If zero was an option, that would be our first choice and here is why:
Location: Foss Swim School, Chanhassen
Swim Instructor: "Bob"
Preface: Prior to the incident I, (aka Mom) had already approached Foss Management with concerns about Bob's abrasive nature.
In an alarming incident, as my 5yr old son was earnestly attempting to master the front crawl and learn proper breathing techniques, Bob displayed an alarming lack of patience and empathy. Despite Steven's evident efforts, Bob's harsh commands to "Breathe" were unrelenting. The situation escalated when Bob forcefully grabbed the back of my son's head, treating him callously, pushing his face into the water several times, and deliberately obstructing his breathing for several seconds. Bob's aggressive behavior continued as he bear-hugged my 5-year-old, rendering him immobile, and violently manipulated his head and neck, further hindering his ability to breathe. This experience was not only distressing but also potentially dangerous, demonstrating a complete disregard for my child's well-being and safety.
Immediately after my 5-year-old made it back to the wall, I checked on his well-being. Observing him in tears, thinking he had done something wrong, filled me with profound concern. I couldn't help but think about the potential long-lasting effects of such a traumatizing situation. In contrast, Bob callously remarked, "he's fine," dismissing my son's distress as if it didn't matter. When I confronted Bob about his unacceptable behavior, he arrogantly turned away, completely ignoring my concerns. As I tried to console my son, Bob's condescending tone pierced the air, insisting that "he needs to learn how to swim," displaying a shocking lack of empathy and understanding.
While consoling my son amidst his tears, he expressed his fear, explaining he couldn't breathe, that Bob had hurt him, and he adamantly refused to be near that teacher again. As a mother, witnessing my child navigate through a potentially life-altering ordeal, one that could rob him of the sheer joy of swimming, has been overwhelmingly heartbreaking for me. The emotional toll is immense. read more