I would not set foot in this place even if you PAID me. I am completely disgusted by some of the staff, the owner, and the place itself, and I will tell you why. (Also, this is a response to the "new owner of Blue Light-Jesse C.")
I am Nancy ("the intoxicated young lady acting 'hood'") First and foremost, let me laugh at you for a second. I am not hood by any means in ANY sense of the word. I am an educated young lady currently attending school and working in the nursing field. Thank you. Now that that's out of the way, I will begin.
Jesse (owner of Blue Light), you DID, in fact, put your hands on me. Did you violently shove me out of the way? no. HOWEVER, you did physically try to hold me back from entering the women's bathroom. (by the way, it was one woman who I was trying to go into the bathroom with-not two as you stated- and she was my cousin.) A simple "wait your turn" or "hold on a second" would have sufficed. Hell, you could have even yelled if you wanted to. but when it gets to the point where you think it is okay to extend your arm and try to push me/hold me back so that I will follow your rules, well, see this is where we have a problem. it is NEVER, EVER okay for ANYONE to put their hands on anyone else. You can deny it all you want, but there are witnesses, and I remember what happened. I will admit that I was drunk. I am a hardworking student juggling both work and school, and as many probably know, this can get pretty stressful, so it is nice to have drinks and let loose every once in a while. My mistake was trying to do that at Blue Light. I would have never imagined that this new owner would seriously be so low and class-less as to physically try and push a woman back from entering the bathroom just because God forbid you have two women in the bathroom at the same time. I DO understand that sometimes it is better to have one person in the bathroom at a time as women like to stay in the bathroom longer than needed at times. BUT THERE IS NO NEED TO YELL OR TOUCH A WOMAN IN ORDER TO GET YOUR WAY. I am just utterly disgusted by any man who thinks it's okay to touch a woman, even if you just "gently pushed me back". Kapish? Even if I had been completely 100% sober, I still would have gone off on you and cursed at you for touching me. I don't know how you were raised, but it is NOT okay to do that. Point blank. End of story. I guess maybe because I was drunk you thought I wouldn't notice or it would be alright? Well, it's not. Or maybe you just get so heated and angry sometimes that you don't notice when you get physical. Perhaps you are not able to distinguish the fine line between regulating and crossing that line to the point where you become too hostile/aggressive. Point is, it isn't right. Deny it all you want, but you and I both know you did, in fact, touch me.
Also, in reguards to your comment abou the "policemen laughing" at me- well, guess what? Those same policemen who "laughed" were also so helpful as to give us a nice little number so that we, and our friends, should call, because as they stated, if Blue Light gets enough complaints/calls they WILL shut Blue Light down. The officer then proceeded to offer a few words of advice. "You want my advise?" he said, "Don't waste your money in a place like that." THE POLICEMAN THEN TOLD ME THAT HE WOULD NEVER LET ANY OF HIS FAMILY MEMBERS NEAR BLUE LIGHT OR ANY PLACE THAT RESEMBLED IT. Guess my friends and I aren't the only ones who aren't fans of Blue Light, huh? :/ darn, I guess the same policemen who were laughing at me were laughing at you, too? :/
Did I call that number? No, I didn't. I am not, by nature, a hostile or evil person in any way. BUT, again, when you, the owner of Blue Light, touched me, I was pisst. I was angry and, of course, I cursed at you and "dropped F-bombs". I don't regret it, because you seem to think it's okay to touch women, as well as yell and curse and disrespect them. I don't. I'd be sorry if you hadn't touched me, but you did, and I am not sorry. You deserved it.
Oh, and one more thing before I forget, OMG LOL at the comment that you made about how I went back there to get my credit card (it was a debit card btw) and I walked in with my "head down" and didn't even look at you. HAHAHA ARE YOU SERIOUS? I looked STRAIGHT AT YOU! Pretty sure I even smiled, said hello, and asked where I could get my debit card. What did you do? Awkwardly point at the bar behind me. Really? I'm the one who was so "ashamed" HAHAHA OHKAY. Then as I walked back toward the door, you weren't even standing there anymore. To be completely honest with you, I did think about having a "talk" with you, maybe even apologize for calling you names and hurting your feelings. BUT then I remembered how you think it's okay to touch women and disrespect them, and well, let's just say I have no pity for those types of people. Maybe try looking into anger management and then you can worry about efficiently managing a place. Bye. :) read more