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The Remy

4.5 (749 reviews)
Open • 3:00 pm - 10:00 PM
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Moderate noise
Outdoor seating

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Champagne and Old Fashion
Bert A.

Our Anniversary was a work day for us. So we treated ourselves to a nice quiet Tuesday night at The Remy in Mission Valley. What a great choice! And what a surprise to find the place booming with customers, the parking lot was so full we had to park on the street. What a great feeling you get when you drive off a busy freeway and enter this hidden lush area that looks like something out of Lord Rings Shire. As you enter the place itvgives off a classy whiff of elegant splendor. Nothing over the top just a very nice place for a grand evening or just a cocktail before you get home. We chose the bar area because we like to talk to people and not wait too long for service. Our bartender was Grant a newbie at The Remy. Very nice and attentive. He gave us details about the food preparation and cocktails. We ordered our cocktails and they were perfect. I ordered an Old Fashion from their well and it was great so I had two. We couldn't decide on a light dinner to have so we split a plate of Lamb Chops. Perfect choice they were brought out in two seperate plates with a generous portion of Asparagus and Mashed potatoes on each plate along with two perfectly cooked Lamb Chops. I will post that picture. Everything was spot on. My wife enjoyed the evening and that is what mattered most. The finale was when they brought out a dessert of Italian Gelato with a Sparkler on it. This is not our first time here and it certainly will not be our last. If they keep up the great service and delicious food they will have us there every opportunity we get to visit. If you have been there...I say it is time to go. Sincerely.

Bread, and Cesar salad
Diane G.

The restaurant itself is very lovely with an old western theme/vibe. It is dimly lit, with dimmable lamps on the tables to increase your brightness if you'd like. The bathrooms were thoughtfully designed - with hooks for your bag, and a place to set your phone down. I liked that they were quite a few of the private stalls. We came here for a birthday celebration, so we ordered quite a few items off the menu. We started with a few orders of the bread service. The bread was baked and salted perfectly. The butter that came with it paired really well with it. My daughter and I loved this one a lot. We had a few orders of 3 salads. The two I got to try were the Cesar salad, and the wedge salad. I was surprised that I liked the wedge salad more than the Cesar. I think we all liked the wedge salad over the Cesar. The Cesar just had an overpowering fishy anchovy/sour taste that we couldn't get past. And we have had plenty of Cesar salads before. We had the A5 Wagyu potato balls and those were pretty good. Although I don't think I would care to order them again if I were to come back. The Mac & cheese was delicious and loved by everyone at the table. The lobster Mac and cheese was also delicious, but a very different taste from the regular Mac & cheese (in case you were thinking it tasted the same). The lobster Mac & cheese had some kind of Cajun seasoning mix in it. Also delicious, but different. Our main entree we had a few orders of the porterhouse, bone in ribeyes, and some lobster tails. Looking at the menu, I mentioned to my boyfriend that it was funny they don't have mashed potatoes on their menu. He agreed, but said they did have a baked potato. When our steaks came out, we were surprised that they brought out a few orders of mashed potatoes and green beans along with our porterhouse steaks. We were confused and were told that those sides come with our steaks. A little disappointed that our server didn't mention that. It would've definitely helped us from over ordering some extra sides. All the steaks we ordered were ordered perfectly and absolutely delicious. Overall, the restaurant is lovely with great staff and delicious food. They seem to have a nice happy hour menu as well. Would I come here again? Hmm, maybe. I don't think so though. But it was a lovely experience for my grandpas birthday.

Dinner menu
Merriam W.

I've always passed by this place and finally tried it out. My colleague told us about it and said they have a great happy hour which they do! Happy hour is from 2:30pm to 5pm Monday through Friday and 3pm-5pm on weekends. We tried all of the happy hour food items except for the Wagyu steak frites and shrimp cocktail. The Caesar salad is excellent and easily enough for two people to share. I also enjoyed the truffle fries and smoked marlin tostadas. My friend ordered the Wagyu smashburger and she really enjoyed it. I ordered the shrimp and Wagyu filet medallions. I thought it was odd the server didn't ask me how I like my steak and unfortunately I thought it was overcooked, as well as the shrimp. It was still edible and had good flavor especially because of the chimichurri sauce but it wasn't my favorite. Maybe I just got a one off. It's still a good happy hour deal for $22. My friends ordered from the regular dinner menu and their steaks looked delicious and they said it was tender. We also ordered the crispy octopus but I prefer my octopus grilled since the crispiness made it a little too hard and tough but the sauce it was paired with was quite tasty! Their cocktails are also fantastic and only $10 each during happy hour. Our server recommended the Son of the Bee-sting since I like gin and it was refreshing and had a good ginger flavor. The Remy's slogan is cocktails and meat which they know how to do right. Our server, Nate, also did a wonderful job of serving our group of 12. He knew a lot about the food and wines and made good recommendations. We were seated on the patio area which was nice because it was semi-private. The interior of the restaurant is also very cute and chic. I like how their bathroom is decorated. We had a great time!

David K.

Imagine walking into a restaurant where the service is sharp, the drinks are properly made, the appetizers actually make you want to order another round, and the main course delivers exactly what it promised. Then imagine it somehow gets better after you walk through the door. That's the kind of place this is--confident without being pretentious, welcoming without being overly polished, and serving food that makes you stop talking for a minute because your full attention is required. Come hungry, order widely, and don't be surprised when a simple dinner turns into a long, very happy evening.

Frankie Wallbanger
Su-chun H.

Back after a long stretch, forgot how nice The Remy is. This time celebration for an achievement which made it extra special. Didn't know there's a full bar in the basement which is a big plus since it's quieter than the main bar. Ken took great care of us as we enjoyed having 90s movies in the background. I had the paper plane and the hubby had the Japanese high ball. Ended up with a second beverage while we enjoyed the wagyu steak frites.

Wagyu filet
Justin M.

This quaint steakhouse is tucked away at the end of hotel circle. The staff is very welcoming. The ambiance is cozy and intimate. The music was great and kept at a perfectly low level so that guests didn't have to talk over it. Our server, Sean, was amazing. The perfect amount of attentiveness without being intrusive. He was super gregarious, and just brought good energy to the experience. The food was very tasty. Our steaks were cooked perfectly to temperature. They both could have used just a pinch less salt, but we're delicious. The cocktails were creative. I will say that outside of meats, the menu has limited other options, for example, there is one vegetable side, grilled asparagus. But what options they do have are done well. It is also priced very welled. We will definitely be back.

Wagyu Filet was cooked perfectly!
Emily T.

Parking is tight on a busy night, but it's worth it for the steaks here! The steaks are top notch and delicious. The staff was friendly and accommodating! I love the rustic charm of this place and the happy hour menu is a great deal for dinner!

Tuna Crudo - $26 (Oct 2026)  ponzu / fresno chili / avocado / trout roe
Amanda V.

Hands down, this is now one of my favorite restaurants to date! My boyfriend made reservations for my birthday, and we were led downstairs into a cozy den-like space with a bar and additional seating. The ambiance was cozy, dimly lit, and romantic. Service: The service was great! Our bartender, I believe his name was Austin, was attentive without being overbearing. He gave us plenty of time to enjoy our meal while still making sure we were never left waiting. Food: I forgot to take photos of the menu but luckily enough they have the most current one on their website. Tuna Crudo - Fresh tuna with bright, acidic flavors with the ponzu sauce. The avocado helped balance out the sauce and the cracker it came with brought everything together perfectly. Remy Salad - My favorite burrata salad! The delicious vinaigrette paired perfectly with all the ingredients. The summer peaches and burrata were heavenly together, especially with the added crunch of the candied pecans. (I licked the plate clean with both these dishes) Halibut - This was some of the freshest-cooked white fish I've ever had, with a beautifully seared crust on top. The fried, crispy cauliflower added a great texture, while the sauce complemented the fish perfectly. Savory, clean, and delicious. Lobster Mac and Cheese - My boyfriend said the lobster tasted great. He wished the mac and cheese was a thicker sauce, but overall, it had a rich and delicious flavor. Cornbread - These tasted very similar to Texas Roadhouse rolls with their cinnamon butter spread was fluffy, sweet, warm, and delicious. Drinks: I'm not much of an alcoholic drinker, but since it was my birthday dinner, I wanted to let loose and enjoy a cocktail. I ordered the Spill the Tea, and if you're like me and don't like the taste of alcohol, this is the drink for you! It has a sweet, berry smoothie-like taste that is literally addicting. I ended up ordering two! My boyfriend ordered the Berry Sherry Cobbler, which tasted like the best-flavored sparkling water you could possibly have. Very refreshing! Both drinks were served with pebbled ice, makes a huge difference!

Speakeasy
Tom A.

Love the Remy. This is a little hideaway off of I8 and before I5. They have great menu and bar and even a speakeasy and wine room. Ask for Francisco waiter to serve you. I tried the crispy octopus and it was delicious.

Jennifer S.

Service was extremely cheerful and helpful. I took my father here for Happy Hour as he isn't well and cannot eat much. I wish I got our servers name but I def want to go back. It is hard to impress my father! He got the steak medallions w shrimp and fries. I got medallions on top of mashed potatoes which was really good with the peppercorn sauce. Side note: I can. It believe they have Donna's Pickle Beer! I will go back just because of that! It's hard to find at restaurants

Steak and Fries
Jim E.

Old school steak hours, white table cloth, extensive wine and cocktail menu. Staff Friendly and attentive. Well lit and comfortable seating, Happy Hour menu with very reasonable prices, dinner menu prices are on par with higher end steak houses. Ordered the New York Strip with Fries, steak was good but nothing exceptional, the peppercorn Sauce was very good and elevated the steak. Nate was my server and he deserves a raise, Nates level of service was above expectations, Nate was on top of everything, he knows the menu inside out, he kept me informed of the status of my order, drink was refilled without asking, and to top it off when I paid with my card he thanked me by name even though it was my first visit and finished off with a hope to see you again soon. The Remy is lucky to have Nate as a server. 5 Stars for Nate! 3 Stars for the Steak Would go back to try them again.

Taylor C.

This has become one of my favorite steak houses. My husband and I came here for our anniversary. Our server was so thoughtful and helped make it special. We had our baby with us and they really helped accommodate our experience. Truly appreciate it. The restaurant gives you an old lodge feel. Dark wood, rustic with beautiful bars. The food is awesome. Nothing is bad. Absolutely get a steak, clearly. But they also have great sides to share, especially the corn bread. The tuna appetizer is so flavorful and light. Great balance to a heavy man course.

Filet medallions
Julianne B.

The happy hour here is an incredible deal! Waygu and frites with a salad is only $17!!! Also, delicious! Service here is super friendly and attentive as well.

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Is happy hour only in the bar?

Hi Angel, Happy Hour is held at our bar, game room and high top tables.

How much is the tomahawk?

its $5 per oz for Australian wagyu tomahawk. so depends on what size they have.

How far from Fallbrook?

50-53 miles depending from where you start in Fallbrook.

Are the reserved rooms only upstairs? We have a group of 14 with one in a wheelchair. Are there stairs or an elevator to take to the upper floor?

Thank you for reaching out! Unfortunately, all of our private rooms are only accessible by stairs. However, we’d be happy to set up our game room on the main level as a private space for your group at any time. Please let us know what date and time… 

Yelp says dogs are allowed. Is this correct?

For the comfort and safety of all our guests, only service animals are permitted on the premises.

Do you sell gift cards so that I can give it as a birthday present to my son?

Yes, gift cards are available for purchase at the bar. We’ll be happy to assist you!

Can I bring my own bottle of wine?

There is a $35 corkage fee for a 750ml bottle of wine.

Do you have a vegetarian option?

Vegetarian options are available! For the most up-to-date selections, please refer to our menu on the website. (https://www.theremysd.com/)

Do you use oat milk in your mash potatoes?

No, our mashed potatoes do not contain oat milk.

Is there a dress code?

No dress code is enforced. Please dress comfortably and don’t forget your cowboy hat. 🤙🏽

What is the grade of meat, are there prime offerings?

Yes, and cooked to perfection!

What days/times are happy hour?

Happy Hour Schedule: Monday through Friday: 2:30pm – 5:00pm… 

Do they take reservations?

Yes

What is the dress code?

The Remy does not have a dress code

Is the bar in the dining area? Is there a separate dining room?

The bar is in the main dining area.

Do they have happy hour?

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Born & Raised - Chicken - great idea but the sauce was way too salty

Born & Raised

4.1(3.5k reviews)
2.7 mi•Little Italy
•$$$$

Our second visit to Born & Raised. We came last year for our anniversary and came back this year…read more Our first visit was at the bar with some apps. This year we made a reservation on the rooftop. The vibe for me was dark deco, think Batman the Animated Series. They say it is hip-hop, rap royalty. The service was amazing. We must have been congratulated 5 times on our anniversary celebration. Friendly attentive server and supporting staff The food and drinks were amazing. We did the wedge (a little small) dirty hash browns (some of the best potatoes I've ever had) and a filet and side of king crab. We got a few cocktails to pair. Dirty martini and tequila sours. Overall a great night from begging to end. Defiantly a great place to go for a special occasion.

I heard a lot of mixed reviews about this place, so I finally went on a Sunday afternoon for my…read moreanniversary. For a party of 2 they sat us quickly. The ambience is amazing. However that was the only nice thing about born n raise. The service was very basic, like ordering food at your local denies. No extra care or explanation of the menu. But not bad either. We ordered the steak sampler for 2, Mac n cheese, mushrooms, hash brown bites, and a total of 4 drinks. The steak sampler was a ripoff. For $169 they provide you with 12 oz of steak and they all taste mediocre. The sides were all good. The drinks nothing fancy. For a total of $400 for 2 people. I had wayyyy better. I'm a SD local and had to scratch this restaurant of my list. But I'm definitely not ever going back. You can do way better in SD

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Moe's - Filet

Moe's

4.4(409 reviews)
4.1 mi

Food here is a real sleeper. Incredible. Not want you'd' expect in mission beach…read more Staff is a ten out of ten. Fast and professional Thank you guys

Moe's is one of our favorites when we visit San Diego. Mission Beach is our happy place and Moe's…read moreis a big part of that beach community. The cocktails, service and food is all really solid but my favorite thing is the old school feel of the design. It's dark, warm and has a nostalgic Rat Pack vibe. We love the black and white photos throughout. Nothing better than meatball Mondays when they serve insanely good meatballs and homemade Bucatini pasta (pic 12). What better to accompany that deliciousness than some signature cocktails. Some of the fam loved the "Fields of Italy." (Pic 3) It's a fresh, crispy champagne cocktail made with vodka, Aperol, St. Germain, strawberry/basil jam, lemon and prosecco. It was perfect for a summer day. I had one of my favs that has been on the menu for a while now called "Party with Elvis." (Pic 5) It starts out like a boss with walnut-infused bourbon, Montenegro (Italian Amaro), tiki bitters, orange bitters and an orange garnish. It's exceptional!!! The last cocktail in the rotation was a traditional Manhattan that always goes perfect with a plate of Italian love (pic 13). It's always classic and the Moe's staff captures it perfectly with Basil Hayden bourbon, Antica sweet vermouth and angostura bitters. If you haven't been to Moe's, you should make the effort because they never disappoint. It's easy to find bright, fancy joints throughout San Diego, but they're an elevated old school gem that's hard to find. Salute @thejohnnycocktail Fields of Italy Vodka Aperol St. Germain Strawberry/basil jam Lemon Prosecco Party with Elvis Walnut-infused Bourbon Montenegro Sweet Vermouth Tiki Bitters Orange Bitters Orange Garnish

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Rare Society - Associate board

Rare Society

4.2(706 reviews)
2.4 mi
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Amazing food, vibe, ambiance customer service. Before I start I like to mention Abraham our waiter,…read morehe's the main reason my review hit 5. The kid was on point, friendly, helpful, attentive & fast. He helped us order as he was very knowledgeable of the menu, food & drinks. We were never thirsty as he kept the drinks going as we were eating. It was 13 of us & we had a few picky people but he handled our whole party perfectly. He made our evening there & enjoyable. Now for the restaurant & food, they open 5-10pm is best to make reservations especially on Friday's & Saturday's it gets full, best day to go for me is Sunday not as busy & very chill. The ambience inside is really nice but you can attend as nice casual or fancy it's up to you, very clean inside with a good bar. The customer service all the way around was good. Food, amazing, start with the rolls & Cesar Salad & A Lamb Lollipop, it's a perfect way to start. We got the Executive Board which is different slices of meat & bone marrow, pricey BUT worth it, you can feed 4-5 people especially if you get sides. The asparagus were my favorite & the Mac & Cheese was good & filling as was the mash potatoes. Drinks from alcohol & mock drinks were perfectly made. Overall it was a great experience & we loved it, from the adults to kids. We were all first timers & we will be back, my nephews were saying they can't wait to bring their girlfriends. I came with my sister & cousin & their kids & I can't wait to bring my wife here. See you soon Rare Society & Abraham keep up the great work.

A delicious special occasion dinner! The associate board is a great deal, featuring 3 full size…read moresteaks (filet, Denver, and tri-tip) and served with bone marrow, bearnaise, steak sauce, salsa, and truffle butter. We enjoyed making different flavor combinations with the many provided accoutrements. The board was also placed on a lazy susan and so every part could easily be accessed by all guests. The shell mac is a must-try. We loved the rich sauce that had a great cheese flavor saucily covering the large shell pasta. The staff were also very friendly and kind while we celebrated a birthday. This would have been a 5 star experience but only the tri-tip was served medium as requested. The Denver and filet mignon were close to rare. This was fine but not ideal, and it was not even medium rare, which would have at least only been one level away from our requested steak doneness. We could have brought this to the staff's attention but didn't find it worthwhile. The wooden board also does not conduct heat well, so the steaks were cold by the time we finished dinner. Perhaps a cast iron tray or ceramic tray would have better kept our food warm throughout the meal.

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Cowboy Star - C - Star Signature Steak Tartare

Cowboy Star

4.3(2.4k reviews)
3.8 mi•East Village
•$$$$

This is THE spot! I love Cowboy Star, this place is so great that I've never thought to write…read more review. Amazing service from Victor! The vibes are immaculate. I feel like there are so many tourists traps downtown and this is not one of them. Not only is their steak amazing, their rolls are divine and their whiskey sour is my favorite in the city. Don't forget the banana dessert. This is an amazing place for a special occasion and there appears to be a private room in the back for gatherings. Great happy hour if you're around during the week!

A Very Disappointing Experience -- Our First and Last Visit…read more We arrived at the restaurant and asked for a table, only to be told that we would have to wait an hour. We were then offered seats at the bar, which we accepted. Unfortunately, the experience that followed was extremely disappointing. There were three employees working behind the bar: a young man who appeared to be around 21 or 22 years old and two older employees. Not one of them welcomed us, acknowledged our presence, or asked how we were doing. We were completely ignored for approximately 10 minutes until one of the bartenders finally approached us and coldly asked, "Are you eating here?" I replied yes. He brought us menus but left us waiting again. I eventually had to get his attention just to ask whether we could order drinks. His response was dismissive, as if we were inconveniencing him. I even mentioned that it was our first time visiting, but his only response was "Okay," with no attempt to make us feel welcome. We ordered bread, a New York ribeye, and a banana dessert. Unfortunately, we could not fully enjoy our meal because the way we had been treated made us feel unwelcome from the very beginning. What made the experience particularly concerning was that we noticed other white customers receiving much more attentive and efficient service, while we were left waiting and largely ignored. This led us to question whether our treatment had anything to do with our Hispanic appearance. We cannot know the employees' intentions, but the difference in service was noticeable and left us feeling uncomfortable and unwelcome. I believe the bartender's name was Doug, although I am not completely certain. My wife and I both work in the restaurant industry. I have experience as a customer service trainer and restaurant manager, while my wife has worked as an area manager and Human Resources director. We understand how demanding restaurant work can be, and we always try to be fair and respectful toward service staff. However, basic hospitality, acknowledgment, and respect should be the minimum standard for every guest. When we paid, we were presented with a tablet offering tip options of 20%, 22%, and 25%. I left a 20% tip because I respect the work of service professionals, even though the service we received did not reflect the level of hospitality we expect from a restaurant. This was our first visit, and unfortunately, it will be our last. No guest should leave a restaurant feeling ignored, disrespected, or unwelcome because of how they look or the ethnicity they may be perceived to belong to. Management should take this experience seriously and review the staff's approach to customer service, hospitality, and equal treatment of all guests.

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