Amazing place and amazing owner. Very intimate and comfortable setting. Exceptional cocktails and small plates. Reservations only. Will definitely be back. read more

Everything was perfect. Delicious drinks and food, service was personalized and excellent, and the ambiance was comfy and unique. Perfect for a girl's night out. read more

This past spring, my husband and I visited Grace & Disgrace. I was very disappointed with the experience and feel that it is extremely overpriced. Ralph waited on us. We started with 2 espresso matinis ($15 each). The drinks were served in thick vintage glasses which reduced the size of the drinks. The drinks were much smaller than espresso martinis we have had elsewhere. Next, we had challah bread with goat butter and fig jam ($12). This offering was slightly larger than a dinner roll. Very small amounts of the goat butter and fig jam were provided. Lastly, we had creme brulee ($12). It was served in a small shallow dish that was only half filled with creme brulee. I would estimate that there were only 4 or 5 spoonfuls. The bill came to about $66 with tip. I feel this was grossly overpriced for the 4 small items that we received. read more

Best place for date night in all of Rochester for small plates and original cocktails with a romantic and eclectic vibe. It is truly an original for this city, and the hospitality and artisan nature of the cocktails can't be beat. If you like "interesting" presentations, ask which cocktail (they rotate) has the most unique presentation. One of their regular drinks comes in an all-ice (made-out-of-ice) mug, for example. Go for 45 minutes if you just want a drink, or for 90 if you want a drink (or two) and small plates. Amazing. read more

I was in Rochester for work and met friends at Grace & Disgrace for a 6pm reservation. The ambiance is best described as cozy and eclectic. The server made our cocktails and took time to delicately design the ice before placing them into our glasses. I was especially impressed at how my Corduroy drink ice matched the glass it was served in. We tried the food and the lamb chop lollipops were among the best my friends and I had eaten anywhere. Recommend a stop in for those into craft cocktails. read more

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Such a great place with an amazing vibe! Got there right at opening and sat at the bar for a cocktail. The craftsmanship was impeccable from the ice to the cocktail! read more

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I love the intimate and romantic vibe of grace and disgrace. The bartenders are charming and very helpful with suggestions! I think this is the perfect spot for a late night drink or a spot to grab a cocktail before dinner :) they have a limited menu, however everything is tasty including the different variety of dumplings! read more

How lucky am I that I got to experience Grace & Disgrace while back in Rochester over the holidays? If you have yet to make a reservation and treat yourself to beautiful cocktails and even better hospitality...you need to! Speaking of reservations, they are required here - which I love. It helps add to the tucked away, under the radar, yet deeply intentional vibe that this spot is going far. If you're familiar with Cristilliano ice that's been served in ROC's top cocktail bars for years, the faces behind that business own this bar. I enjoyed a delicious vodka cocktail and one of the best espresso martinis I've ever had. My best friend and I sat at the bar and Ralph graciously walked us through the menu and what made each cocktail that we were debating between special and noteworthy. If you're looking for an elevated drinking experience in Rochester, this should be the top place on your list. Bring along some people you love and settle in for a great night! read more

It's a little jewel box of a place. This place is really a surprise to be sure.. I had NO idea it was here or a "thing" So my friend found this place via Instagram and said we should check it out. It's definitely worth it, just a few things to know. 1) Reservations Only 2) just a few time slots 3) 45 or 90 minute times 4) it's small You go to their site and you can make your reservation via Tock and pick your day, time and allotted time frame. The outside to give you an idea where it is.. right by the new and improved Richmond's. Now I think this place is or as it it states on the door Bar Mecca but... no worries as they have a sign above saying what they are. The inside reminds me of someone's uncles place in the UP. (Upper Peninsula of Wisconsin or Michigan) with a warming pot bellied stove kind of heater, deer heads, warm woods and antique furniture. Granted it's cosy and small and to be frank I prefer it this way. I believe you can seat 16-18 only and that's fine. This is a serious place for people who appreciate a well made cocktail made by someone who knows what they are doing. They make EVERYTHING and yes the ice too and you can actually buy it from them. Check their social media channels for more. They also have some small bites I'd say maybe come here prior to dinner or after for a night cap and try an app or desert. Meg (I believe one of the owners) makes a fabulous and beautiful cocktail. It was a joy to see someone doing some real alchemy with libations. My friend got the Duck Fat Old Fashioned and yes and it was smoky and strong in the best possible way and well made. I got the Stirred Daiquiri (I'll post photos) I wanted something not too strong and I was not in the mood for sweet. This was an excellent balance as if I had my friends cocktail I'd probably be on the floor. I got some of the bread pudding for us to share and it went quite well with our cocktails. I would bring people here who appreciate a well made cocktail as they would enjoy it and the ambiance and the fact that it's small. Meaning you can actually talk to someone while having your drink. It's really a nice place you should check out, we only did the 45 minute slot as we had dinner prior and figured we would only have one drink each. Will I be back, of course. Parking is tricky in this area but it would be street or try your ride sharing like Uber/Lyft. Enjoy! read more

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This place is a gem. Really balanced and well made cocktails with attention to detail in both product and service. The clear ice is on point and refreshing to see in the Rochester cocktail scene. Worth the extra step to make the reservation and keep the cozy intimate vibes! read more

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Definitely Rochester's coolest new cocktail bar. You make reservations online for either 45 minutes or 90 minutes. Pro tip: 90 minutes is totally the way to go. The bartenders are super friendly and attentive. The food is ultra tasty. Pro tip: if you have the hunger of a bear, eat something beforehand, because these portions are small, but delectable. The cocktail menu is expansive and extremely tasty. The challah and fig jam and the dumplings are not only approaching perfection in taste, but also in consistency and eat ability (i.e., the dumplings were right in the sweet spot of crispy and chewy). Not much else to be said. The ambience is basically perfect (jazz music and small and cozy). This is quite literally not to be missed for the cocktail fan. We will be back each season, if not more often. read more

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Great experience! Drinks were amazing and the food was spot on. Service was great as was the ambiance of the restaurant. Great spot to stop in have a cocktail and a few apps. Will be back. read more

Had an excellent evening out. Intimate location, and super cozy. They were super accommodating. We ordered some house drinks- traditional drinks and non-alcoholic. The tapas food choices were a nice addition and delicious. The cocktails were crafted to perfection. Highly recommend. read more

Our friend Michelle suggested this establishment, and are we glad we made a reservation. The attention to detail is impeccable. From the drink ice to the plating, you quickly understand this is going to be an exceptional experience. Ralph told us he spent over twenty years in LA's hospitality scene, and it's clear he's brought that professionalism back to Rochester. Warm & cozy and not intrusive, we will be returning soon. read more

We tried Grace & Disgrace last night & loved it! Small & intimate, we enjoyed sitting at the bar and talking to Ralph who had an abundance of interesting stories and crafted some tasty cocktails! I loved the Bare Maximum, made with angel food vodka! The food was amazing! I've tried lamb many times and generally hate it but these lollipops were delicious! I splurged with the Bread Pudding because it was my birthday and it was yummy! Can't wait to return! read more

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I planned a private party at Grace & Disgrace, and Ralph was great to work with. Food, service and ambience were top shelf!

A charming venue for small bites and creative cocktails! As soon as you walk in you notice all the thoughtful touches to remind you how custom and unique your drinks will be. Beautiful ambience, small, and very intimate! The table setting are lovely and even include warm towels to clean your hands with! Don't come here expecting a huge meal and to leave stuffed. There are only a handful of food menu items and there are meant to COMPLIMENT your beverages. Drinks were beyond satisfactory and were made with love and tender care. The food was absolutely delicious. I'd recommend this as a pre or post dinner spot for sure! read more

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I don't think I could have asked for a better birthday experience. The vibe is chill and intimate. Everything is warm and welcoming. The service was the best I have experienced. I got an old fashioned. I am not normally a cocktail drinker to be honest. I usually drink my bourbon or whiskey neat. I will now always make an exception to that rule. Running off the amazing old fashioned, I decided to get an espresso martini next. Wow! We ordered some small plates which were perfectly portioned for a light snack. My favorite? The Dungeness crab dumplings. To end the evening, we had an affogato. So smooth and delicious. This place is reservation only and I highly recommend reserving the longer seating, as you won't want to leave. I will most certainly be back. read more

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Food and drinks were amazing! Highly recommend the wagyu beef dumplings and New York Sour. Definitely will be going back.

This was our first time there and it will NOT be our last. The drinks, atmosphere, light fare and the host were all Awesome. This is the perfect place to meet with close or special friends for a great conversation and a memorable event/get together. It is very cozy, small and comfortable-so make a reservation, so you experience it. read more

Ralph and Megan run an incredible cocktail bar; it's my favorite place in town! The old fashioned is incredible and the Shirley temple is not what you expect, but in a good way. read more

I love the atmosphere here and the service is great. We booked a 90 minute reservation, but showed up early after dinner. They were happy to accommodate us and were kind about us not using our full time. It's a quiet and intimate space. The cocktail experience is the best I've had in the city. We didn't get food, but what we saw looked good. I will be going back here for sure! read more

Excellent service, atmosphere, drinks, and food. The owners are very knowledgeable about all the ingredients in their food and drinks so this is a great place to go if you have dietary restrictions. Everything was flavorful, interesting, and delicious. read more

If you value and appreciate the skill and innovation that goes into craft cocktails, this is your place. We have tried possibly all the craft cocktail joints in town many times and have never been stunned at the uniqueness and deliciousness of their concoctions in this way, at least in Rochester. The mastery displayed by the bartender in playing with different and unique ingredients is at par with those we have seen in bigger cities in the world such as Toronto, NYC, etc. While I wish Grace and Disgrace all the success it deserves, part of me (selfishly) wants it to remain a true hidden gem. read more

A masterclass in hospitality. The moment you step through the entrance you're transported into a cozy and welcoming environment. We chose to sit at the bar and the intimacy held strong even with a full house including a table of 4 behind us (Normal conversation level volume). The cocktails will elevate your expectations moving forward, whether you order a classic old fashioned or something original they've concocted. The small plates compliment their cocktail offerings well and the menu (that I have been assured can change) had an excellent night cap of espresso martinis and affogato with house made ice cream to truly punctuate the experience at the mountainous level it had reached as Grace and Disgrace consistently hit the mark. Welcome to the new standard of hospitality that you will forever reference when you venture on a night out. read more

Cozy intimate atmosphere. Some of the best cocktails we've ever had. Small menu but extremely well done. We loved it here and will definitely be back! read more

so glad that when i came to town i got to check this place out. it's super cute and quaint, i absolutely adore that it's reservation only as it sets a more calm atmosphere. i had the n/a porch swing and n/a pink moon, they were so amazing, they didn't even need the alcohol in them. meg and ralph are absolutely amazing and i wish them nothing but the best on their journey with grace & disgrace read more

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Excellent experience, and a great place for a low key night out. Every aspect of your evening here will be dedicated to making sure you have the most personalized experience possible. From the hot towels when you sit down, to the choice of water, to the bespoke cocktails, and excellent bites. Definitely make a reservation, turn your phone off, and enjoy the experience while you are there. read more

If you like craft cocktails, you absolutely need to go to Grace and Disgrace. Meghan at the bar makes awesome drinks and Ralph in the kitchen makes delicious small bites. The environment is cozy and inviting, reminds me of a cocktail bar in New York City. They even have excellent ) ABV cocktails. You definitely need to check out this place. read more