When we first showed up here I was so excited, this place was gold. I wish I could give this place 5 stars, because the owner ABSOLUTELY deserves it, but please read on as to why I can't.
We were greeted by the most wonderful gentleman, who took the time to share the stories behind the walls of a bar he had owned for 37 years with a bunch of random people who walked in. We all stared in awe as he regaled us with the details of the opening of the place and how it has changed over the years (hint: it hasn't).
He gifted all of the women in the group a rose and a shot, a tradition of the bar, and insisted on taking a photo of all of us behind his bar. It was such a wonderful, intimate experience that I couldn't wait to repeat.
Until...
Apparently when shift changed this WONDERFUL gentleman's replacement was a complete 180 from all of the wonderful things we had experienced so far in the night. This bar is cash only so members of our party (about 20 of us) had been tossing down $100 bills and running up a tab for the group, replacing bills when the tab had run out. When the main payer had ordered another beer hours into our visit, a woman who had replaced the delightful owner declared in a VERY hostile tone, "you guys have $20 left and you haven't tipped all night".
Everyone in the group was a bit flabbergasted because we all tip well (though we also understand not everyone does and why the bartender would be concerned), but we hadn't even really had a chance to tip/pay our tab before we were confronted in this way. The unusual circumstance of it being a cash-only bar and not everyone carrying cash did create a situation of us sharing one big tab and sort of divvying it up.
Because everyone was so taken aback by the very abrupt response of the bartender we decided to leave. The main tab-holder asked "Hey, how much do we owe you and what was our final tab?" so we could make sure we were paid up could tip appropriately. She looked at him with absolute disdain and said "I'm helping about 20 people before you" and walked away.
For the record, there was about 40 people in this bar, and we brought 20 of them. We had been gracious and had no issues all night. I was immediately getting heated at the way my friend was being treated for simply being a patron in the bar, but held back. An incredibly diplomatic friend who witnessed this whole exchange suggested we send a third party friend in to deal with the bartender, since no one immediately involved could tolerate her, and we'd had such a lovely experience before she'd arrived and didn't want to get 86ed. Turns out the third party couldn't tolerate her either and gave up after ten minutes of trying, so my original, main tab-holding friend collected cash, gave her all of it, and said "This is $130, keep it as a tip, and charge everyone individually from here on out". You could tell she felt guilty right away and said "You don't have to tip me $130." to which, I will admit, I immediately lost my temper because at this point we had been treated so unfairly by her, so I snapped "Why?! You've been so gracious and wonderful all night." and immediately we had her real personality back versus her "you're tipping me well" personality and she, in the snotty tone I had now come to associate as her voice, said "Is your friend being a smartass to me?" and I said "YES, you have been so insanely rude to us all night, we're leaving".
I walked out because it was to the point where I couldn't stand for myself or my group to spend another dollar in the place. I guess I just want to point out the dichotomy between the owner and the bartender who replaced him, because the owner was so wonderful, hospitable, and lovely I may have given him my first born if he had asked. The bartender that replaced him, however, was so unpleasant we will not be back. A real shame because we had talked about (after being treated so wonderfully by the owner) holding my husband's sport team's yearly banquets here because it was originally such a delight. Unfortunate how one person can really ruin an atmosphere, but apparently it is possible because our AMAZING experience was ruined by one person in such a way that I am not interested in recommending this awesome spot to others.
PS: I am writing this within an hour of leaving, so the situation can not be blamed on drinking.
EDIT: After reading multiple reviews about the owner's blatant racism I have all the more reason to not come back. He was wonderful to us, but our friend of a different race didn't join us until after he left, and the thought of her being disrespected disgusts me. The bartender's horrific treatment of customers was enough, but human rights violations are straight up repulsive so I guess it's not a loss that we won't be back read more