Went in for a late dinner at 8:30pm and sat at the bar. The bartender seemed a little short with me when I asked if I could get a little more time to decided on food. I had just learned that my daughter was in a car accident and I was naturally distraught and most likely not at my best but was not rude or disrespectful even when I asked for another glass that didn't have lip prints all over the rim. We ordered and ate and at the end of the meal the bartender asked if we wanted to close our tab and I said, "probably soon, but do you have pickle juice?" as I was interested in a shot with a pickle juice chaser and the response I got from her was, "you need to leave. You have given me an attitude all night." I was in shock. I hadn't even interacted with her besides for ordering a drink then asking for a clean glass and also to order my food. I turned to the guests next to me who were an acquaintance and they said that was really unexpected and uncalled for. My boyfriend and I had no idea what she was talking about and what went wrong. We frequent the Cornerhouse at least once a week and have always had good rapport with that bartender, even received ecstatic enthusiasm a few weeks ago when she learned we were fans of the same band. She comes back to give us the bill and I say, "I am sorry if I came off wrong ...." And I was going to let her know I had been crying and wasn't in the best mood but she cut me off and told me to leave and not come back and that I wasn't welcome there ever again. I asked why. What did I do to make you so mad? And she would not elaborate and told me again to leave and never come back and I again try to communicate with this person who I never thought had a problem with me but she kept yelling and saying I treated her poorly yet I did nothing nor could she say what I did. She again yells at me to leave, with grace, and I walked out and gave her the bird.
I have never in my life had an interaction like this. I was yelled at from behind the bar, to leave and never come back. I admit, I probably didn't look as I normally do because of emotions regarding my daughter but I did not treat her poorly nor give attitude to her specifically but she seemed to take it that way and I am really bummed that I upset her but it was not at all directed towards Went in for a late dinner at 8:30pm and sat at the bar. The bartender seemed a little short with me when I asked if I could get a little more time to decided on food. I had just learned that my daughter was in a car accident and I was naturally distraught and most likely not at my best but was not rude or disrespectful even when I asked for another glass that didn't have lip prints all over the rim. We ordered and ate and at the end of the meal the bartender asked if we wanted to close our tab and I said, "probably soon, but do you have pickle juice?" as I was interested in a shot with a pickle juice chaser and the response I got from her was, "you need to leave. You have given me an attitude all night." I was in shock. I hadn't even interacted with her besides for ordering a drink then asking for a clean glass and also to order my food. I turned to the guests next to me who were an acquaintance and they said that was really unexpected and uncalled for. My boyfriend and I had no idea what she was talking about and what went wrong. We frequent the Cornerhouse at least once a week and have always had good rapport with that bartender, even received ecstatic enthusiasm a few weeks ago when she learned we were fans of the same band. She comes back to give us the bill and I say, "I am sorry if I came off wrong ...." And I was going to let her know I had been crying and wasn't in the best mood but she cut me off and told me to leave and not come back and that I wasn't welcome there ever again. I asked why. What did I do to make you so mad? And she would not elaborate and told me again to leave and never come back and I again try to communicate with this person who I never thought had a problem with me but she kept yelling and saying I treated her poorly yet I did nothing nor could she say what I did. She again yells at me to leave, with grace, and I walked out and gave her the bird.
I have never in my life had an interaction like this. I was yelled at from behind the bar, told to leave and never come back. I admit, I probably didn't look as I normally do because of emotions regarding my daughter but I did not treat the bartender poorly nor give attitude to her specifically but she seemed to take it that way. I left crying and upset that I hurt her. I still feel terrible and also hurt that I have been asked never to come back to the local bar and grill that I've been frequenting for 24 years, always enjoying the food, drinks and employees....until last night. Super bummed. read more