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Mary's on Haight

3.9 (14 reviews)
Closed • 11:00 am - 2:00 AM (Next day)

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Izzy F.

Love love love this bar! We live on Haight and it's our new go to. Connor is a fantastic bartender. He and Maria are the best team! Negronis are great! On slower nights it's a great place to play pool. Great community vibe here. Truly the perfect place to drink. Neighborhood dive vibes that are worth traveling for. Love the Christmas decorations too!

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10 months ago

This is the best bar on Haight! Conner and Maria are the most welcoming. Great vibe and atmosphere. They also have a pool table in the back!

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1 year ago

So excited to have experienced a real haighr street experience. Amazing staff, you feel welcomed and the drinks are amazing

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1 year ago

Absolutely amazing bar with fantastic staff! Super friendly and inviting! Well done the the new owners

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Twin Peaks Tavern - Our favorite place

Twin Peaks Tavern

3.8(247 reviews)
0.8 mi•Castro
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The "glass coffin" is primed for perfect Castro Street people watching. Now with outdoor seating…read morefor an even better view. It's historical as it is charming. A relaxed vibe with charming details like the old cash register that is still actively in use. Friendly bartenders who serve up drinks with some friendly banter especially with the regulars. Worth a stop in if you're exploring Castro for the first time. Make this an early stop on your crawl. Happy Pride!

1/5 -- Horrible Service, Public Humiliation, and Completely Unacceptable Treatment…read more I had one of the worst experiences I've ever had at a bar, and I am honestly shocked by the level of disrespect, hostility, and unprofessionalism we experienced. When my friend and I first walked in, we were unaware that this establishment was cash-only. We politely ordered two drinks, and the bartender prepared them before informing us that they only accepted cash. We completely understood, left to withdraw money from an ATM, and returned. When we came back, the bartender gave us the same drinks he had already prepared, which was perfectly fine with us. We appreciated that he had kept them, and at that point, everything seemed normal. Unfortunately, things quickly took a very unpleasant turn. When my friend ordered another round of drinks for the rest of our group, the bartender began making sarcastic, humiliating, and completely unnecessary comments about whether we actually had money to pay this time. He repeated these remarks approximately four times in front of our entire group. It was incredibly disrespectful, embarrassing, and completely uncalled for. We had already demonstrated that we were responsible customers by leaving, finding an ATM, and returning with cash. There was absolutely no reason to continue questioning our ability to pay or making us feel unwelcome. I personally chose not to respond to his disrespectful behavior because I didn't want to escalate the situation. However, my friend spoke up and told the bartender that his attitude and comments were inappropriate. Instead of apologizing or handling the situation professionally, the bartender became increasingly confrontational and threatened to call the police. He eventually followed through, and the situation ended with police officers escorting us out of the establishment. Imagine going out for a few drinks with friends, returning with cash to pay for your order, and somehow ending up being escorted out by police because a bartender couldn't treat customers with basic respect. Another concerning aspect of this experience was the bartender's behavior. He appeared unusually agitated, erratic, and confrontational. His conduct was so unsettling that it made me question whether he might have been under the influence of something. I cannot confirm that, but his behavior raised concerns. Regardless of the reason, his attitude was completely inappropriate for someone working in hospitality. Hospitality is supposed to be about making guests feel welcome, comfortable, and respected. Instead, we experienced unnecessary hostility, public embarrassment, and an escalation that should never have happened. Calling the police after repeatedly making disrespectful comments toward customers who were willing and able to pay is an astonishing failure of customer service. What could have been a simple, enjoyable evening with friends turned into an unnecessarily humiliating experience. I sincerely hope management takes situations like this seriously and evaluates how its staff interacts with customers. No guest should ever have to tolerate this level of disrespect. I will absolutely never return to this bar, and I strongly encourage others to think twice before supporting an establishment where customers can be treated this way. Respect, professionalism, and basic human decency should never be optional in hospitality. One star is honestly more than this experience deserves. Absolutely disgraceful and unacceptable.

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SF Eagle

3.9(230 reviews)
1.8 mi•SoMa
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i loved it i got Eiffel Towerrd in the bathroom 1000 recommendatied drinks were good amazing overallread more

I genuinely do not know whether this place is supposed to be a nightclub, a poorly supervised…read morebasement party, or a social experiment designed to test how much filth and bad music one person can tolerate before leaving. If you are coming here expecting a classy San Francisco night out, lower your expectations immediately. Then lower them again. The place was dirty, smelled absolutely awful, and had none of the polish you would expect from a supposedly established nightlife venue. There was no real premium bottle service experience, no impressive top shelf liquor presentation, and absolutely nothing about this place made me feel like I was somewhere upscale. And apparently personal boundaries are optional here, because I repeatedly turned around and saw people openly engaging in sexual activity. I came here to have a drink and dance, not accidentally attend an unsanitary live performance every time I looked in a different direction. The smell deserves its own paragraph. It was BAD. Not "nightclub at the end of the evening" bad. I mean the kind of smell that makes you question the ventilation system, the cleaning schedule, and every decision that brought you through the front door. I genuinely do not know how people stay inside long enough to dance without asking themselves, "What exactly am I breathing right now?" Speaking of dancing, that brings me to the DJ. What was that? The music was so painfully bad that at some point I became convinced someone was playing a prank on the entire building. Song after song, I kept waiting for the night to finally start. It never did. Whoever was controlling the music managed to take a room full of people who came out to party and create the musical atmosphere of a punishment. San Francisco has incredible nightlife. There is absolutely no reason to spend your night suffering through this. The bartender who helped me was actually very nice, so I will give him credit. He was probably the highlight of the entire experience. Security, on the other hand, was another story. The attitude and overall experience only made the place feel even more unpleasant. Between the horrible smell, questionable cleanliness, lack of an upscale bottle service experience, bizarre atmosphere, and DJ set that felt like an act of revenge against music itself, I left wondering why I had not gone literally anywhere else. If your idea of nightlife is elegance, great drinks, good music, and an environment where you can enjoy yourself without witnessing things you never asked to see, do yourself a favor and choose another venue. There are too many great places in San Francisco to voluntarily spend your night here. One star for the bartender. The rest of the place needs prayer, bleach, ventilation, and a new DJ.

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Aunt Charlie's Lounge

4.1(231 reviews)
2.1 mi•Tenderloin
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Aunt Charlie's is AMAZING! If you're looking for a night full of laughs, excitement, and…read moreunforgettable entertainment, look no further. Drinks: Cheap, strong, and delicious ($6 cocktails?! Yes please!) Atmosphere: Small, unapologetically gay, and full of personality. Drag queens: Incredible, stunning, hilarious, and unforgettable. This was my very first drag show, and I couldn't have asked for a better experience. They took the time to explain how drag shows work, welcomed all the newcomers into the family, and immediately made us feel like we belonged. I was a little nervous going in, but within minutes I felt completely at home. Special shoutout to Olivia Heart--my favorite drag queen and our waitress. She'll make sure you're very well taken care of and might whisper a few sweet nothings that leave you questioning everything. An absolute icon. If you're in San Francisco, you HAVE to go. And if you can, catch the Friday or Saturday drag show--just be sure to call ahead for a reservation because it gets busy. And bring cash, because it's Cash Only! They have an ATM. Thank you, Aunt Charlie's, for an unforgettable night. I'll definitely be back!

This was my first visit to San Francisco with my partner and we had such a fun time at this little…read morespot. Oliva was the Hostess with the Mostess. She went around taking drink orders as well as making the experience very memorable. The place is very intimate and when I say intimate it is nuts to butts but we like both lol. The wall has side by side seating and there are stools in front of the bar. The performers werk up and down the main aisle entertaining. It is a cash only place which was perfectly cool with us. We happened to catch their drag show. They do offer small little snacks like chips and peanuts. Drink prices were very reasonable and with good pours thanks to bartender Pete. Thank you everyone for such a great show.

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