tl;dr: If you're a single male thinking a place like this may be your ticket to easy sex with willing women, well, that's probably not going to happen.
My recent visit to Oasis Aqualounge was my first time visiting any sort of "sex club" or whatever the preferred terminology is. I went on the first Tuesday of the month, for what is called the "Down to F*ck" event. Their website mentions something about women who like having sex with multiple men. I thought this night would be my best chance as a newcomer to see some action, I guessed that the other nights single men are allowed to visit, it would be a lot of couples and regulars and breaking into those groups might be hard.
I paid $50, registered, was given a locker key and was good to go. The staff explained the rules to me, how to set up a tab at the bar if I so desired, etc., and then the rest of the night I was on my own and they never talked to me. And no, disappointingly, the cute tight bodied girl from the Youtube video tour was not present.
So anyway, the important stuff: the girls. Not a whole lot of them. You would think, or hope, in a city of millions, there would be at least a few attractive women who would like to get fucked by a bunch of dudes for free (women enter for free, men pay $50), but alas, it doesn't look like it. I did go on a very slushy day, maybe I was just unlucky and usually Down to F*ck has more ladies? Overall, I would peg the ratio at 3:1 males to females present.
In the just over two hours I was there, I spotted only a few single women. A couple of attractive young black women, a shy Asian girl, and a not too attractive white woman, who also seemed to be a regular. I saw only the white woman have sex. The women who were there with partners, if they did have sex, it was only with their partners, I saw no invitations for group play. These women varied in attractiveness and age, from old and fat, to youngish and prettyish. When I was leaving, I saw a young couple getting undressed, the girl was pretty cute, and had great tits (with pierced nipples), but it was late and I was not about to stick around in the vain hope I or anyone but her male partner was going to have sex with her. In fact, I don't recall seeing a single attractive female having sex in the club all night. The ones I did see were invariably older women, and not very attractive. Another young couple I saw, a brown man with a hot Indian looking girl with a great ass, just sat at the bar for an hour and then left the club. There were another 3 young, cute women, but they were in a group with a couple of guys, and they didn't mingle with the rest of the crowd. Two of them did take off their towels and played on the stripper pole for a bit, so that was cool, it was like going to a strip club, minus the possibility of a lap dance.
There were a lot of single dudes there. Probably all there for the same reason I was, probably a lot of first timers. Considering my experience, and looking at what their experience was, I doubt there will be many repeat customers among this crowd. They varied in age and race, I saw a lot of old white men, young white men, brown men, black men, Asian men. Some of them tried to strike up a conversation with the few pretty women there, but most of them like me, just kind of milled around the place, sometimes stopping to watch a couple having sex, some of them with their dicks out (always the old white dudes).
I'll tell you a story here to illustrate the experience of the club: A young, well built black man was schmoozing with a couple of women. One was, young, thin black and attractive, the other, not so young, not so thin, not so attractive. It was clear that the black man was interested in fucking the black woman, but she demurred. Later, I saw her changing into her clothes to leave, and she shared some comments with a worker about being harassed or something? I guess one of those old white dudes tried a little too hard. The black man ended up having sex with the not attractive white woman. Under normal circumstances, a man of his attractiveness would probably not be having sex with a woman of hers. So the best looking guy in the club got to have sex with one of the least good looking girls there. Good luck to the rest of us, then, right?
Even though my night sucked, if you decide to go, take some advice. Here's rule number 1: You gotta fucking talk to people. I never initiated conversation with anyone, and so nobody fucking talked to me all night. It was sad, and watching so many other dudes doing the same thing, that was sad too. No women are going to ask you to have sex with them (unless you're a male model or something), you're going to have to ask them. And "hey, want to fuck?" is not going to work, and might even get you thrown out if you're too much of an asshole about it. So disappointingly, it's a lot like going to a regular club or bar, gotta make small talk and all that usual courtship jazz. But then what even is the point? read more
