Great vibes with my gay friends. It's so crazy that I met my colleague back in highschool here. Small world. Service by Marissa and Patrick is absolute top shelf, top notch. Recommend with my utmost respectful regards! read more

Ended up at the Mix because Q bar shut down early... and soooo happy I did!! Tony and Santos (sorry If got the names wrong) were some of the most hospitable bar staff I've interacted with in a long time. (Note: I've bartend In the city since 2010) please let them know that they were LOVELY and I will definitely be back because of them. Side note: there was a random aggressive altercation that occurred behind me while I was ordering.. but it seemed like the guard handled in an appropriate and timely manner.... Because tbh I was ready to slap the aggressive guy that kept bumping into me. read more

I would NOT go again if I see the white elderly female bartending... (with short, white hair, pixie cut) (CHECK OUT the other 1-star review lol) When we first sat down she was serving other customers, which seems fine... okay she thought she was being funny that she cannot see the tiny buttons on the soda gun. And paused for two minutes to identify the soda button without using her glasses to be comedic (she finally pulled down her glasses after 2 whole minutes). Next customer ordered a beer. While a guy at the bar trying to make a conversation with the customer ordering a beer. She shush'd the guy making a conversation, thinking she is funny. And then it's finally me and my husband's turn. My husband asked for a bourbon & coke. She turned to me and asked for my ID. Gave her my driver license. And she spent three whole minutes studying my ID, which I was unbothered of, thinking she's old, she's taking her time, she's doing the maths, whatevs. Then she asked my husband if we are ordering two bourbon coke. He said "No, he's (me) getting something else" and so I ordered whiskey sour. And when she started pulling out two glasses, she kept looking back at my husband, mumbled a comment that sounded like "are you dead?" (Not 100% sure what she said) My husband asked her, "I'm getting a bourbon and coke and he (me) wanted something else, why are you giving us a hard time?" She said "well normally two people order two drinks" THAT'S CORRECT! BUT ONLY she never asked what I want, she just assumed that we are having two of the same drink. But she forgot, that she spent A LONG AS$ time to stare at my ID, and never asked what I want. She then made a comment sarcastically, "how about I make you a bourbon and coke and just let him (me) sit there." And my husband of course is unhappy, and they continued to exchange a few words. Eventually, she asked us to take our as$es elsewhere. (To which, we are more than happy to!) TBH, I don't even know what happened. I kept re-analyzing the situation. I think it was a big misunderstanding. But after all, her attitude was unacceptable even the bar "reserves all right to refuse service to anyone." She is just a bad vibe. Oh also, objectively speaking, she seemed high / drunk / impaired. (Judging by the way she interacted with the other customers, and us.) We went to the next bar, shared our experience with other customers. We were told "Yeah, I haven't been to The Mix in years! And I know who you are talking about. Her energy is just off. Sorry that happened to you." Anyway, I'll stay away if I ever see her again, but you'll be the judge. I'm just sharing my experience for the record. Thanks! read more

Marissa is an amazing bartender. She is always so attentive and makes drinks quick that taste very good and are well poured for the price! Gregorio is also a hugr sweetie and is always greeting people he recognizes. It can get really really busy but the atmosphere and the patio is very warming and welcoming. The group is very nice and welcoming most nights as well! read more

To preface, we have been here before, and we know they have heavy pours, however,I went to this bar with a few friends, we ordered drinks and were carrying along nicely with our night. One friend and I were approached by two men who were seemingly friendly and they roofied our drinks. After having a SINGLE DRINK we don't remember anything except waking up in our beds the next morning. My friend was violently ill, and we woke up so confused. Thank god we were with two other friends or else we have no idea if we would have been safe. We will never be coming back here and if you are thinking of coming here, make sure to watch your drink. read more

A friend recommended this place and it was so much fun! The bartenders were so amazing and we had great conversations with them. Our group got a variety of drinks like tequila shots, topo chico, martinis, jameson beer (?) and some others. Music was amazing and the vibes were good. Lots of seating available inside and they also had a back patio. The restrooms were a bit interesting bc they were kinda exposed. We stayed until closing (2 am) and it was a great time -- would definitely come again! read more

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No hi or how are you just where's your ID. I know I'm flowing with Youngblood but dam that's a shitty feeling. Then asked for what's the specials and he said read the screen which wasn't on that slide. Just an asshole. Good ambiance tho, lots of gays and feels too just that I wouldn't come back. Coopers next door the bartender was way more embracing and helpful. read more

Was ignored by the bartender. She went to opposite ends of the bar, and every time I followed, she moved on without serving me. She saw me. She seemed not to like me, decided not to serve me, and actively ignored me. She is middle-aged, with dark hair, and works Saturdays at 7pm. You know, for a community that claims to be all-inclusive, particularly "The Mix," I was treated very poorly for being different. Funny how that works. read more

I remember when this spot was called Uncle Bert's probably around the start of the millennium. It was a more rambunctious and disheveled place. Or maybe it was me who was more rambunctious and disheveled back then. It all blurs together in what's left of my brain. Currently it's more of a standard grade Castro gay bar but with two separate bars. The second one is outside in the back patio where most of the regulars congregate amid the permanent holiday lights. The owners refer to their establishment as "The Neighborhood Bar" on the awning, and it fits as most of the customers know each other and the veteran bartender quite well. I just sidled myself up to the main bar and ordered one of their $7 drinks (photo: https://yelp.to/OvmIsy4ZKD). It can get a bit loud and somewhat crowded during Happy Hour (no 2-4-1 though), but what I really appreciated was the huge restroom with multiple urinals available. Unfortunately the sink is adjacent to them, so depending on the gender and availability of the person washing up, there could be awkward furtive glances exchanged. Or you could get lucky. Who knows when you're in The Mix? DRINKS - 3 stars...a bit on the weak side but reasonably priced AMBIANCE - 3.5 stars...big on rainbows here SERVICE - 4 stars...pleasant and busy TOTAL - 3 stars...what's in The Mix? RELATED - Exploring the Castro? Here's a collection of places I've visited and reviewed: https://bit.ly/2HrpFPC read more

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The bouncer. The guy who does security. He lets minors on the club. He is 6'1 Round 146 pounds and it was during pride weekend. They allow minors into the bar. They let children drink.z read more

The weekday bartenders are the least friendly. They just seem to hate being there, & one blonde woman takes out her frustration on the customers. She drinks are the cheapest, so you think they'd be packed. Nope. The weekend bartenders are the best, especially the women. read more

Giving it a 5, but I'm pretty sure this place would rather have a 3. It's the dive-iest bar in the Castro and anti-pretentious as a dive bar should be, hence why I think they'd prefer a 3. But the drinks are strong, the staff is great and the area is amazing. Very spacious and on most nights the place to start since it's spacious enough to find seating, and in the back there's an outdoor area where you can enjoy the weather regardless if it's hot or cold (since they had heaters when it's cold). Interesting bar that will play the presidential debates if requested. Great place for an after work meetup, or trying to catch up with friends without worrying about spending a lot to get buzzed. read more

I write this review as I sit at the mix, and I hope the old, grey haired bartender (just figured out her name is Sloan, which I figured out about halfway through this review) has the gall to come up to me and treat me the way I've seen her treat two patrons the passed two days, consecutively. Let me explain. I have been to the mix MANY times at all points of the day. recently, I have been coming more often since I moved to the surrounding area. Yesterday, I witnessed a slowwwwwww bartender (Sloan). and when a patron, understandably frustrated with that slowness, (mind you, it's a Tuesday at ~4pm, it's not busy). I watched this bartender take 2min21secs (yes I timed it) to pour me a shot--im simply making the point that he was justified. Anyways, When he voiced that concern, I watched the bartender verbally berate him, take his drink although clearly not intoxicated, and continue to YELL in front of the ~10 people that were there in the bar. The patron (rightfully) deescalated and left. After this, I watched the bartender pour another drink, THEN fail to charge another customer (thus making them wait for drinks already poured in front of them) and then proceed to RUN OUT TO THE BACK AND VERBALLY BERATE HIM AGAIN--AFTER HE ALREADY REMOVED HIMSELF AND WASNT INTERACTING WITH HER ANYMORE. Sloan then proceeded to offer me a free shot on "that guy" as a concession. (A shot she took two minutes to pour. I've seen most bartenders at peak times do this in under 15 seconds. I'm more so glad about not having to wait for her to charge me, than being charged itself) But ya know what, whatever, I wasn't there, this all happened right when I walked in. Maybe he was disrespectful that I didn't see. Didn't think much of it. My boyfriend and I had our drink and left. It's probably worth noting that Sloan said "she's runs this bitch, and what she says goes" (even if that's true...yikes) Today--I walk into the bar, grab my shot, and Sloan is the bartender, unfortunately, once again. I grab my shot, go to the back, and proceed to mind my business.. I then notice a guy come in to meet some friends, and mentioned he had a party weekend, and was gonna go grab a glass of water. (His friends had alcoholic drinks from the bar) Sloan then proceeds to literally CHASE this man out to the back, and criticize him for not buying a drink, and even goes so far to ask personal questions to "put him in her shoes" Sloan continued on to say things like "oh so you bartend, people usually come in and just get water" the man responded and said "it does happen, yes" to which Sloan responded, "yeah I can tell by your eyes that that's not true and you're lying" and proceeds to walk out --all of this even though Sloan herself said the man gave him a nice "hello"--it's not like he just walked in and didn't acknowledge the service workers. She came out later and offered a half assed apology to him later which I also heard. Honestly, I don't know what Sloan's problem is. I'm not sure if she hates her job, has some self internalized hatred, hates customer service, is just a bitter woman, doesn't know how to control her temper, or a collection of all of those things. All I know is, I have been coming to the mix for almost 5+ years now, and I have never, ever, EVER, thought about not coming back until I have seen this GROSSLY unprofessional behavior, especially in the light of the Castro. This SHOULD be a fun place. People shouldn't be berated for getting water and joining their paying patron friends. Pick your battles. Its customer service. I thought this would be common sense. I'm probably about a third of Sloans age, and it might be time for her to wisen up. She'll never get a tip from me again. Made sure to get my second shot so I wasn't villainized for having the opinion she is awful to interact with and had my drink taken from my hands, as I've seen her do. Seriously, if she isn't part of ownership, you guys need to seriously discipline or replace her. My review isn't the first, and it won't be the last. UPDATE!!! Walked down the street to The Edge, and was informed by patrons there that this is very much usual behavior for Sloan. So, question answered, she's just a bitter woman. SERIOSULY--if you see this woman when you're walking into Mix, wait until a shift change or another bartender comes in, you'll thank me. I promise. read more

RUDE and DISRESPECTFUL bouncer. It seems like he loves challenging/arguing with anyone he gets the chance with. Ruins the atmosphere making one feel UNSAFE and driving business away. Could not last more than 15 min in here without hearing him yell/argue with someone new coming in through that door. Do not spend your money here only to get disrespected or yelled at. Save your dignity and chose another bar where you will actually have fun and be treated with respect. read more

I waited over 10 minutes minutes Trying to get a beer and that lady bartender just completely ignored me she looked very very over it ,so tired she have no manners she's rude and she's a horrible bartender. She couldn't even say hi or hello nothing.She was just in her corner talking to some friends when four people at the bar were seating with no drinks ...horrible service she is the worst!! Don't waste your time ... they have no manners no protocols no introductions and she looks like she just don't give a fuck and it shows but I'm more than happy to come and training her how have to be a professional bartender. read more

I'm honestly so disappointed with my experience at The Mix on Friday. As a woman of color who supports the LGBTQ+ community, I came expecting a safe, inclusive vibe -- especially being in the Bay Area, where that's the norm. But I've never experienced the kind of energy I felt there. Right after getting our IDs checked, a drunk man -- who apparently worked there -- grabbed my friend's Labubu figure and started yelling and yelled to leave. Not even 10 seconds from walking in the door. We asked the woman at the stool if he worked there and she confirmed it. Nothing was done. No apology, no accountability. Was it because we were women? Was it because we were women of color with our gay friends? Whatever the reason, it felt disrespectful and targeted. And in a place that's supposed to center safety and inclusion, it just felt wrong. The Bay Area is known for its acceptance , this wasn't that. Do better. Dudes a loser for that. read more

I can say with utmost sincerity that Sheri (Cheri?) makes the best Bloody Mary in this whole damn city. She makes me happy every time I talk to her and makes my drinks super pretty, and delightfully tasty. This on top of the fact that The Mix never ceases to bring a great series of moments and conversation without a doubt. read more

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Shireen is the best and kindest bartender I've ever interacted. She deserves a raise! Thank you for making my night amazing read more

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The bartenders were incredibly rude to me and my friend. Our friend group decided to leave and spend our money at one of the many other great bars in the area, such as Toe Hall, where we were treated with respect. read more

This place has gone down hill! All I ask for was my belongings and the bartender escorted me out with out reason! I felt assaulted! Treated disrespected for no reason! Don't go with valuables! You'll never get them back! I would give a zero if I could! read more

Our favorite bartender So I am a foodie and a bar lover since I bartend myself.. It's tough to find a place where you just fit in and they're right to say that the bartender makes the ambiance. This woman ALWAYS makes us feel like she will make whatever we want and super comfortable ! Love it! We will keep coming back! Thank you sheree read more

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#lifelogue: joined by duv (@plugh), & shannon for or a little soirée at our fav, low-light, chill-space. I can't think of a better way to spend my after than w/friends in this dark, hideaway. Only thing is: bloody mary mixture has anchovies. if you're vegetarian or vegan you may not want this. For me they were willing to make one from scratch. Horseradish might have egg too. Just sayin. They might be surprised at seeing the check in offer presented so be prepared for a confused look from the bartender. #OneLove #LGBTQ read more

I've been coming to this bar for years, but recent experiences have raised serious concerns for me and my friends. On two separate visits, friends of mine became severely ill shortly after having drinks here. While I can't definitively say what caused it, there was no clear opportunity for anyone outside of our group to touch their drinks. We tried contacting the bar to address these issues but were dismissed with the manager saying "I asked the staff, nobody knew anything about it" and had no follow up. If I were the manager of a bar with multiple people reporting similar issues I would be seriously concerned. I'm sharing this in the hope that others remain cautious and aware when visiting. Unfortunately, based on these experiences, I don't feel comfortable recommending this place anymore. read more

Do not let the bartenders take your credit card away. They will steal the numbers and go use it at the Fireside in Oakland. It has happened twice now. Thursday nights crowd beware. read more

Don't know if this is actually a "Gay" bar, or just a bar filled with a lot of really awesome people who just happen to be gay, but hey, it's the Castro, soooo, what in god's name do you expect!? HA! We rolled up here pretty early, I dunno, maybe around 13:00 or so, after getting kicked out of a restaurant for drinking all their mimosas. Something just doesn't sit right with me, and maybe it won't sit right with you - let's find out: "Bottomless mimosas....... 90 minute limit." Like, what?! I mean, don't get me wrong, I can do some work in 90 minutes, but c'mon, I don't wanna have to pee every 6 seconds, AND the place wasn't even packed, or freaking busy at all for that matter. Just a butthurt manager (haha, butthurt. Castro. Nice.) Anyway, that's a different review. So yeah, The Mix. Place is super dope, with a pretty big inside, maybe? Don't know, was pretty drunk and we were OUTSIDE ON THE PATIO, YO! Which is infinitely awesomer than being inside. Everyone there was a blast, as they usually are when you're at a gay bar! See you there! :D read more

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Someone wearing mesh underwear only drop kicked me in the back for lightly grazing his butt and winking at him. He screamed ONLY CONSENT as if it was sexual assault and then got the door guy to kick me out. What an embarrassment for this venue. The guy was also screaming that he works there which is truly appalling for staff to even consider ACTUAL assault on a patron for harmless, widely accepted GAY behavior at a GAY bar. If you don't like attention of that type then approach calmly and explain it like an adult, but resulting to pushing and actually kicking in someone's lower back because you can't manage your emotions is pathetic. I'll never come back. read more

Asked bartender Eric (I believe) what his favorite mixed drink was to make (so I can get something he actually likes to do) he said "what the fuck. Don't ask me that" so I just had water(plus I was already drinking) As I was pouring my water, the guest next to me asked what's up and he started talking bad about me. HAHA. Sir I was just asking what you actually like to make? My bad you don't actually like your job..... anyways. The 2nd floor was a vibe that's was got the 2/5. My brother actually lives out here, and I guess likes it coming here? his friend lmk they act like that to a lot of feminine passing people when I told them why we left after 1 beer. There's so many bars out there with friendlier bartenders- went down the street to Moby Dick (my brother actually came out to my mom here haha) the bartender was so sweet, he recommended this cute yummy little drink, and they have such great lighting in there. So I guess s/o the bartender here for being able to go somewhere better ( : 1- compliment, to this bartender did look buff af if you're into that ( : read more

First time out here in the Castro with no plans, legit just walking around. This place had their door open so naturally we peaked inside and heard BANGERS - Stickwitu by the Pussycat Dolls. Sold. We came inside and got seated fairly quickly. The bartender (Manny) was sooooo GREAT! My boyfriend and I had no idea what we wanted to drink so we asked Manny for recs. Manny suggested the strawberry margaritas because they have a special recipe. Let me tell you... I had 3 of these margs and I was borderline black out central. (I am also just this small girl so a few drinks for me will do it.) Manny knew exactly what to do with these drinks!! On top of all this, the ambiance is a good time + the mix stays playing straight bangers. Ranging from Destinys Child to Ne-Yo to all the old throwbacks. Its such a fun time. Manny's the best and I'm so glad we decided to come here. It's a fun time and it's still COVID friendly!! Tables are spaced out. Can't wait to come back here. read more

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Thank you for the Mexican gal who served us tonight! You were professional and your kindness was absolutely made our night! You made us feel seen and wanted when 440 gave us attitude for using our Apple Pay! You had such a great attitude and I hope you stay here! We absolutely adore you ! We will come back just for you! read more

Pretty sure the bartenders just...spike drinks. Multiple times I came here (bottled beer for me) and the person I was with (cocktails) blacked out quickly: not slurring, not drunk, just suddenly not logging memories, being extremely confused, and needing to immediately leave and sleep it off. read more

nice bar, but be AWARE!!! Bartenders WILL attempt to overcharge non-locals, or anyone that's already drunk. I asked for three drinks of whatever the previous customer had ordered - they paid 20 for two drinks, when it was my turn the bartender jacked up the price of three drinks to $47. When confronted and asked how much each drink cost, he looked mad stupid and went back and forth till he claimed it was $12 a drink (not the original $10), and claimed it was a 'typo' finally charging me $33 (Not $36). Unsure If he was nervous caught in his bluff or simply terrible at basic math equations, either way it's a recurring theme as another customer later related of a similar experience. So, in summary, it's a decent set up (music shuts by 1 am) but is accompanied by deceitful staff taking advantage of new faces and those they claim to serve. read more

Walked in with a few friends since we are all from out of town. Got to the bar and begin ordering my drink when a man came up and started yelling very loudly at me "don't you ever walk past security again" and had an aggressive stance so I left. Before leaving I asked my friends if they had saw him when walking in and they told me no. I told the security to do his job and left without getting anything so can't comment on the drinks although the bartender was quick to get to me and was polite. It's unfortunate someone who's not used to the area gets berated like this but I know it's not what most of the establishments are like. Looks like a nice place though besides the experience. read more

A group of friends and I stopped in while walking around the neighborhood on a Sunday afternoon. We were able to grab a table outside and stayed for about 2 hours. It was pretty busy when we were there, but not so much that you couldn't walk around inside. We encountered a lot of outgoing customers during our visit. I originally ordered an old fashioned, but switched to margaritas afterwards when I noticed how many people were drinking them. Margaritas are definitely the way to go here. The old fashioned was good, but the margarita was a 9/10 without a doubt. I try not to come down too hard on bar/restaurant bathrooms (especially at a time when many places may be short staffed), but the bathroom here was gross. read more

Such a cool bar. It has multiple rooms including an outdoor area. The ambiance here is amazing, and it can get a little packed at night but in the winter that just makes it cozier. Also a bar with multiple rooms and reasonably priced drinks! Can't wait to be back read more

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This bar is located in the Castro District and bars out here have VERY generous pours. Met up for a friend's birthday on a Friday night right before midnight and parking was pretty difficult, you can drive around the main streets or the some of the residential areas nearby but I had a hard time finding parking and had to park a little farther out. Anyways, I went the end of January 2022 and they checked for vaccination. They have a small inside area, gender neutral bathrooms, and they have a nice outdoor area. They play music, have screens, and they have such generous pours! We were shocked with our round of tequila shots. The bartenders were super friendly and a great place to grab a drink! read more

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Another local watering hole. Relaxed comfortable environment; however, drinks are horrible and overpriced (9 bucks for a tall house vodka cocktail). Could barely sip 1/4 of my drink and had to leave it behind. read more

Great bar in the heart of the Castro. In the front is a cost bar with ample seating and tables. In the back is another bar with an outdoor patio. The crowd is mixed and leans toward gay men. But you'll see women come with their gay male friends and are welcomed. Let's are also common. Check out the daily drink specials. They have a good selection of on tap beers. As well as free wifi. read more

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Mix is one of my favorite spots to go , especially on a Friday or Saturday night and a great spot to meet amazing people! The workers, except one, are great, they're so friendly! Also the reason why I love coming here on weekends because everyone is so friendly. I can only speak for what I've experienced here, I know others may have some unfortunate moments. Only downside to this establishment is that the bathroom! if i tell you it reeks, it eeefenn does and it's unbelievable! I cannot stay in there for more than one second. Even if you're drunk the smell will slap you sober. Drinks are punch you in the face yummy! You'll know what I mean if you've been here before. For others who hasn't, be cautious ;P but it's a good thing, less $$ to throw down on a weekend.. I'll be back Mix! read more

Food: Pussy popper: this was a drink. It was amazing! I could barely taste the alcohol! It was like a spiked lemonade but like better. Strawberry margarita: I think I preferred the pussy popper but u definitely liked this drink as well. Mood: The vibes here at this bar was so amazing! I loved this bar. Everyone was really nice. The only parted I hated was needing to wait to get in but they were at capacity so understandable. They played so many bops! Absolutely phenomenal. I would definitely recommend this place and would come back again! Service was a little slow but they were crowded when we went. Everyone was having a nice time vibing read more

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I'm going to be as fair as I can be on this one. I had my wallet and phone stolen from the back room of the bar tonight. I know I had both in the bar because I paid for a round of drinks in cash. Pulling out my money probably set the alert that I was a good target. I recommend making sure your bags are closed and valuables are not left hanging on chairs or wallets in your front pockets. Crimes of opportunity are tempting for patrons here. The drinks were okay. Standard and strong. The ambiance was great; the music was excellent and the patrons were fun as hell. Would I come back here? Yes Am I totally pissed about tonight with little help from the bar? Also, yes. I am wondering if the bar has surveillance footage? I had a Santa hat on, was standing at the far corner of the back room bar, and this all happened around 10:30. This should be easy to trace if you have footage. read more