From start to finish, Please do not use Regency if you truly love your loved one! I had arrangements pre-arranged for my mom who had cancer. After my mom passed (on a Saturday, 07/18/20), the mortuary did a great job of picking her up and was sensitive to what I was going through, but after that it was all down hill.
I was informed that somebody from Regency would be calling me on Monday, that never happened! I contacted them on Tuesday and the woman answered says: I remember seeing the paperwork and this is for a cremation right? I cannot tell you how angry I was because this was pre-arranged and she was to be buried. She says don't worry we won't cremate without a lot of paperwork signed and set's up a time for me to come in.
My son, daughter and I went in with the clothes she was to buried in with other items for the casket. We were welcomed by woman dressed in workout tights and long top (extremely unprofessional). Never offered any water or apologize for our loss. She took us into room, said Meagan would be in and closed the door. Meagan was at least 10 minutes late. While waiting for her, I could not locate restroom, so my daughter knocked on door and after, the woman says here is the restroom but we keep doors locked to it because that is where bodies are brought in from.
The restroom was "FILTHY"!! Garbage can overflowing with tissue/paper towels and some on the floor. Everything about it was dirty.
I had already contacted the graveside and found the soonest they could have burial is on 08/04/20 due to being booked. I am told we are going to have to charge extra because we only hold bodies for 7 days. This was completely out of my control so she agreed to talk to the Director and while she was in there I am sure they had a secret camera/speaker and heard that I placed a call to another mortuary to find out about transferring her (wish I would have followed through), so they ended up waiving the extra fees.
I am given papers to sign without them being explained. Asks me what casket and all I want. Now I am getting more and more upset since I had already picked everything out! I am told well the person who pre-arranged is no longer here and now you know why. Why would you ever say something like that to a family who is grieving and could care less that the person is no longer there and is a poor excuse for what happened.
We are taken to room where caskets are. Few racks for announcements are empty and told they no longer carry them and none of the electric or light plates had covers and wires were showing. Once we get done, my daughter had to ask, are you going to take the bag with belongings, and the reply was: oh yea I will take now. I commented that I hope it's not misplaced based on what I had already dealt with, and her reply was: It won't be, it will be kept on my desk.
Mortuary was to contact Chaplain. I wanted to be sure all was right, so I called him three days later to find out he had not been contacted.
I provided pictures and 3 songs for my mom's memorial tribute and I did not receive to review until the morning of the funeral that was being held at 8:30am, which of course I am not checking my email so never had chance to have changed.
Now the funeral!! First, if that truly was my mom the makeup artist should be fired. I have a picture of her and the way she was made up was terrible of which I have pictures of that as well. Many guests made comments that they honestly didn't think that was her and had I been alone, I would have checked to be sure it really was her based on what happened because of the cancer.
They could not get the system to work to show the memorial slide show so my son (who also was grieving over the loss of his grandmother) had to use his phone to project on the screen. No, mortuary did not offer to reimburse one cent due to failure on their end and not allowing my son to grieve the way he deserved at that moment.
I later find out they approached my son prior to the showing and said: Your mom picked three songs and has a lot of pictures, do you think we should just play one song and cut the pictures down?
Now the slide show is playing and I realize they did not use all my pictures and the picture I asked to be last (by email) was not added to the end as requested. All 8 of my mom's great grandchildren were there and some very special pictures were not shown.
Now after the funeral! I call to find out where my DVD is that I paid for. They proceed to tell me the Director was ordering me a USB instead. Then I am told: I found a card while setting up for another funeral (mind you this was done 3 days later) and think it might belong to you. Really, think???? It has my name on it so it's clear it belongs to me. I finally receive it (OPEN) with the death certificates and USB.
The mortuary is supposed to be who helps family through a very difficult time. Because of what I and my family went through I pray this review will help others. Spend the extra money. read more