I have always found Tops "FRIENDLY Markets" in Batavia to be a nice store. They employees are kind and hardworking. I used to work for Tops (University Plaza), so I know it is not an easy job. Today my opinion of this store changed (5/111/22 about noon, near the deli). I went in to get a few things and was using a store scooter, which in it's self is pretty embarrassing and not fun. I need total knee replacements, on both sides. I walk with ski poles, a cane, or use a walker at home. Every step is bone on bone, it is excruciating. I am 47. A man in a button down and dress slacks (management?) With a name tag I couldn't read clipped to his belt was stocking Constanzo's rolls. I grabbed a bag. The display table was very close to the cart he was stocking from, and also another display to the left. The scooter cart barely made it around the display. When I put the rolls into the cart I felt that they were frozen solid. Okay, no biggie but they were to be used right away so I swapped them for a smaller bag, which was not frozen. I set the larger bag on the side of the display with the smaller bag (8 vs 12 ct) two feet from the man who was stocking, thinking *I am like a rolling tank on this thing, I don't want to knock a display over, I already whacked a table and this is a tight space, I'm not sure of I can back up and make that turn without messing his display up* etc. As I slow-rolled away on my embarassing ride, he laughed and mumbled "Jesus it's right there , can't even put it back?", something about me being "lazy" and I think a weight related comment, but I cannot say for sure on that one. He scoffed and shook his head with increasing volume enough to get my attention, purposefully. I am 80 lbs pounds overweight due to my inability to walk. Dr. Romanowski is my ortho, I have been unable to get replacements due to this gain (during lockdown). It's humiliating to go out and use these scooters, worse when employees or customers (which has never happened in Batavia) make comments. For him, putting the 12 ct roll bag back was a reach of his arm. For me it would have been a 6,7...8? point turn on a scooter I suck at operating, in a tight space. When I was sure what I heard, I went (rolled) back and asked (no attitude, I was genuinely interested in his thoughts) "Did I make you mad by not putting that back on the right side of the table?" He said "I am used to it", no eye contact, no acknowledgement of my presence. Looked down, kept stacking. I said "It's difficult for me to maneuver this thing in a tight space". (Still no 'tude, I worked retail for years and I know what is expected of employees and what makes a customer a jerk in their eyes. I don't want to be that jerk, but also know his behaviour was unacceptable). He said nothing. I said "when I worked for Tops we were trained to be nice to customers, and I heard the things you said about me". No response. I said have a good day and then got a few more things and left. I really wish I would have got his name. Not a stocker or cashier, definitely some sort of management. Clean cut. Brown hair. Light blue oxford buttondown (I think) In my opinion, this was completely unacceptable behaviour for someone representing Tops of Batavia, where every single employee has always been nothing but kind. It was embarrassing and just plain rude. When I left I felt like crying...thinking this guy has NO IDEA how much pain I am in, why I am on this scooter (humiliating but I am very glad they have them). No idea. I felt judged over stupid sandwich rolls, and my inability to drive the grocery-getter through the obstacle course presented. His response could have been "sorry, I'm having a bad day" or "sorry, I shouldn't have said that" etc. Anything other than his non apology. He went in the back after, I think. The door to the behind the scenes area nearish the deli. I worked for.tops.in the 1990's as a kid. 16. We were trained how to speak with customers. To help customers, and of we could not help them it was our job to find an employee that could, cheerfully. I did my job. I wish roll stocking manager guy would have done his. His job is to be polite, and even helpful. Maybe ask the disabled person of they need help reaching something, and certainly not to mock when they cannot. Tops "friendly markets" was not too friendly. today. read more