Have your wedding here or get a group together for a weekend getaway with friends and significant others.
Location: The city of Tecate is a sleepy little place, more akin to an interior Mexican town than a boarder town. This is, no doubt, because there's no American town or city on the other side. The approximate 1 square mile encompassed by Presidente Lazaro Cardenas to the west (the street onto which you enter from the boarder), Avenue Miguel Hidalgo to the south, Rio Yaqui/Lerma to the east, and the boarder itself to the north, seems perfectly safe with little restaurants and cafes surrounding the center attraction: Miguel Hidalgo Park. Walking around in a group is perfect for this setting. However, I cannot speak to the surrounding areas beyond what I just described or the outskirts of town.
***Pro tip: Park on the US side. There's essentially nothing over on the US side except a bunch of cheap (dirt) parking lots, a 7-11, a Payless Shoes, and maybe a gas station or two. The parking lots are around $5-$10 per 24-hour period. Walk across the boarder (bring your passport duh!). If you are from the US, this is a very non-stressful boarder crossing. Sure, you could drive into Mexico, but I recommend against it for one reason: You must wake up early to get back across because the line of cars gets crazy long. Plus, you sit in the heat of the day, idling for hours, and all for what?! To potentially miss your opportunity to cross back over because the boarder closes at a certain time. I walked right past someone in the car line that I knew, and by the time they had crossed back over the boarder, I had already walked across and driven back to Los Angeles!
Rooms: Nice, big, comfy, and clean. You get more for your money than you would on the US side, that's for sure. I think it came with a few bottles of water and all the usual things.
Bars/Entertainment/Amenities: There's two restaurants: Asao and Yiima. Asao is upscale and is also a bar. Yiima is more casual (also with drinks available). Given the current strength of the dollar to the peso, you cannot get a better meal anywhere for cheaper than either of these two places. They also don't seem to "adjust" their prices as the peso weakens, probably because locals come here for fine dining themselves too. In other words, it's not simply for tourists. I had some of the best breakfasts at Yiima. They have an event hall, but the wedding that I was there for was set up outside. I would recommend doing it the same way. I peered into the event hall, and it was nice and all, but having the wedding ceremony and reception outside around the pool was amazing. They had a dance floor and dj, and people were dancing in the pool throughout the night.
Employees: I had a very positive experience with everyone working here from the moment I walked in. I have forgotten everyone's name because I waited a month to write this, which is unfortunate, but I will try to describe people. First, the hotel manager and front desk check-in ladies were very sweet and professional. I walked in wearing a great big sombrero, and neither of them made fun of me or even rolled their eyes. They even provided the wedding couple ceremonial sombreros for the reception and pictures. I lost my sombrero, and they told me they would mail it to me if they found it. I told them it wouldn't be necessary, I would just buy a new sombrero in Los Angeles, where sombreros are also aplenty. (As an aside, the wedding couple actually found my sombrero and brought it back with them to Los Angeles). Anyway, the takeaway is that sombreros are definitely welcome here. Second, the event coordinator (I think his name was Alberto or Alfredo, a taller guy), he was completely on top of his game--a true gentlemen and professional. Lastly, I don't know if this is typical, but they were able to pick us up from the boarder when we arrived and shuttle us back when we left. The boarder is only about 1/2 mile away, so if you just have a backpack, walking is nice. But if you have a suitcase, the shuttle is clutch.
Conclusion: If I were you, I would spend a night or two here. Make this a fun weekend destination from San Diego or Los Angeles, or consider having your wedding here. There's big savings to be had compared to the US alternatives. The drive from Los Angeles eventually turns into one of the most beautiful drives in Southern California. Tecate offers a great way to enjoy the inexpensive things Mexico has to offer in a safe, non-touristy setting. And this hotel/resort is not the only lodging Tecate has to offer, but I'd be dumbfounded if there's something better. Honestly, this experience could not have been simpler or more relaxing. read more