Hello, I have a sad story to tell. I'm sure it wasn't intentional, and I learned a very painful lesson. I am 38, and I had been growing out my blonde hair for the last 15 months, so that it was long for the first time. I noticed that men responded to me differently, and my best friend said that I looked attractive because my hair had grown long. I felt, for the first time, that I had sexual power, and I felt that I was coming into my womanhood. I went to Suite One, and I told Ms. de la Rosa that I had been growing my hair long, and I mentioned what my hair used to be like, which may have been the fatal error. She didn't think my cut was flattering, and suggested some improvements. I said only if they were subtle, nothing dramatic. I walked out with a brand new hairdo, which I had no intention of getting, with very wide bangs that will take a very long time to grow out (more than 15 months) and very short layers, and not much hair left -- most gone to the razor. And the layers around my face look so unflattering to me that I feel it is the ugliest haircut I've ever gotten. It looks very, very short now, and frumpy and homely to me. So dramatically different, so much less sexual and attractive, what I had been so proud of, walking in. It will take many, many months again, to grow it back to where it was. And it does not match the image of myself inside myself -- the new sense of power and womanhood -- and it wiped away any sexual power that I had felt. I am utterly devastated. I have had no experience like this to compare this to. I raged and sobbed, alternately, for the first 24 hours. I feel that my life, and who I was curiously and excitedly becoming -- entering a new unknown, that it was stripped from me in a 40 minute cut, and it can't be retrieved for another 15 months. Like the next 15 months of my life were robbed from me. She stated at the end that I was depressed and needed pizzazz and a whole new 'do. Though I don't feel depressed, and I wasn't looking for pizzazz or a new 'do. I learned a big lesson: Know exactly what you want, and what the image of yourself that you are growing into is, and state it VERY CLEARLY and VERY VEHEMENTLY. And, for myself, search far and wide for a receptive haircutter who tries to feel you out first and does not call quietness and introversion "depression in need of pizzazz." I also think she has many good qualities, and her salon has many great features.
[Edited 10/13/08 to add: The cut is good; I see many people around town wearing it, and it looking flattering on them; it is current and trendy; she's precise, gentle and artistic with the scissors. It's nothing like what I wanted, it's very unflattering on me, and I remain utterly devastated. She let me know that she has read this review, and she seems sensitive and conscientious, so I suspect this scenario won't happen in her salon again; I suspect we both learned a big lesson. I went to her salon because it is nontoxic, and I also admire her free services to chemo patients. I remain utterly devastated.] read more