After our wedding was pushed out two years, from 2020 to 2022, and under a new living situation between two states, Georgia and North Carolina, my wife and I had to find a new dance studio for our wedding dance lessons. I searched Yelp and found this Fred Astaire Dance Studio in Durham. There are several Fred Astaire Dance Studios across the country. In fact, our previous dance instructor at Daza Dance Ballroom Academy in Atlanta (https://bit.ly/3qX4pqX) is now an instructor at the Fred Astaire location in Milwaukee. I've kept in contact with our old instructor and she assured me that we would be in good hands with Fred Astaire. As my five-star rating indicates, we were.
I filled out the Fred Astaire Wedding Program form on the studio's website: https://bit.ly/3qZAE8J. Within days, I received a phone call from instructor Alyona Karchanova and booked an appointment for our wedding consultation. Our wedding consultation appointment was with another instructor, Yuliya Klyuchnyk. If you read the bios on Fred Astaire's website (https://bit.ly/3J2ApA5), you'll see that all of the staff are experienced top instructors and performers. Our instructor Yuliya is the sister of Oksana Klyuchnyk, who co-owns Fred Astaire Durham with her husband Yuriy Simakov. Throughout the studio, there are trophies, medals, plaques, newspaper and magazine clippings, and posters featuring Fred Astaire Durham's award-winning team.
The wedding consultation appointment was where Yuliya got to meet us, listen to our wedding dance song, and formulate a plan based on our wedding date and schedules. I believe all appointments last 40 minutes. At least for us, that's how it worked. The wedding consultation cost $40 and each lesson cost $98. It didn't matter how many lessons we signed up for, each lesson cost the same. We initially decided on eight lessons which I paid for all at once ($784). We ended up coming back for three more ($294) to polish our dance *and* I wanted to do an additional dance with my mom. I ended up investing $1,118 when all was said and done.
The dance lessons weren't cheap, but you only get married once in your life (if all goes well) and my wife and I thought the lessons were worth it. In our biased opinions, we thought we had the best wedding dance of any of our friends. I'm not saying that to brag because it's not a contest. I'm saying it to give you an idea of the quality of dance to expect - at least from our instructor, Yuliya. Admittedly, we think this studio came up with an even better dance routine than we would've gotten from our old studio, and we absolutely loved our old instructor.
As we got deeper and deeper into our lessons, we got to know some of the staff better. For example, Yuliya had to take some time off, so we had substitute instructors, Vitaly and Yuliya (another Yuliya, who also goes by Julia). At first, we were concerned, but both Vitaly and the other Yuliya made improvements to our existing routine and added on to it. All three instructors - Yuliya, Vitaly, and Yuliya - each played a critical role in our wedding dance routine. I thought that was neat. It truly was a team effort. Everyone here was very professional and nice. It felt like a family because of how friendly and outgoing everyone was. I'm sure they feel like a family. I remember telling my wife, as we left for a lesson after work one evening, that we would look back on our days going to dance practice as a fond memory. I was already feeling nostalgic before our final lessons.
Our song was "Can't Take My Eyes Off You" by Frankie Valli. Yuliya had us start with the rumba and then finish off with the cha-cha. It's amazing to me how she and the other instructors can came up with the choreography on the fly. Of course, they're professionals and this is their livelihood. I knew next to nothing about dancing and by the time they were done with me, I looked like I knew a thing or two (shocking). Both my wife and I thought our routine was really fun, unique, and creative, especially when the dance transitioned from the rumba to the cha-cha. Yuliya developed all of the rumba and the beginning of the cha-cha choreography. The other Yuliya extended the cha-cha choreography and Vitaly choreographed our ending. The original Yuliya then tweaked and polished it all off. Our routine was about 2 minutes 10 seconds. It was challenging, but also a lot of fun. I will say, Yuliya and her team challenged us and maximized our abilities. The extra effort paid off.
The song I danced with my mom to for our mother-son dance was "In My Life" by The Beatles. We learned it in only one lesson and the routine lasted about a minute 30. Since my wife and I did the rumba and cha-cha in our dance, Yuliya designed my dance with my mom to be different: the foxtrot. I have never had to do so much dancing in my life! But again, it was a lot of fun.
A big thank you to Yuliya, Vitaly, Yuliya, and the team at Fred Astaire Durham! We have memories to last a lifetime. read more