I want to start by saying that I've been a regular customer at Urban Hot Pot for the past FOUR years. This restaurant has genuinely been one of my favorite places. On bad days, it's been my comfort spot, and on good days, it's one of the first places I think of to celebrate. I've introduced countless friends and family members to this restaurant, and it's become something of a gathering place for us. I've recommended Urban Hot Pot to so many people and have had nothing but positive things to say about it.
That's what makes my experience yesterday so incredibly disappointing.
My friends and I frequent this restaurant so often that several staff members recognize us. In four years, I have NEVER experienced the kind of treatment I received from one particular employee last night. It was upsetting enough that I'm genuinely reconsidering whether I want to return.
Yesterday, I brought a friend here to catch up after not seeing each other for years. We arrived around 9 p.m., knowing the restaurant closed at 11 p.m. Naturally, we spent a lot of time talking, which slowed down our meal. However, we were very much aware of the time and made a conscious effort to finish well before closing.
At approximately 10:38 p.m., an employee with dark, shaggy hair approached our table and abruptly slapped our receipt down in front of us. In a rushed, dismissive tone, he said, "Here's your receipt. You can pay up at the front when you're ready."
I've been coming here long enough to understand how things work. I'm well aware that once your dining session ends, the staff typically brings your check. That wasn't the issue. It was the manner in which he approached us and the attitude that accompanied it.
Shortly afterward, the restaurant's music was turned off, and we noticed several staff members standing around. My friend and I exchanged uncomfortable looks because the atmosphere suddenly felt incredibly unwelcoming, almost as though we were being pressured to leave. Mind you, it was still more than 20 minutes before closing.
But what really bothered me happened just THREE MINUTES after he dropped off our receipt.
I had literally just put my spoon down after finishing the last sip of my soup when the same employee returned. With an unnecessarily nasty attitude, he asked, "Are you guys still eating?" while gesturing his hands in frustration, as though our presence was some sort of inconvenience.
I responded, "I literally just finished my last sip, and we were about to get up to leave, but I'm confused. Don't you close at 11? Why are you rushing us?"
In an incredibly rude and dismissive tone, he replied, "Yeah, we do, but if you're done, I'd rather you go pay," while repeatedly gesturing toward the register.
Excuse me?
We were paying customers who had done nothing wrong, weren't being disruptive, and were already preparing to leave. We weren't refusing to pay, lingering past closing, or giving anyone a difficult time.
And to put this into perspective, when we walked out of the restaurant, I checked the time, and it was only 10:44 p.m. We left a full SIXTEEN MINUTES before closing. So what exactly was the rush?
There is a HUGE difference between politely communicating that a restaurant is preparing to close and making customers feel like they're being kicked out.
I completely understand that restaurant employees have closing responsibilities and want to finish their shifts on time. I've never had an issue respecting that. But if a restaurant advertises an 11 p.m. closing time, customers shouldn't be made to feel uncomfortable or unwelcome at 10:40 p.m., especially when they're actively finishing their meal and preparing to leave.
What makes this particularly upsetting is that it was so out of character for the Urban Hot Pot I've come to know and love. I've had countless positive interactions with the staff over the years, and this was my first time encountering this particular employee. Unfortunately, his attitude left an incredibly negative impression.
What was supposed to be a fun evening catching up with an old friend ended on such an uncomfortable note. Instead of leaving happy, as I have so many times before, I left feeling disrespected and disappointed.
This wasn't just some random restaurant I decided to try. This was a place I've supported, celebrated at, recommended, and returned to consistently for FOUR YEARS.
I don't expect special treatment because I'm a regular. I expect the same basic courtesy and respect that every paying customer deserves.
I sincerely hope management addresses how employees communicate with guests, particularly near closing. A simple, polite reminder would have been more than sufficient. There was no need for the hostility, dismissive tone, or repeated pressure to leave.
It's genuinely sad that one employee's behavior could make me question returning to a place that has been such a favorite of mine for so long. But unfortunately, that's exactly how this experience left me feeling. read more