So I too have been a patron of Chez Fabien for the last year or so. In general, I love the environment and I have had only positive experiences with the bartender, Leah.
The issue here is that certain "regulars" at the bar seem to feel that almost any behavior is acceptable. While I normally laugh this off (or try), the other night this sense of permissibility resulted in my friend being admonished and maligned with very threatening language (and behavior) for his perceived sexual orientation.
I have never witnessed anything like this in my life and I've lived in DFW for all of it. This was absolutely nuts.
The management did not protect him or us. Instead, they gave apparent cover to the person screaming the gay slurs by demanding that we leave even though neither of us had done anything wrong. My friend's crime was apparently standing up to this bully with words alone, in an attempt to dissuade him from doing something worse. How do we know if he is armed or what's about to happen?
The owner, who I reached out to on behalf of myself and my friend has NEVER responded to me. To be clear, I am a different person. I am a human being. I'm a woman. I'm a customer of his.
He may not like my friend's estimation of his management's lack of responsibility or much worse, his own, but I too never received an apology. They did charge me for the drinks which we did not finish as we were exited for the crime of um...not enjoying a Gay slurfest?
Now I see Mr. Goury is leveling private threats to further publicly insult the true victim here, who is my friend. A man who was silently taking a selfie in the corner of the bar while waiting for me to return from the restroom.
Lastly, neither of us have gone into the details of what was said to us when we arrived. The homophobic craziness started immediately and it is unbelievable. Wish we would have just left.
The incident at the bar later on was just the culmination.
Ironically, there is nothing about either one of us that screams our sexual orientation. We were just out celebrating my friend getting his citizenship. Perhaps the American flag was the trigger. Who knows?
I also want to say that Mr. Goury needs to brush up on the 1st Amendment. In this country, we have the right to speak the truth freely. He may not feel that his staff nor he owes us an apology but I can say that he has no business privately or publicly admonishing either of us for being outraged about what happened in his restaurant, nor putting that outrage into writing.
Even more concerning than Mr. Goury's lack of respect and concern for his customers' safety is his lack of concern for his staff. If his customers are allowed to be verbally maligned, his staff are at risk for this permissible behavior as well.
Mr. Goury is not directly responsible for his other customer's verbal attack; however, he is responsible for his staff's response and his lack of concern for his customers. I attempted to politely contact Mr. Goury and was ignored.
Edit: I added a screenshot of one of the attempts to contact him. read more