I tried to contact the Owner in several different places but no response
Do NOT come to Gnar Bar
**This happened during the scheduled Open Mic 10/14/2025**
The ending/Final Open Mic-er is the sole reason I bring This Comment to the attention of Yelp and future customers. He started out by yelling "f****t" at me several times and telling me "I will not continue on until you tell me how much my shoes cost". This is Abusive Nature.
As soon as Your Open Mic-er said f****t and of the likes - I purely ignored him and began looking at emails/texts on my phone during his Harassment Set.
This was to purely listen to him spiral with slurs at me because several Customers immediately left whilst he's yelling "F****T! F****T! F****T!" at me. This was a Full Room of people at the beginning, brought down to a total of 4 now 'watching'. Apparently one of us (4) was this abusers Spouse. I feel bad for Her as she was looking down in disgust the entire time. This I'm sure also got him upset to see. As he continued to yell slurs.
I sat there on my phone for his entire time up which he ran longer on purpose with the intent to start a fight the entirety of his set.
This is Abusive Nature.
He additionally threatened me over the microphone about whatever it was that he was going to do to me to fight me (I'm ignoring but half listening because of how lewd he was). This is Abusive Nature. I still remained silent.
In the middle of his barrage and tirade, the DJ/Host came over to me and put his hand on my shoulder to console me.
Please thank the DJ for doing that, as that is a comforting gesture during the Open Mic-er's tirade.
I did not deserve the 10minute++ of yelling f****t at me amongst other profanity directed all at me. This 'comedy set' / harassment I received from that Final Open Mic-er is crossing a line. The DJ understood this, so he made the friendly gesture.
Kudos to him, I do suggest he reviews who he gives mic opportunities to. He let this Abusive Open Mic-er openly ruin the credibility that DJ had before the shows' end.
Gnar Bar not only lost me tonight going forward, but I'm willing to bet there are previous performing Comedians that were in the crowd as well as Patrons/passer by's / customers that will probably never return to Gnar Bar after what they had witnessed here during the Abusive Harassment Set.
This Abusive open Mic-er was -self proclaimed on drugs. He doubled down his abuse to confidently say "I have endless amounts of time, this will go on all night if I want it to!" He promised right there that the Harassment has no end for me at all until I pay him attention.
I don't remember names well as I was in a T-Bone crash years ago and have mild memory issues because of it. Several performing Comedians are witness to this Abusers behavior..
The look of discomfort on a few of their faces while I'm getting harassed by the Abusive Final Act lets me know that these Performers may also never come back.
There was a friendly young lady wearing a multicolored sweater of sort I was sitting by. She was there for the entirety of the situation/show. I think she was to perform last but she ended up not performing.. possibly because the room was left disgusted after the Abusive Person's actions.
The DJ/Host was there for the entirety of this situation.
I apologized to him for what came of it, but added that what the Final Open Mic-er did here was too-far and Abusive.
..Crowd work should be either Earned or performed when the Performer is being Heckled. I did nothing was silent other than laughs leading up to the beginning of the Abusive Person.
There was a lot that the Final Abusive Open Mic-er did/said;
I truly hope the DJ recorded the entire show and if he did it should be shared with the Owner, the Manager, and the Bartender who "doesn't want any involvement."
No Accountability is to be had at this Business (good luck).
The Bartender and another employee (manager??) apparently received the story, but of course only from the Abusive Open Mic contestant' point of view.
At the end of the show I did try to begin a cordial conversation with the Bartender about how terrible this experience was, but the Abusive Performer .. I'll reiterate, that was -(self proclaimed over the microphone) on drugs- (and clearly inebriated) interrupted us with more of his tirade so I gave up..
hence this Yelp review.
By far the worst experience.
To the OWNER - go look at your emails for full context, I did NOT want to put this on Yelp. But now Everyone gets to marinate in this. A true shame as the Abusive Comic was very inebriated and the catalyst. read more