I got to know Doron Hanoch, the owner of this retreat center, over the course of two frightening…read moreand destabilizing weeks. I practiced daily at this center while volunteering my time on strategy, graphics, marketing, and promotion of the New Year's Eve retreat. After repeat incidents of rage and aggressive behavior, shouting, verbal abuse, and even threats by Doron, I ran away out of fear for my safety.
Doron demonstrates all the precursors of physical abuse, which always begins with verbal and emotional abuse and uncontrolled angry outbursts. Having spent time with volunteers and with the owner, it's also worth mentioning that Doron Yoga & Zen Center experiences frequent employment turnover and staff dissatisfaction in addition to the owner's alarming temper and volatility. People that come to work or volunteer here tend to leave unhappy because the owner does not get along with anyone. In fact, his previous general manager only lasted a few months. Despite the carefully constructed facade Doron creates in class, the pattern is consistent with narcissism, showing a man who is in a great deal of pain and unwilling to work on himself.
The first time I spoke to Doron, I told him I may be interested in doing a teacher training. Instead of discussing in the center's public café as expected, Doron asked me to come to his house, where I sat for two hours while he made passes at me. I kept redirecting the conversation toward business and yoga. I commented that he's being too forward and told him to take it down a notch. Ironically, he went on a heated 10-minute rant about how much he dislikes Bikram because of how Bikram treated women. Doron also talked about the #metoo movement in a way that dismissed its value.
Despite the red flags and the tense atmosphere among staff and volunteers, I returned the next day to continue discussing marketing and strategy in exchange for yoga training. Doron was even more forward the second day: he said my physical appearance is "distracting", stood intrusively close to my personal space, and asked me to hug him.
Over the course of the next week, I saw a side of Doron that is concealed during his yoga, which now looks to me like a front to conceal or bypass his out-of-control anger issues. He had an angry outburst right in front of another guest, which made both of us visibly uncomfortable. This guest made an early excuse to leave and told me that Doron seems controlling and that he's concerned for my safety. When I asked Doron later why he shouted at me, I was prepared to have a quiet, conscious conversation about what was going on for him. To my shock and disbelief, Doron instead immediately flew into a rage, screaming, yelling, slamming doors, stomping on the stairs, and behaving in a way that frightened me. I was not able to get a word in edgewise or calm him down, and finally gathered my things to leave. He followed me around, shouting and demanding to know why I was leaving and screaming accusations while I tried to get away.
A week later, his second temper tantrum was much more frightening. He threw his computer and another object, outright threatened me (him: "you better be careful what you say next" me: "are you threatening me?" him: "yes, yes I am threatening you"), and continued yelling even when his staff entered the house to observe the entire meltdown.
Both times I woke up to voicemails from him saying he's sorry and that his anger is "just a part of him". I told him I would only be willing to meet in a public cafe (so he couldn't yell or endanger me), and only because several of my friends booked NYE retreats here based on my marketing work, and we needed to figure out how to handle that.
In the end, I told my friends what happened, and they did not feel safe keeping retreat reservations there. It took days for my friends to get their refunds. I told Doron he'd face credit card chargebacks if he didn't refund them.
Please read his Google reviews, which corroborate his aggressive behavior, inappropriate interactions with women, and atmosphere of fear at his center. It's so sad, because he's a very talented teacher, but clearly a very tortured person who refuses to acknowledge -- let alone address -- his anger issues, which endanger the people around him.