I have a routine. I leave MA later in the afternoon so that I could avoid most of the CT, NY and NJ traffic. It works out pretty well unless it's raining; add +2 hours. If it's snowing, add +4. If raining and snowing, add +6-8. If a deer is hit, no time added. When I get to the first service station in Delaware, I rest for a couple of hours. I drive to Skippers, VA (Exit 4) and rest for a couple more hours. By this time, I am rejuvenated and have the energy I need to keep up with my boy. It HAS worked out great.
I always stay in Smithfield, NC, The Sleep Inn & Suites. Not just because it's halfway between where he lives and all the action in Raleigh, or that the prices, modernization and amenities are better than most in this area. But because of how Owen is treated. I feel that I get treated great! My name is known, my preferences are always discussed and my feedback is heard. Owen on the other hand gets red carpet treatment; he gets a lot of love from the staff here. Most of the time they get ignored (because he's shy) but that doesn't stop them from coming up to him, welcoming him back, seeing and waving him off and asking about him.
If there is chalk on the ground by the pool, they know it's Owen. If the elevator is going up and down without anyone getting off, it could be Owen.........or me. He's gotten gifts from the staff like Stone Cold gift cards, treats and minion bubbles but yesterday we got the biggest gift of all (by we I actual mean myself).
I am active duty Navy with 19 and half years of
Service. At 38, although not old, I'm no spring chicken anymore. Apparently, sleep is very important and I haven't been getting much of it as of late. I left normal time and didn't even hit any traffic. I stopped in New Jersey, twice: a 30 minute rest at the Vince Lombardi service area so that I can make it to my normal Delaware stop but that didn't happen. I made it to a service area only a few miles from my first stop and two hours ended up being six straight slept in the car.
Today (11/6/19) was Owens birthday and he had his four year check up at 11 am that I was trying to make it to. I've only been to a couple of his doctor visits and always try to schedule my leave around those kind of events. I also wanted to get in early so that I could wrap his birthday presents that I've been so tired to do prior to coming here but didn't have time for that either. I checked in the hotel by 2 pm and was greeted and welcomed back. Owen was asked about and I told them that I was bringing him back later in the evening and that he was having a birthday party at his step dad/moms house.
I mentioned that I didn't have time to wrap his gifts because I over rested and without hesitation, Nickie the General Manager, said she would wrap them and put them in the room. My revised plan was to just put the presents under the blankets and have him peel the blanket back one present at a time but looks like I didn't have to do that.....thankfully. I left her with all the gifts and wrapping paper and said she would have it all taken care of by the time I returned in a couple of hours.
I left at 2:45 and returned about 6:15. Owen slept on the way and I carried him to the room. He knew he had presents there but neither of us knew what it would look like . I opened the door and found the best looking display of gifts that even I put together myself. It was a wall of presents, nicely wrapped and I didn't notice till later that Nickie also brought him cupcakes and a YUGE trash bag for the used wrapping paper. She even placed some of the fragile toys in boxes that I didn't provide and bubble wrap around one that really needed it and that again, I didn't provide.
At first, Owen wasn't impressed. He was tired and waking up from a 30 min nap that could have lead to an all night slumber. Once he saw it, he got into it and unwrapped them all like a mad man......a 4 year old mad man. As a father, especially as only being physically present part time, I felt the biggest sense of relief that that went better as planned and the track record that I keep for myself is unscathed.
We caught Nickie before she left and thanked her for something that she clearly didn't have to do and went above and beyond for. She and a couple of others are great every time we visit; Mary and Teresa are a couple that I always interact with during my stay and there are a lot more here who are just some awesome and caring human beings.
If you ever find yourself traveling through North Carolina, whether you are staying for the night or just passing by (lots of eating, activities, and shopping opportunities surrounding this hotel), stop on by and say hello and that Owen sent you. read more