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    The Blonde Code by Ashley Gray

    4.6 (104 reviews)
    ModerateHair Stylists
    Open 10:00 am - 8:00 pm

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    Services - The Blonde Code by Ashley Gray

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    Cut and color

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    Joy S.

    Coming from pitch black Asian hair, I had no idea what to expect but wanted to give it a try as my friend's hair done by Ash was so pretty. I LOVE ASH SO MUCH! She knows what she does and make so pretty. I would give her 10 stars if I can!

    After, absolutely gorgeous
    Gen L.

    Ash is the best! I did a lot of research before contacting her as I had never dyed my hair. I messaged her and she responded super quick! I had a couple of ideas for my hair but honestly she's brilliant, her work was far and above what I ever expected! I highly recommend going to her, I know I won't go to anyone else

    My hair exactly 1 month later~
    Varunee W.

    Never have I ever felt this good about my hair. Not only did I leave happier than I came in after going to Ashley for my hair, I am still so happy with it to this day. Ashley is amazing and I totally trust her with my hair. Honestly, I've have never been happier with my hair, thanks to Ashley!!

    Before
    Dana C.

    Where to begin?!? LET ME TELL YOU this woman is the realest and truest! I found Ashley on Yelp desperate for a color correction specialist after a hair nightmare. I met her for a consultation and head on, she had a plan. First thing you notice is confidence and knowledge which is then shown in her work. At my appointment, again had a plan. She even stopped at times to show me details and if she didn't like the outcome, an adjustment was made. Instant assurance and trust was felt, a breath of fresh air after my past salon experience. A step by step of aftercare including products, services and prices (may is detailed out so you have no worries of losing your look. I would HIGHLY recommend Ashley. No one else is to compare

    Before .. natural virgin hair
    Haley N.

    All I can is WOW! I am completely blown away by Ashley and her skills! What a hidden gem found here in San Diego! I searched and searched am soooooo elated I found her I am never going else where! From the first phone call I was impressed .. she answered immediately upon contacting her, answered all my questions and was able to book fairly quickly for the following week which was perfect. When I contacted her via text a few days later with some follow up questions about pricing she was up front and responded very quickly .. no shadiness. She confirmed my appointment a few days prior and one my actual appointment day she was an absolute joy. When I came in we sort of honed in on what we wanted to do which ended up being slightly different than the photos I sent, but she made sure to listen to and hear everything I was saying and never went against anything. She recognized how nervous I was about damage given my extremely fine hair and very checkered hair history and was very careful to not only address that concern but show me every step along the way how my hair wasn't being damaged to reassure me and put me at ease. I have never felt more confident and comfortable with a stylist in my life I truly haven't. She told me to trust her and I did and honestly couldn't be happier that I did. My hair looks amazing (she also did it in a way that no matter whether I put it up don't part it side ways diagonal or upside down it looks absolutely stunning and dimensional but also natural and low maintenance at the same time!) and almost feels in better condition than when I came (like hello how is that possible?) and on top of it she's a bad ass chick! She's so fun and cool to talk to and she really really knows what she's talking about I can't stress that enough. If you are looking for someone to do your blonde please look no further .. her prices may be higher than some but honestly you get what you pay for .. she is extremely extremely thorough, leaves no stone unturned and uses high end products ... I'll pay the extra to next have my hair fried off any day .. ashley is a god send! Thank you Ashley .. already looking forward to my next appointment .. you gave me my glow and confidence back!

    Jennifer G.

    This was my second time getting my hair colored by Ashley Gray. Her attention to detail and quality of work are outstanding. She is a true is a master of her craft and is very pleasant to work with.

    Mushroom balayage
    Aliyah M.

    I absolutely love my hair and Ashley did an amazing job!! She was so patient and detailed working with all the thick hair I have! She's an absolute angel for spending 5 hours transforming my hair into this beautiful mushroom balayage! I'm definitely gonna keep coming back to continue towards my gradual blonde hair journey!

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    Alyssa C.

    Texted Ashley early Tuesday morning and was able to get an appointment for the weekend luckily due to a cancellation in her schedule. Got super lucky. Sent some pictures of what I wanted for my hair and Ashley was honest and let me know everything I needed to know when planning to get my hair done. I was honestly not expecting my hair to get as light as it did, but it's all thanks to Ashley my hair looks so amazing! She is so kind and made feel so comfortable. Honestly exceeded my expectations and I am so in love with my hair!

    Cannot say enough about Ashley Gray and her assistant Karen! I have extremely dark brown hair that I attempted to box dye some grey areas before coming to Ashley. She responded to my inquiry within 10 minutes and took time to help explain her process given my hair color and personal attempts at dying. She throughly explained each required step and showed how she was approaching them along the way. She and Karen work well as a team and make you feel extremely comfortable during your service. While they are both professional they are also funny and fun to be around! I am so excited at the awesome results and grateful to have found Ashley!

    Brenda W.

    **Updated Review 8/8/18** I have attached a photo of my hair 6 months after first visiting Ashley. I HAVE NOT gone back since my original visit on 2/17. I wash my hair once a week with Fanola No Yellow shampoo in order to maintain the color. Honestly, using this shampoo is what has allowed me to go six months without having to get a touch up. I do have a follow up appt schedule this month. **Original Review** It's taken me a while to write a review because I wanted to see how my hair would look after a few washes. I got my hair done on February 17. I'll admit that I wasn't initially thrilled with the results because of 1) the price 2) didn't look how I wanted and 3) the color was so DRASTIC compared to how I went in. However, after several washes, and a month later, my hair is so beautiful. Ashley heavily processed it but it isn't even damaged. I REALLY love it. My hair color was messed up when I went in and I must give Ashley lots of credit because I have so much hair and she had plenty to fix AND she got me done in 3.5 hours, maybe 4. My hair now is a light, cool brown at the top, slightly lighter in the middle and beige/blonde at the ends. Yes, Ashley is quite expensive, but she knows what she's doing. I've received so many compliments on my hair that it's only fair I recommend her.

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    Best highlight and haircut of my life! Ashley is incredible at what she does. Completely transformed my hair!

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    Ash did exactly what I wanted and had great energy. She pays attention to detail and is very funny. Would 100% go back to her!

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    Ask the Community - The Blonde Code by Ashley Gray

    How do I make an appointment?

    Please contact me directly 858.525.3750. Thank you!

    Hi there, I wanted to get a balayage for my hair along with a haircut with some layers. My hair is dark brown and has never been dyed before. Can I have an estimate on how…

    Hello, please contact me directly 858.525.3750. Thank you for contact me!

    Hi. I'd like a haircut, perhaps a different style. What are your rates? Also, I'm wondering if you're the same Ashley Gray who worked at the Salon by Carmel Mountain Nordstrom Rack? Do you also work in Scripps Ranch by VONS?

    Yes I’m same Ashley Gray at Joelle’s but I never been worked in SR. Unfortunately I don’t taking single haircut appointments. Only taking appointment for color and the haircut is complimentary.

    Hi! I'm interested in a balayage touch up and cut, what are your rates?

    Please send me your current hair picture and your goal picture via text. I will back to you ASAP. Thanks, the number is 858.525.3750.

    Is this salon still at the same address and name as I didn't see it when driving around?

    I’m a independent sign contractor at Polished Beauty Bar in Ranch Bernardo Dr. please contact me directly if you have any questions. Thank you.

    Hi! How much so you charge for cut and color? I actually need a touch up on my bayalage and a trim.…

    Hello, please contact me directly 858.525.3750 It won’t be $100 per hour. It’s wrong info. Between $100-$450 depends on client’s situation. The consultation is free. If you… Read more

    How much they charge for a haircut

    65-85 depends on clients. Thank you.

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    Review Highlights - The Blonde Code by Ashley Gray

    Ashley absolutely nailed the perfect gorgeous balayage, flattering hair cut and beautiful base color.

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