My wife, Tammy, and I got married on the Queen Mary and had our Reception there, too this past May. This review is to the Queen Mary's response to my wife's unfavorable review below. After they flagged her review twice for calling people by their name (though there are some positive reviews mentioning the exact same names that went unflagged), they then responded to her review with even more dishonesty.
Regardless of what the Queen Mary claims, their Catering Event Manager sat across from us at our tasting and told us that SHE would be there for the entire event in case we needed anything - she was there for the ceremony and 30 minutes after, tops. There was no "misunderstanding"; we foolishly believed what we were being told face to face. We even talked at home about what good hands we felt we were in. However, I believe the Queen Mary misunderstood the point my wife was trying to make about the cocktail hour, so I will try and lay it out for you. The cocktail hour was supposed to be from 6:30 - 7:30, OUTSIDE on the deck. The purpose of this cocktail hour as it was explained to us was that the guests gathered out on the deck, where the appetizers and bar were, and within that hour, the (limited) cocktails were at no charge. They were to be mingling out there while we were doing pictures and that the guests would enter the Verandah at 7:30, immediately followed by our entrance. When we returned at 6:50 to the Deck, that's when we found out that the guests had already been brought inside. We asked if we could just move forward, and were told yes, but the free drinks would end. We certainly did not expect them to "pause" the free bar until we were back and that is not what my wife said. We asked that they move the bar inside since the guests and appetizers were already there. That is when we were told that if it was moved, it would end at that moment, over 30 minutes early. So, we had to wait outside so our guests could continue to enjoy the free bar until 7:30. I fail to see why they couldn't move the bar inside, especially after they took it upon themselves to move our guests and appetizers inside.
Contrary to what the Queen Mary claims, there were NO reservation signs out. . . zero, zip, zilch, nada. The fact that they are still being dishonest about it is just infuriating. Everyone makes mistakes; people (or businesses) with no integrity just don't claim or rectify them. Another falsehood: the Catering Event Manager did not push us one way or another on a seating chart. The people who were to be at the tables with the reserved signs knew who they were and to look for the reserved signs. However, there were NO reserved signs. Perhaps the wedding party could have guided better as they suggested (in an attempt to blameshift) had 100% of the guests not been allowed into the Verandah an hour early. Regarding the seating chart helping with guests getting their correct meals, our guest's place cards were clearly marked on the back with their meal choice, per the suggestion of the Catering Event Manager. My wife still has all of these email threads; I suggest they look thru theirs before they further stick their feet in their mouths. How about a little more accountability and a little less blameshifting?
Again, contrary to what the Queen Mary claims, my wife DID contact the Catering Sales Manager via text the next morning about the missing items and asked if anything was returned. She never received a response. My sister brought her missing purse to the attention of the wait staff, where she was told to ask Lost and Found - she had not left the Verandah, but checked anyway, and nothing was turned in. Our gripe here was that the Catering Sales Manager just chose to ignore us, rather than help. Really? Not even the common courtesy of a response after spending that much money.
So, if you want to be disappointed, lied to having insult added to injury, and want more stress added to one of the most stressful days of your life, then go ahead and sign on that dotted line. Just make sure you read every word of it. May not be a bad idea to bring an audio recorder with you to all meetings, either. And if you do go with them, save EVERY email, text, etc. for when this happens. read more