I was a patient at the Stonewall Institute in Phoenix and would like to share my impressions and opinions on this rehab center. First I'm going to start with the first part of the name - Stonewall. This rehab is named after a gay bar located in Greenwich Village in Lower Manhattan in NYC which was made famous by the 1969 Stonewall riots which are seen as the single most important event leading to the gay liberation movement. The second part of the name is - Institute. The definition of an institute is an organization or association designed to study or promote something. First, why in the world would anybody name a drug and alcohol rehab center after a bar? That's like naming a heart hospital the Double Whopper Melted Cheese and Bacon Burger Cardiac Care Center. Second, using the word institute, given the definition above, is misleading. I did not see any researchers there doing studies on alcoholism and substance abuse. Yes, this rehab promotes sobriety but it's really not an institute given the formal definition of that word. So first off the name of this rehab is misleading and to use the name of a gay bar associated with a milestone event in the gay rights movement in order to add legitimacy just doesn't sit well with me.
When I was looking for a rehab facility and called the Stonewall Institute the person who spoke to me asked me if I had contacted any other rehabs and when I answered yes I was told that they would beat the competition's price by 10%. That sounds like a used car salesman's pitch. That would be good for my bank account but not for my liver.
Well anyways I ended up going with Stonewall. The classes were informative and they showed us videos about alcoholism and drug abuse. They were interesting and educational. But I struggled with severe cravings and had a relapse. In exasperation I asked the owner what I should do and how I should handle the excruciating cravings that I was suffering from daily? He replied, "pray". Are you kidding me? I paid two thousand dollars for rehab to be told that the answer to my addiction is prayer? I could go to any church and pray for free. What would you do if you had Covid-19, diabetes or cancer and went to your primary care physician and he/she told you that the cure for your disease was to pray. I know what I would do, I would file a complaint with the Arizona Board of Medical Examiners.
The owner of this rehab is an AA follower and while he and his staff will offer other options such as SMART Recovery, this place pretty much promotes the AA way. Now I could write a book about AA but I don't have the time right now. You can Google "Problems with Alcoholics Anonymous" to find out more.
Also, the owner has his Master's Degree in Social Work and while it's perfectly legitimate in the State of Arizona to be a Licensed Independent Substance Abuse Counselor with a Master's Degree in Social Work, I would prefer that my LISAC had a background in addiction psychology. Remember, you're dealing with a life threatening illness.
Anyways, my treatment at Stonewall Institute, while informative and educational, did not work for me and I was out two thousand dollars. I eventually found a psychiatrist (M.D.) who was board certified in addiction medicine. His office even offered group therapy and provided prescription medication to help with withdrawal cravings. I have found sobriety and my life is a hundred times better than what it used to be like.
Rehabs are now a dime a dozen in Arizona and if you're going to spend the money for treatment that is essentially a life and death battle do your research, compare rehabs, and find a board certified M.D. or clinical psychologist (PhD) who specializes in addiction medicine.
In closing, the Stonewall Institute started out as an LGBTQ substance abuse rehab facility. Now it's also a DUI screening facility, they also have DUI classes, intensive outpatient treatment, they do substance use evaluations, family support, aftercare services, and LGBTQI+ Integrative treatment. In trying to be all things to everyone this facility in my opinion has lost its way. read more