I didn't end up getting treatment here, so this review is strictly about the attitude and conduct of the staff.
I had booked an appointment for a wisdom tooth extraction. Upon arrival, they asked for an X-ray. I told them I had recently done one and asked if I could have it sent over by my previous dentist to avoid paying for a duplicate. I left to try arranging that, but came back when I realized I needed to request it in advance. Eventually, I agreed to take a new X-ray -- which, it turns out, was covered by insurance anyway. Instead of being understanding, the nurse repeatedly told me, "See, now you wasted so much time," in a very condescending tone.
During the X-ray, she pointed at one of my teeth and said, "That's very bad, see? Lots of bone loss. I see something but I'm not going to tell you -- wait for the doctor." The way she said it felt almost gleeful, like a sniffer dog that had found drugs, with zero regard for how alarming or stressful this might be to a human being hearing such news.
When Dr. Shen came in, she examined me and said I had deep pockets near my upper molar (tooth #15) and likely needed to have that one extracted too. The examination was rough and uncomfortable. There was no empathy -- just a sense that both she and her assistant were overly animated, even excited, as they examined the X-rays and my mouth. It felt like they kept scraping longer than necessary, more focused on what they were seeing than how I was feeling.
Dr. Shen was very insistent that I would lose the tooth. I told her that my periodontist had recommended a deep cleaning first to try and save it. Once I expressed hesitation, her tone changed -- she became noticeably impatient and even more dismissive. When I asked about the pros and cons of removing the tooth now versus waiting, and whether there was any urgency, she simply said it would heal better if removed together with tooth #16. I asked, "But at the cost of losing a tooth that might still have some years of use?" Her response: "Up to you." No further discussion, just pure indifference. When I indicated it was painful during examination, she said "Physical pain now only, emotion pain later when you lose your teeth"
My wife followed up with a few questions, and Dr. Shen actually said, "Use common sense before you ask questions." That was a breaking point for us in terms of professionalism.
Finally, just before we were about to proceed with surgery, they recommended adding bone collagen for an additional $500 out of pocket. Dr. Shen explained it was helpful and prevented gum collapse. Then a surgical assistant came in and told us it was medically necessary -- that without it, the wound would be left open and they wouldn't be able to sew the gum shut. I asked why the gum would be left open and whether that's standard -- she didn't explain clearly, but was clearly pushing hard to upsell the $500 procedure. After checking with another source (ChatGPT), I found that leaving the site open is actually common practice and not necessarily harmful. Yet they made it sound like declining collagen would leave me with an improperly healed or exposed wound.
At that point, I had had enough. I declined the procedure and walked out.
As a dentist, you should understand that many patients hope to preserve their natural teeth whenever possible -- not just because it's cheaper, but because it matters to their long-term well-being and quality of life. Recommending extraction simply because it's easier or more convenient is not acceptable. Patients deserve to be treated with respect, empathy, and full, transparent information. Sadly, none of that was present here -- not from Dr. Shen, and not from her staff. read more