I am a large woman, so kimonos are extremely hard for me to find in my size. After an online search, I found a real kimono shop. This is a REAL shop, where the owner is trained in kitsuke (the art of dressing in kimono). It is not a gift store that happens to sell kimonos, which are always too small for me, and sometimes fake and cheap.
The owner was so very wonderful to me! I basically said, "whatever you've got in my size, hang it on me". First of all, I was extremely surprised that she had anything in my size. I had driven two hours to get there, but I still wasn't sure if she would have anything. I figured that even if she didn't have anything for me to wear, I could buy some himo (belts), or a bag or wall hanging or something. (I do have a yukata - a light casual summer kimono that I made myself - but it's not a kimono).
My gamble was well-rewarded.
She chose a beautiful shibori kimono for me, and an obi that she thought matched. I actually wasn't sure about the combo, but as I said, I don't usually have much of a choice when it comes to Asian clothing. She even gave me a mini kitsuke lesson! It turned out that I had been tying my himo way too low, which causes my ohashori (the fold that goes under the obi) to always come out. I also bought a juban (the underslip), and an eri (the collar stiffener). She showed me how to put it all together. She also had zori in my size, which I will go back for later, but at that point, my credit card started to whine, so I had to stop (I would have LOVED to go on! hahaha!). Let me also say that she doesn't "hard sell". I mentioned that I was done for the day, and she was so respectful about that!
Big plus - she got called away to help her neighbor, who had hurt herself. I didn't mind, I wasn't in a hurry, and I totally understand that you need to help someone who needs it. This gave me the opportunity, however, to make friends with Mikke, her totally adorable and incredibly friendly shop cat! I spent a few minutes with Mikke purring in my lap, and that was a great experience. I love cats, and this was an especially cool kitty!
I took the whole ensemble home and put it together, using videos and advice from my friends on the "Immortal Geisha" Facebook page. Remember that I said that I wasn't sure about the combination? (I'm older, and I was worried that it might be too "wild"). When I put it together, I LOVED IT!! So did all my friends over at Immortal Geisha and on my regular Facebook page. I have uploaded the results. I hope she sees it. :) My first kimono.
What a great day that was. read more