In the pantheon of hostess bars, in my recent opinion, one has reigned supreme: Club Star Lite. It started out as a fabled Chinese restaurant called the Inn of the Sixth Happiness around 60 years ago, and was extremely popular in its heyday. However, at some point during its decline, it was converted to a hostess bar.
A hostess bar, for the uninitiated, is a bar where women serve drinks and food to the (usually) male customers, and then sit with them and become part of the party.
This type of bar has its own special license from the City & County of Honolulu Liquor Commission. I believe this type of license is unique to Hawaii. Under the LC's regulations, a hostess is allowed to sit with customers but is not allowed to receive "anything of value".
However, the enforcement of this regulatory scheme is non-existent since hostesses regularly ply customers to "buy me drinkee". Many times these drinkees are water or tea, and patrons pay $20 which is split 75%/25% between the hostess and the bar. Many of these hostesses drive expensive cars and live in luxurious condos, which is a testament to their appearance and skill.
I call this whole setup "illusion and deception". Most of the hostesses have husbands or boyfriends but need to appear single and available, while the married customers try to convince the hostesses to go out with them. It usually doesn't work, or if it does, the dating doesn't last long. Morality aside, I myself could live the contented life of a lap dog to a sugar mama.
The appeal of Star Lite is that the hostesses here do not usually ask or push customers for drinks. So as my friend Willy states, this provides a "more comfortable and relaxing environment" than the run of the mill establishments where the hostesses are completely irritating and try to get as much as they can from customers.
The other great thing about Star Lite is the food. While the Monday and Tuesday kitchen mama is not the best, Lina, the Wednesday to Saturday kitchen mama, is superb. Her Korean dishes and sides are better than restaurant quality. We have frequented most all of the hostess bars, and the food is either just passable or is barely edible.
But believe it or not, the meal which I gravitate to most every night is a BLT. I know; Daniel Stern's character in City Slickers comments after Curly (Jack Palance) dies that "you can't eat bacon everyday." But it's so good ... bacon, mayo, toast, heaven. Tomato I can live without.
Anyway, hostess bars typically change over management every six to twelve months. The person who holds the license may operate the bar for a couple years, but then needs a break so subleases the premises to a new Mama who operates the bar under a management scheme.
Unfortunately, the current Mamas Seri & Suzy are moving on, so Star Lite as it exists now will no longer be the Star Lite we love, come October 1, 2025. Many of the hostesses are moving on to other bars, and so are the kitchen mamas, so it remains to be seen whether Club Star Lite will remain as star bright as it has been, when Chris, the license holder, or someone else, takes over.
Hostess bars, as a genre, are slowly dying off. Most of the bars in the Kapiolani area have been replaced by high rise developments so the bars predominate now mostly in the Kapalama area. Because of regulations which restrict where a hostess bar can be located, I don't believe any new hostess bar licenses have been issued for years. Further, the majority of the patrons who frequent the hostess bars are not young, so the target audience is dying off as well.
In maybe 10 years, hostess bars will be a relic as unique to Hawaii's culture as a sunken battleship.
As Billy Joel said:
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They say a handful still survive;
To tell the world about;
The way the lights went out;
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