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    The Whaling Bar

    3.9 (130 reviews)
    Closed 4:00 pm - 10:00 PM
    Updated 2 months ago

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    Rakhi B.

    Ambiance..located in la Valencia hotel..cute place with nice decor Service..not good at all. The hostess gave attitude when ee walked in. We had to ask foe menus and napkins and utensils and plates. Food..not bad..had the fried chicken..zatar..palenta..red wine from germany..my fav was the palenta..food was small plates

    NY Steak ($52) Salty AF
    Joe P.

    Its Mediocre & Overpriced Mon! The only reason why I came here was bc I had a $150 dining allowance on my credit card. Otherwise, TWB would not have been on my radar. The only saving grace of the meal was the excellent service from Shantelle. The scallops arrived first and I laughed when I saw two scallops for $32. I was expecting at least four. The scallops were fresh and cooked well, but ridiculously overpriced. Secondarily, the lobster roll was priced ok. Nonetheless, it didn't have any wow factor for a lobster dish. Thirdly, the meatballs were good sized, but they were bland. We didn't have any S & P at the table, so I didn't bother asking for some. Lastly, the steak arrived, and the portion was small for the price. In addition, it was really salty. Regarding the ambiance, its nice and quaint in here. There were a lot of pretty people at the bar. Like I said earlier, Shantelle's excellent service was the only bright side to the meal, and the only reason this review is not Two Stars. I would not return bc of the overpriced food, and lack of execution on the dishes. I hope other SD Open Table restaurants that are on the Exclusive Tables list are better vs TWB.

    Happy Hour Menu (11/26/2025)
    Roger P.

    The Whaling Bar is small restaurant located in downtown La Jolla, connected with the La Valencia Hotel. Since we made a reservation for 4:30PM on a weekday, we had the opportunity to try both their Happy Hour (4PM - 5PM) and dinner menus. Parking in the area is kind of a mess but we lucked out and snagged a spot right in front of the restaurant. Caesar Twinkies (Happy Hour): Comes with 2 pieces. I like the idea but if you're looking for a salad, this isn't it. A cube of bread is deep-fried, hollowed out, and stuffed with dressing and only one leaf. I would've liked it more if there were less dressing and more salad leaves. The fried bread was really good though. French Fries (Happy Hour): Parmesan fries...could've been salted a bit more. Fried Chicken (Happy Hour): Very small portion, only came with four tiny pieces. These looked more like a kid's meal chicken tenders. It's not really fried and crispy like KFC. "Single Single" Burger (Happy Hour): Pretty good for a happy hour entree. The buns were a bit thick though. Duck Meatball and Polenta (Happy Hour): The meatball was solid, although I couldn't tell that it was duck. I liked the melted cheese and the grilled bread went great with the polenta. Whipped Buttermilk Ricotta: One of the popular dishes according to Yelp so I was pretty curious. I really wanted to like it but I don't think it was salted enough and the ratio of ricotta to bread was so off. Considering how expensive this was and how it didn't meet expectations, I wouldn't recommend ordering. Braised Beef Shortrib: Comes with 4 pasta pieces stuffed with cheese. The braised flavor was great but I wish the meat wasn't so lean. Got some pieces that were particularly stringy and harder to chew. "The Hamburger": This was my favorite out of everything we ordered. It's actually a dessert that looks like hamburger, hence the name. The buns were made out of cake and the "patty" was a slab of ice cream covered in chocolate. Highly recommend! Overall, a decent meal but I wasn't very wow'd by anything except for the dessert. As a matter of fact, I would have rated my experience lower if it weren't for the dessert.

    Meatball, Caesar Twinkie, espresso martini, dirty martini And an espresso martini
    Sondra C.

    Stopped in as we strolled by for their happy hour! We sat outside because we had 2 large dogs. George was our sister and his recommendations were top tier, he was extremely kind, and honestly some of the best service I've had in a while! We had the Caesar twinkies which were like nothing I've ever had! The meatball, which I had low expectations for case I don't typically like the but, this one was delicious! And then their 5pm to close special is a martini with a sans burger which was DELICIOUS!! Thank you and cannot wait to return!

    Parm martini
    Danielle M.

    It's been months since I've been there and I cannot stop talking about the parm martini. This was one of the best drinks I've had! I went for a late night drink and app to start the weekend off and oh my goodness what a fun place! The focaccia bread app was so good and the drinks were top tier!!! It's a little more upscale and classy so make sure to pay the price for it. Overall so great! Can't wait to be back.

    Inside the HH Burger
    Jonathan Z.

    Chase Exclusive Dining brought us in since we were looking to use our dining credit before the end of the year. So glad we chose the Whaling Bar for their weekday Martini Hour from 4pm to 5pm. Nestled in front of the La Valencia hotel, this spot features a chic, French, vibey ambiance, toggling between down tempo EDM and French music. But the food is where this place really shines. Their menu features nostalgic classics but reimagined. Fried chicken with za'atar hot honey and lime yogurt, a smash burger with feta cheese and harissa aioli, Caesar Salad Twinkies and a trio of mini martinis including a classic Dirty, Espresso, and a Manhattan, served up in mini coupes. Most items on the menu run about $10, with some specialty cocktails running $15 such as their Old Fashion, Margarita, and Pornstar Martini. Once 5pm hits, their regular dinner menu becomes available. Ended our meal with the cutest dessert- The Hamburger. Almost left without ordering it, which would've been disappointing because it was whimsical and well-executed. Would def order it again. All in all a great HH experience at reasonable prices with awesome service from Shantel. Only thing unavailable on their HH menu was the Filet O Fish bao, but another reason to come back.

    Smash burger and Parmesan fries
    Ryan C.

    Finally tried this iconic spot in La Jolla! Located inside the La Valencia hotel, with a great happy hour menu from 4pm-5pm - this place is a must try. The happy hour menu standouts were the Caesar Salad Twinkies (so creative and tasty!) and the smash burger with Parmesan fries. Really awesome cocktails and mini martinis too. The hamburger dessert was insane it literally looked more like a burger than the smash burger. Gets crowded so come early, regular dinner menu will start at 5pm. Good vibes and decor inside too. As always with La Jolla parking can be tough here, so leave time to loop a few times. Definitely want to come back and try to lobster roll dip, and full order of the Caesar.

    Pornstar martini
    KayAnna S.

    5 stars for their exceptional service alone! As soon as we were seated at the bar, we were given menus and suggestions. Within a few minutes of requesting our drinks, they were ready in front of us. We were checked on multiple times throughout being there and offered refills or new drinks. Loved how attentive they are! I had the pornstar martini and my husband had an old fashioned. Loved the detail of their design on the ice cube in their old fashioned. My husband enjoyed it! The pornstar martini was super refreshing with just a hint of sweetness. The egg whites really balance out any sweetness. Great stop for a nightcap!

    Birthday dessert!
    Kim F.

    Visit: 1st Date: August 6, 2024 Time: 8:00 pm What they got right: Hipster ambiance, open air with historic charm and trendy drinks! AND they know how to celebrate Birthdays!! I received a Birthday card signed by team members! Areas for improvement: Parking! Yikes! What a nightmare ... Recommend? Yes! We landed in San Diego for a work conference and I heard about this place from the socials. I made a late (for us) reservation to celebrate my Birthday with some drinks and eats. They did NOT disappoint!

    HH Menu (4-5pm)
    KC C.

    We stumbled upon this bar as we were entering the lobby of La Valencia hotel to go to their main bar overlooking the water. The main bar was pretty busy, and The Whaling Bar just seemed more our speed. We sat outside at first but they do not have service there, so we then moved inside, where we were greeted with a beautiful smile by Shantel. The décor is super nice and ambiance was low key, but fancy chic. Drinks are really good and how lucky were we to just walk into happy hour, which is 4-5pm. Although some of their HH cocktails come in a smaller glass, they fill it to the brim AND the cocktails are so good, you really need just one. I ended up doing a cocktail and glass of wine, and my girlfriend did a cocktail; that was all we needed. They serve food and it's a full on restaurant if you want to eat; we had dinner plans so we were just there for a drink. Would definitely go back again.

    The Caesar Twinkie.
    Nancy I.

    Great vibes, from the cozy inside to the outdoor seats for those who want to people watch. The happy hour menu is where it is at. The Caesar twinkies are hardly a salad, but so good that you want another. We had a reservation, so we were seated right away. Will definitely be back.

    Espresso Martini
    Nancy T.

    Beautiful bar. The decor is very chic and elegant. Our group really enjoyed the happy hour drink menu. Some off HH menu drinks were also enjoyable too. Service was very attentive & kept us hydrated as we kept drinking.

    Matthew B.

    We started our visit during happy hour (4-5 PM). The happy hour prices are reasonable, with most food items around $10 and drinks ranging from $8-$15 (fair warning: the espresso martini glass is on the smaller side). We had previously been to Waverly (same ownership group) and were excited to order the Caesar croutons and duck meatballs again. While both dishes were very good, the experience got off to a rough start due to seating. We were placed in a back corner near an exit, awkwardly close to indoor plants, and our request to move was declined. Service issues continued throughout the meal. The happy hour food took a long time to arrive, and when we ordered a red wine, we were mistakenly served a white. The server moved on before we could flag it, though the mistake was eventually corrected. We were also told we couldn't order from the main dinner menu until exactly 5 PM, which felt unnecessary for a Monday and didn't help with the delays. After happy hour, delays persisted--we were at the restaurant for about 2.5 hours total. To make matters worse, both of the entrées we had planned to order (the striploin and short rib) were out due to a vendor issue. To their credit, we were comped some an enjoyable dessert and given an additional discount, which was appreciated. Overall, the food itself was solid, but the service and attention to detail need improvement. Small things like no toilet paper in the restroom and an unattended valet stand stood out, especially for a restaurant at La Valencia. I wouldn't rule out coming back, but with other options available, I'm not particularly in a rush to return.

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