I dealt with a woman at Sotheby's Real
Estate Office in…read moreRhinebeck, NY: ELIANE ABRAMOFF, " in early May, 2025.
She walked into my home in Red Hook, NY, raved about it, and said she wanted it photographed for an ad on their website, at her own expense. I slaved at putting all personals away for the photo shoot and rarely said NO to anything: Eg, my plants of 30 years were staying in the house, to be watered by my housekeeper, for a 4-month summer rental. I worked very hard at this clearance and this realtor had "deep cleaners" of HER choosing come in, for approximately $1500, out of MY pocket. I granted that, believing in the greater good: more money per month. I'd never used SOTHEBY's before.
In 40 years of having tenants in and out of
my second home, I completely cleared closets and bureaus like never before. As a hobbyist antique dealer, I put away a million "smalls," (eg., pitcher collection above my sink). I was free to leave some "personals," such as wrapping paper in a desk drawer, kitchen towels and, god forbid, a stained pot holder, in a drawer in the kitchen, various small things (an old bracelet?) left in a Federal antique mirror drawer above my master bureau upstairs.
My sweet 2nd home of 40 years is a very old farmhouse, circa 1860. It has a lot of "stuff." And critters.
After 3 weeks of no response as a summer rental (I was told that market had been decimated by Airbnb), I lowered my rental price down by $2700/mo to a yearly rental cost. I acquiesced fully, even though I am a fire victim from the Palisades Fire of 1/7/25. I went from 2K/mo to 7K in the West. I had really wanted to come to my beloved NYS home in November, but realized I couldn't if I wanted to earn back any of my losses from the fire.
This REALTOR immediately finds a client at $3400/mo, and the next day, another one at $3800. I ask the first offer if she will meet the new offer. She is ENRAGED! I acquiesce, I apologize profusely, fall on my sword. How dare I? Even though THIS Sotheby's agent is the one that suggested I ask her to negotiate higher.
That's just the beginning.
I let the woman move in FOR FREE on 5 days notice, 2 days early on 6/28. She is suffering, she is weepy, going through a divorce...etc. And has a 4 & 6 year old. It's all about THEM. And safety. I comply.
Literally, the MORNING she moves in: the grass is too long. My lawn guy has been doing this for 40 years. He comes when it is appropriate FOR HIM, I don't ask questions. Next day? LINT behind the dryer and 2 disabled smoke alarms, one of which was intentional on my part. 10-foot ceiling that woke me in the middle of the night when the battery was low. No idea about the other, another alarm just outside that bedroom door. Those 2 horrifying details cost me $1000 to repair.
Fast forward: this new tenant "deep cleaned" my whole house AGAIN and found many mouse droppings that the first "deep
cleaners," FROM THIS SOTHEBY'S AGENT, did NOT find. Horror upon horrors. I am not in the habit of belly-flopping myself on to my dryer to find an old dead mouse bed. It HAPPENS. The house is nearly 200 years old. Ask ENGLAND.
And then, without telling me, this tenant rolls up my antique rugs (one of them a VERY valuable family relic) and puts them in my damp, mouse-hungry garage. She then writes me the most demeaning letter of my entire life to ask me to lower my rent. She didnt mention that she had also removed my antique dining room table and Windsor chairs to my garage as well...all without asking permission. And I am damn well sure, "Ms. Eliane" knew about it. All behind my back. MY agent...Supposedly.
When I questioned her loyalty? She said she worked for BOTH of us. Contractually. Not ONE SINGLE WORD of contrition or remorse that this awful thing had happened and that I had let a profound Germaphobe and massive OCD human into my home. Oh dear God. Not ONE word.
Now mind you, I have an exterminating company that comes every 2/mos., recent mold radiation (10K), a new electric panel (5K), new pressure tank (2K), just this SPRING alone. Old houses have mice and the occasional Daddy Long Legs. This woman actually sent a picture of a dead one. OH DEAR GOD!
These are NOT good people. This realtor masqueraded as a "friend" in the Spring, and I approved all the expenses. I
listed with Sotheby's thinking I could get higher money, good folk that might appreciate the 7 acres of divine privacy and beauty of my land. If she didn't agree, why in the hell did she want to take pictures of it at her expense?
Here's the bottom line: I was DEMEANED beyond words by this SOTHEBY's realtor, who let her new client move into my sweet, old farmhouse and proceed to tell me that it was "smelly" and "dirty." This, AFTER this real estate agent sent HER people in to thoroughly go through the house with a fine-toothed comb. And then? Flat out LIED about it and said I had STOPPED the work. Categorically untrue. They went through every room. I WAS THERE. True DISGUST.