ham's Lighthouse on Harbor Drive is featured in San Diego Restaurant Week because the venue, service, and food were all outstanding. As soon as we sat down, Jamie came over with a big smile and introduced himself. I mentioned we were very hungry and needed to eat right away, and he made sure we didn't wait long at all. Our shrimp ceviche arrived almost immediately, followed by the blackened salmon BLT with a generous portion of perfectly crunchy French fries. The portions were huge. Even dessert impressed us. The New York cheesecake wasn't a thin slice, but a substantial square cube. While the food was excellent, the venue truly steals the show. The restaurant overlooks the harbor with beautiful views all the way to Coronado. Great food, attentive service, and a stunning setting. This is a place we'll definitely be returning to soon. read more

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My wife and I went to a really fun event here at Tom Hamm's Lighthouse last night. It was called Brews, Views & Barbecue. They featured beers on tap from Kairoa Brewing Company, paired with absolute genius food pairings put together by Tom Hams Lighthouses Master Chef. When I say "Master Chef" I mean it! We started out with the grilled oysters, cowboy butter, quail egg, and bacon, grilled to perfection. These oysters were huge, like a big bowl full of oyster goodness! The quail egg was over easy and the oyster combined with the yolk of the egg, bacon, and cowboy butter were just genius! It was paired with Lion Heart Helles Lager, great lager, probably one of the best I have ever had. Then on to the smoked tuna fish dip. Green onions, buttery sourdough, and wasabi caviar. The smoked tuna with all of the added ingredients reminded me of foie gra, and it tasted amazing! Paired with Back Paddock, New Zealand Style Pilsner, it was good, very clean and refreshing, and ice cold. On to the TEXAS TWINKIES! Bacon wrapped jalapeño, stuffed with smoked brisket and cream cheese, with steakhouse aioli, this was my second favorite of the night. It was paired with Low Key, Session Hazy IPA. The Low Key was very hoppy, and I love a really hoppy IPA. Next, was the brisket bahn mi. Smoked brisket, cucumber, radish, and sriracha aioli, textbook bahn mi sandwich, and the smoked brisket really stood out on a proper bread. It was paired with Ripped Pants Revenge, a West Coast IPA. The Ripped Pants stood on its own, a very nice beer. Warm Cajon Lobster Roll was next on the pairing menu, Maine lobster meat, Cajun plugra cream sauce, Andouille sausage, on a PERFECT bun! This one was my favorite of the night. The lobster roll had everything you would expect on it but the mix was done so perfectly that you could taste every ingredient perfectly. My mouth is watering writing that sentence! It was paired with Sparkle Boiz Australian Sparking Ale. This Ale was so cold, clean, and delicious, it paired perfectly with the lobster roll without overpowering the pairing. This combo was absolute chef magic! Last on the menu was Peach Glazed Pork Belly, over Fontina polenta, and topped with an arugula pesto sauce. The three ingredients blended together for a sweet, tangy, savory blend of flavor with a little spice in the background. It was paired with White Peach Crush fruited hazy IPA. The IPA was good, and it complemented the dish perfectly. We ate until we almost couldn't move, all while listening to a really good DJ and his really great mix of tunes. The view of the bay was spectacular but the food, the beers, and the service were so awesome that we really enjoyed it most of all. Tom Ham's Lighthouse is celebrating 55 years of serving San Diegans with a full year of special events, monthly featured dinner dishes, and limited time experiences that honor their history and the community that's been a part of Tom Ham's since 1971. Give this place a visit, go to the events and be amazed at the staff, the food, and the best view in San Diego. I really want to give a shout out to the Master Chef for the pairings he put together. Sometimes you get to eat at a place where the chef just knows what things taste good together and the presentations were some of the best things I have ever eaten. Then he goes around mingling with the guests, answering questions, and representing his kitchen and staff. You can't beat that kind of culinary experience, especially for $77 per person, all you can eat and drink! read more

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The fourth consecutive year we've had Thanksgiving at Tom Ham's Lighthouse. Not surprisingly, it was the fourth consecutive year that we had the greatest Thanksgiving ever. The buffet is to die for! Something for everyone. While some hit up the traditional Thanksgiving food (turkey and prime rib carving stations, mashed potatoes, etc.), you'll find me at the Grand Seafood Buffet. Maine Lobster Claws, Snow Crab Legs, Oysters and Scallops On The Half Shell, Shrimp Ceviche, Peel and Eat Shrimp, New England Clam Chowder and Lobster Bisque. Those are the only items I chose! Well, except for a plate of Herbed Panko Mac N Cheese that I mixed with a whole bunch of lobster meat! See you next year Tom! read more

Love coming to this spot! The drinks are always delicious. The view is to die for- sunny, cloudy or rainy it's always going to be stunning! We had some out of town friends come visit and this was a must go to place to show off San Diego! Bar seating service was a little slow but that's okay, we were inside and most guests were outside. read more

Tom Ham's Lighthouse - Breakfast & Brunch Near Me - San Diego, California

What a delightful little place -- metaphorically little not literally. My aunt and I stumbled upon it late afternoon after lunch hours but before dinner. They said there was an appetizer menu. We expected small bites with mid prices. The salads were tasty and huge! Auntie had lobster bisque and I had the tenderloin in addition to our salads. Rather we tried! Tasty and abundant for the price. Fantastic views and free parking. Say yes!!! read more

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Wow! Wow! Wow! I was taken to this restaurant by surprise....and wow! I was surprised! Loved the lobster claws! They were fresh and fantastic! Tried the desserts, the crème brûlée was outstanding! Had to go back for seconds. Had the prime rib which was not bad, I prefer a medium rare. Service was outstanding and the seating outside with the bay view was fantastic. Brunch of a lifetime! read more

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The view was beautiful but for the price and the service, I was disappointed. Glad I checked it out but won't be back

Went here for a work dinner with a colleague. Site was easily accessible, inviting, staff were very friendly and professional. I had the Salmon dinner with steamed vegetables. Everything was cooked wonderfully, and flavors were enjoyable. It was overkill for a work dinner but it would be amazing for dates and celebrating milestones. If I lived in San Diego, my wife and I would definitely be on-site weekly to enjoy the bar top and the beautiful view. There was a Brews, Views, and BBQ event tonight I wish I could have attended! read more

Tom Ham's Lighthouse - View from the patio seating. - Breakfast & Brunch Near Me - San Diego, California

One of my favorites. Their food is always delicious. The views are amazing and perfect for a sunny day or romantic evening. I've been here with my husband as well as with friends! Highly recommend as their service is always very professional and prompt. read more

Had the opportunity to attend a wedding at Tom Ham's Lighthouse and I really admired and enjoyed not only the views of the water and downtown skyline, but the level of service that was provided by the staff. The lighthouse features their own parking lot which is a plus for anyone who chose to drive themselves. The Lighthouse was two story with their main restaurant and bar on the top floor and the bottom floor reserved for private events. We were able to explore a few different rooms including the main ballroom. The food was very tasty and and drinks were definitely flowing. I really enjoyed the special touch of a glass of bubbles as we were waiting for the ceremony itself. It was a great time and a venue I'd recommend folks checking out. read more

We came here for Sunday brunch on our wedding anniversary and they did not disappoint! For $78 per person and they include crab crab, lobster, oyster, scallops, etc. you cannot go wrong. Yes they add a 5% surcharge to every bill, but come on , seafood buffet for under $80?!! You can't beat it! Also, the views are spectacular and my wife was very happy that we came here. Eddie provided exceptional service and all the staff were very nice and welcoming . What are you waiting for people? Bring your stretchy pants and come and indulge here. read more

Love this place! While having a mini vacay on Harbor Island, we went two days in a row b/c we liked it so much! For one thing, it's a great view of North Island, watching boats and ships. The food and service was excellent. We ordered the avocado/turkey sandwich both times. Perfection! Bread was toasted sourdough, and not too greasy. Loaded w/ yummy avocado, turkey and bacon. We didn't want fries as a side, and asked Angel, our server for other options. He suggested lobster bisque--it was delicious. Angel recognized us right away from the day before; he's a great waiter. All of the staff was friendly and efficient. Next time we visit S.D., we will check it out for the dinner menu! Totally recommend this restaurant. read more

Went here with a group of 6 on a weekend. It was just ok, for the price (about $80) I don't think I'll be back. There were lots of stations available, but everything was pretty mediocre. I got the crab legs, which are served cold, and had so much water in them it kept shooting everywhere when you opened them. The benedicts were overcooked, so the egg was not runny at all. I tried a bit of most of the dishes, but again nothing was good, just ok, and some of them were nit as warm as they should have been. The desserts were pretty good, and i liked that they had ice cream, but think soft serve machines would have been better. I did like the mini pancakes and French toast. The service was good, a little slow at times. I think the menus could use some refreshing as they are a bit beat up. It is a very spacious location and can accommodate large groups so that's a plus. read more

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We decided to try Tom Ham's since it was close to our hotel near the marina. Situated at the western end of the Marina peninsula, Tom Ham's Lighthouse enjoys a commanding presence overlooking the bay. The restaurant offers private dining and event spaces on its 1st floor and primary dining on the floor 2 (upper level). It has an elevator for those needing additional assistance. We are continuing our October Birthday celebration, which included a 2-day stay in Vancouver, BC, a 12-day Pacific Coast Cruise on the NCL Jade, and our final destination in San Diego for 6-days. The Tom Ham's front staff were very welcoming and we were seated immediately. We had decided to do an early dinner before the crowd arrives. To that point, as the evening progressed this place got real busy. There was a wedding reception taking place in one of the lower level event spaces. The outside deck filled quickly as did the indoor dining space. Our server Gilberto T. was attentive and accommodating. He provided top notch service during our dinner. We began the evening with Sauvignon Blanc and an Old Fashioned featuring Woodford bourbon. Next came the appetizer, Platter #1 which included oysters, clams, scallops, jumbo shrimp, and mussels for $55. If we had a do over, would've gone for Platter #2 which provided more of everything and added half a lobster. We shared a chopped Caesar salad. The seafood was fresh and the Romaine lettuce, crisp! Next up were our entrees, the Creamy Tuscan Salmon and the Crispy Whole Roasted Fish. The Salmon was nicely seared and included artichokes, baby spinach, sundried tomatoes, capers, Parmesan, and Orecchiette pasta. The Crispy Roasted Fish was a New Zealand Red Snapper which included plugria buttered rice, zucchini squash, roasted tomatoes, arugula pesto, and saffron aioli. The snapper was a real nice size and not overcooked. My only issue was the amount of rice included with this entree, way too much in my opinion. For dessert we tried the New York Cheesecake and the Creme Brule, both were delicious! This restaurant offers stunning views of downtown San Diego and the bay, and good food. read more

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Easter Sunday Brunch = Huge disappointment! First time ever to Tom Ham's with the whole family. Saw a YouTube review of the Sunday brunch so we expected high end amazing Easter seafood brunch @ $100 per person... Well, the view and location is amazing! The food, sorry to say, was not good. Nothing was fresh except probably the salad. If you go, insist on upstairs. Atmosphere is 3X better than in the large dining room on the first floor but food is the same. One of the most disappointing dining experiences we have had considering the high price. read more

Amazing atmosphere, scenic views, easy parking, and great service, but unfortunately the food really left something to be desired. Was in the area with my future in-laws visiting from Europe, so I brought them here for lunch on a recommendation from my dad who has been here many times and has said that the prices were decent for the quality of food and location. I ordered the 6 oz top sirloin, my partner ordered the lobster roll, and my future in-laws ordered a seafood platter that they expected would be served hot. They were disappointed that it was served on ice. The menu didn't specify that it was a cold dish. They also got a ceasar salad that they said was nothing really special. They didn't really enjoy their meals to justify the prices. My steak was cooked unevenly, still very rare in the middle but very well on the outside (I ordered rare), and had a lot of moisture release, indicating it may have previously been frozen. I did enjoy the side salad with fresh tomatoes,. The poached egg was an unusual but welcome side, but It was cooked all the way through with a solid yolk, though rather than runny like I would expect a poached egg. The lobster roll had a strange aftertaste and didn't really have much flavor mostly just like mayo. Very bland and disappointing for the steep price. The staff did a great job serving and accommodating our party, but for the price, I'd probably choose somewhere else next time. read more

Tom Ham's Lighthouse - Breakfast & Brunch Near Me - San Diego, California

Our son and his wife gave us a Christmas gift of Sunday brunch at Tom Ham's Lighthouse. It was slightly intimidating because of the distance (we live in Carlsbad) but we went for it. We had an 11:30am seating. Everything was wonderful. It was easy to get to, easy to park, and a very pleasant location. The brunch was on the second floor, the stairway was intimidating, and the elevator was small, slow, and crowded. But we got there. We were seated at a table that, while not at a window, had pretty views out the windows. Every item that we tried from the buffet was excellent. There was a good variety of prepared food, lots of fresh produce, wonderful seafood, fried chicken, prime rib, desserts, etc etc etc. I think there might have been 100 different choices for what to put on our plates; I'm certainly not going to enumerate them here. Portions of sweets and pastries were very small, so we could try many varieties without overeating or wasting food. We'll be back. It's not something to do frequently, but when there is a special occasion, Tom Ham's Lighthouse will be on our list of possibilities. read more

Clean, delightful view,attentive service,priced well, fantastic parking. The entrées were prepared with an attentive eye, the cuts of swordfish 6 ounces of veggies, fresh. The bar area prior to being seated had a wonderful selection of mixed drinks and quick service Kudos for all involved in the operation of Tom Ham's read more

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Went for the brunch buffet and it was absolutely lovely! I was totally pleased with all of the options. I have to say, I'm not much of a seafood person so I can't provide much insight there, but the rest of the options were delicious. Lots of classic breakfast options, as well and fruit and salad, plenty of desserts, a made-to-order custom pasta station, and of course the seafood and beef brisket. The staff was very friendly and on top of clearing plates and keeping waters topped up. And the view through the windows of this place was so gorgeous. Good sized parking lot so you don't have to worry about that. read more

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Some of the best food I've had here in San Diego, the views are unmatched and the food even better. While I would recommend this spot more for a regular visit if you can afford it. I would definitely recommend this spot to anyone looking for a nice dinner, date or celebration. Everything that I've had and all of the foods my friends have had are delicious. I've heard no bad comments from anyone. Definitely a spot worth checking out! read more

Tom Ham's Lighthouse - Breakfast & Brunch Near Me - San Diego, California

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If you like a solid Sunday brunch you'll enjoy Tom Ham's for a slew of reasons but for me there are a few that stand out a little bit more than others. That being said, trust me when I tell you that bringing some out of town guests here on a Sunday morning is absolutely worth it and a great way to show off beautiful San Diego. The view is the first thing that strikes you when you walk in the dining room and it's the one part of brunch will never get old for me. Sure, the lobster claws, crab legs, oysters, tri-tip, fried chicken, pasta station, egg station, dessert bar, and all the other self-serve items are great, but the view, that's the star of the show. While it's not for everyone the bar is the only place to sit for me and it's exactly the reason I never like to go here with more than four people. We stare out the window at the city in front of us, sip some bubbles, casually grab some grub, and talk to our favorite dude, Joe. He's been here for years and is an absolute highlight... after the view. read more

I go here on special occasions, for sunday brunch buffet, OMG great views, great food, and excellent service. Service was amazing too my server Juan (El Tigre) was on top of it with the coffee refills, and very attentive. It's a must try I will continue to go there for food, service, and the views. Pasta bar WOW! read more

This is one of my favorite happy hour spots in San Diego! They have a delicious happy hour food menu, the tenderloin tips are the BEST and the martinis are tasty! It's a must to sit at bar so come early because it fills up. The view of the bay is gorgeous and watching the lights of the city come on after sunset is lovely. The staff are welcoming and efficient. Parking is plentiful and always free so come and enjoy this fabulous place. read more

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Friend and I had a lovely time catching up for her birthday. We had an amazing view and were treated so well by all the staff. We loved every last bite of our salads and birthday dessert was delicious. We even saw a school of dolphins playing. Wonderful! read more

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Came here for their Mother's Day brunch buffet and it was very crowded. Must make reservations beforehand on Open Table or else you risk waiting for 1+ hours on this occasion. Sure, it's pricey ($90/pp) so you better come prepared to eat your money's worth. In the Sunday brunch buffet, they have unlimited Maine lobster claws, raw oysters, raw scallops, crabs legs, shrimp; that's where your money's at. Other items worthwhile to eat are seafood omelet, eggs benedict, braised short ribs, made to order pasta station, etc. The drinks included are apple juice, pineapple, and orange juice. They used to include champagne, but you have to pay an extra fee for it now. Parking was a nightmare because they have a limited lot space and so people were creating makeshift parking spots, thus blocking other cars. read more

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Came for Sunday brunch and wow! The food was great, fresh seafood, and top tier service. Our server Eddy was amazing and the restaurant is on the water with an amazing view! Highly recommended! read more

We celebrated our 4th of July here last night. The food we ordered were delicious and freshly made. Our server, Desiree, was very nice, friendly, and attentive. The price was reasonable and most of all the ambiance was very pleasant and welcoming. We have the best sitting table for 10 people to experience the view to watch the Big Bay Boom Independence Day fireworks displays all over San Diego Bay. It was awesome to see different angles along the bay from north,south,east, west you can see the glaring, shining, and beautiful fireworks synchronized by music that gave me goosebumps. While watching the fireworks, i was thinking of " I wished and hoped America will stand strong,free, peaceful, and prosperous, despite of all what is going on around us." What an amazing night to remember. I recommend this restaurant 100% read more

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We always go to Tom hams on the weekends. The place is great. You can see a view of the California coastline. They have wonderful food. It's a great place to eat and watch the beautiful sailboats go by read more

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Service and food has gone down tremendously. I've ordered the scallops for years and they recently changed it. Now it's in puke pink sauce with like 2 nickels worth of sausage chopped into the smallest bits. I was so put off by it that u couldn't finish it. We ordered the fried oysters and they gave our order to the table behind us. Our server noticed after us not having food for 30 minutes so she put in another order, and again they almost brought it to the table behind us for a second time. I would've expected this to be comped, but nope! They have 2 cocktails that are available as mocktails. I tried to order one and the server goes "that's not available as a mocktail". I pointed to it on the menu saying "it says here, available as a mocktail". She continued to repeat without looking at me, "it's not available as a mocktail". Rude. Seating is more tight than ever. There is 0 chance of someone on a wheelchair navigating this place. On the patio, your back is like 2" away from another persons back. This place has been my go to for years for celebrations due to food, staff, and easy parking. This recent visit was so off putting, I don't think I'd return read more

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*3.5* Came on a Saturday evening for a celebratory dinner with a large party. Parking is readily available in the lot outside and the restaurant has a one-of-a-kind view of the bay. There is ample seating both indoors and out on their balcony patio, but we were seated inside. High ceilings and sprawling windows make it feel like a massive banquet hall. It was a busy night, and because I was closer to the wall away from the walkway it was hard to get our server's attention. However, she was more than approachable when she was present - can't quite fault her for that. Bread: Some of the other members of our group raved about their complimentary toasted bread with scallion butter for days before we even made the reservation only to find out that now it is charged for. Regardless, we ordered more than a few plates as both appetizers and dessert after we were done. It's hard to stay away from bread and butter, and introducing savoriness into the mix only makes the breakup that much harder. Fried Oysters: warm, crunchy, not overly salty. Sauce gave them a nice zing and the table enjoyed them. Would recommend. Beer Braised Beef Short Rib: a little disappointed considering how much I looked forward to trying this. The short rib was tough and dry yet somehow did not manage to absorb the jus that it was topped with at all. Flavorwise, it was also lacking. The mashed potato was honestly the best part of the dish, and that's saying something for a dish touching $40. Verdict: Social media destination restaurant. read more

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The Baseline: For a restaurant event venue, the space must be good for the group, the presentation must be upscale, the service from staff must be good/efficient, and the ambiance must be festive. Food: The food and presentation was very good for the wedding reception I attended here. I had a beef short rib and mash which was substantial. The pre-meal appetizers were a nice charcuterie with the stand outs of pickled yellow squash and zucchini (need to incorporate a squash quick pickle in my own charcuterie boards). The chicken over risotto was delicious (got to taste it). Great food for a wedding. Service: The service felt five star. The staff were accommodating and friendly. Loved the staff's commitment to service. Ambiance: Tom Ham's Lighthouse is a great venue with a nice reception area, dance floor, and the outside deck overlooks the San Diego bay and captures the San Diego skyline. Great place to celebrate. read more

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