A year ago I started my journey of going blonde with my very skilled Stylist named Monica who I HIGHLY recommend, her work speaks for itself go check out her page Instagram page : hair_wm
When I started I was a virgin brunette and I told Monica that I wanted to be red without having to use bleach. I was super afraid of bleach.
Seeing how Monica was super skilled and kept my hair extremely healthy I was convinced to do a big change and decided to do a brown to blonde ombre.
Of course playing around with a ombré turned into going more and more blonde. But this did not happen over night. She was super careful and knowledgeable with the process of getting me lighter every session.
about 6months into my journey Monica was no longer with AYA and I went to her outside of the salon.
The time and money I spent getting my hair from a deep red to a beautiful blonde was all totally worth it because every-time I sat in Monica's chair and left her I felt so fucking fabulous and my hair was just stunning and healthy.
I could not believe how healthy my hair was being so blonde! It was shiny, bouncy, sleek and oh so smooth.
As I mentioned My maintenance with Monica was pricey but worth every fucking dollar and I highly recommend going to her studio if you can get a spot in her busy books.
fast forward to the day I fcking regret with all my heart.
I could not get into Monica's chair because her books are always busy and I needed my hair done ASAP for work shots
I decided to go back to AYA because they are a "Elegant Salon devoted to innovation and blah blah blah"
The MAIN thing I told the stylist Arianna was my goal is to be more blonde than what I am now.
I told Arianna, that I have been at this for a year getting lighter and lighter every session.
I understand that going blonde is a process and I have been super patient and was finally at a blonde I was super happy with.
But as I told Arianna, the goal is blonder.
As soon as Arianna took the towel off my head I knew something was wrong, but my hair was wet so I tried not to look in the mirror as she continued to blow dry my hair.
As soon as my hair was dry I wanted to fcking break down and cry. "This is brown", I told Arianna and she kept telling me it was a ashy blonde.
I kept looking in the mirror like WTF ???Does this girl think I'm a fucking idiot or something?
I told her over and over that my hair was brown. She kept trying to convince me it was not. I told her I'm not happy and she said it would lighten.
Like one thing I can't stand is someone who feeds you complete BS. If you do something wrong take accountability for it. Feeding someone BS is a bad look on you, your work and the place you represent.
I emailed the salon owner immediately
She was completely unsympathetic, did not apologize or ask any question. She just sent me a message saying if I can come in Tomorrow at 2:30.
The next day I come back in and they make me see Arianna again for a "color cleanse"
Arianna takes me to the sink and starts the "color cleanse" she's washing my hair for about 15 mins adding whatever let's me sit and comes back to rinse my hair and than tells me their is a second part to the color cleanse.
At this point I'm texting my step mother who is a stylist in Hollywood to ask WTF a color cleanse is.
Arianna come back and starts applying the second part to the color cleanse and tells me she's going to let it sit.
My head and scalp start to tingle and I realize she's basically giving my head a bleach wash (as my step mother explained to me).
I ask Arianna what she's doing and what's she's using and she tells me again it's a color cleanse and that it's a alternative to bleach but it's not bleach.
I'm sitting there cooking for another 15 mins and than Arianna washes the bleach out of my hair and tells me someone else is going to condition my hair because she had another client coming in.
I told her are we even going to tone my hair because I'm pretty sure my hair was going to be super yellow after letting my hair sit in bleach.
She says she's not going to apply a toner because my hair has been through alot of processing and the shampoo she used had a little bit of toner in it.
The minute the towel came off my head I was Fcking pissed off.
My hair was yellow, dry, shorter and felt super sticky.
My hair is totally Fcked up now. The color is awful, there is a bunch of random yellow, orange, brassy stripes all around my head.
The fcking texture is horrible now, even when I wash my hair in the shower with conditioner it is hard to get my fingers through.
I been having trouble this entire week styling my hair because it is just so sticky and brittle and dry.
I've lost inches, my hair is breaking off. My hair is uneven. This Salon and Stylist completely ruined my life.
Making the transition to go blonde was such a big life decision. Not to mention the financial commitment you make to maintain the color! read more