What I Learned From Dad's Experience at the Bethesda Gardens
Assisted Living Community in Phoenix
As the daughter of an aging parent who required daily personal assistance that I could no longer provide, I placed my dad at the Bethesda Gardens Assisted Living Community on Cave Creek Road in Phoenix based on its promotional literature and proximity to my workplace. I was looking for a facility that would meet dad's particular needs 24/7, and treat him with dignity and respect during the challenges that accompany the aging process. Bethesda's mission was theoretically aligned
with my goals. In practice, however, those goals were hardly ever met, owing to an operation that was grossly understaffed. Since I spent the majority of my free time with dad, I was privy to the frenzied and demanding pace of staff that were required to work above and beyond their job descriptions at a moment's notice. This situation created an environment that was unstructured, unpredictable, and chaotic. Consequently, my dad's experience at Bethesda was deplorable. For instance,
1) On several occasions my dad was dispensed the wrong medication by staff. He recognized the error and averted a situation that could have been life-threatening. Bethesda's literature states: "Trained staff on our premises 24/7 keeps residents feeling safe and secure."
2) On many occasions when dad's pills needed to be refilled he would wait days until the medication was available to him. This delay in service compromised the continuity required for anti-anxiety and pain pills to be effective. Bethesda's literature states: "Bethesda Gardens meets our residents' needs in a timely and efficient manner. Their comfort and well-being is the reason we exist."
3) Since dad was incontinent and also at risk of falling, his Individualized Care Plan specified a call-button response time between 12 and 15 minutes. He generally waited between 30 and 45 minutes before a caregiver responded. The extended wait to have his incontinence underwear changed caused him burning and soreness, not to mention feelings of humiliation. Bethesda's literature states: "Bethesda Gardens offers comprehensive services that cover the most important needs, and more." "Bethesda Gardens is 'one of the few assisted living communities in Phoenix that goes above and beyond to meet our residents' needs." "With the help of our staff, outside agencies, and volunteers, we are able to deliver the specialized care that is required."
4) Dad needed assistance showering and dressing, as specified in his Individualized Care Plan. However, these activities were sometimes interrupted before they were completed. As a result he would be left in his apartment only partially dressed or naked in the shower until the caregiver returned. Bethesda's literature states: "We are committed to enhancing the physical, social and spiritual well-being of our senior residents." "...committed to 'enriching lives through service' by giving retirees the support they need, each time they need it."
5) Staff that are apparently licensed to address a resident's health issues are not available on weekend evenings. Consequently, if health issues arose during this time frame my options were to leave a telephone message, which would be addressed some time on Monday, or speak with a staff member who was not qualified in the health science area. Bethesda's literature states: "Trained staff on our premises 24/7 keeps residents feeling safe and secure. They know that help is always available. Round-the-clock supervision . . . also give their families complete peace of mind."
To summarize, my dad did not "live a life of dignity and joy" at Bethesda and he was certainly not "given the support he needed, each time he needed it." If you are looking for assistance for your loved one, I would recommend that you choose a group home where you will generally find a higher staff-to-resident ratio and quality personal care and attention.
Owing to a fall at Bethesda, I relocated dad to a group home in Scottsdale that was extraordinary! It is called 1 Sunrise Seniors Care. Dad received all the services that Bethesda Gardens promised and more. Their tireless effort to create a world for dad that was dignified, compassionate and loving was something that I will always remember. He listened to the music he loved while eating home-cooked meals with his favorite foods from their garden. I know that dad was truly blessed to have been a part of their home, and I am forever grateful. read more