Extremely Disappointing Experience with Dr. Pak
My 93-year-old grandfather had a deeply upsetting experience with Dr. Pak. When I asked why he was treating my grandfather so poorly, he responded that he was "nervous and read the room wrong." He also argued with his Resident in front of us, abruptly changed the treatment plan, and demanded the Resident "present [research] now!" in an aggressive tone.
As I left the appointment, Dr. Pak shouted at me to return, claiming I was "not hearing him right." His behavior felt unprofessional, jaded, and biased. In my view, he struggled to assess the situation or patient objectively. A telling moment came when the Resident followed me out and said, "I'm not sure why Dr. Pak was that way--maybe the moon alignment or something."
Loma Linda should take these concerns seriously. I hope Dr. Pak receives training in respectful communication, especially under pressure, and learns to treat both patients and Residents with the dignity they deserve. read more