Unfortunately I need to edit my review. I've heard too many lousy things through the grapevine to feel safe going to this establishment anymore. "My sociopathic ex works there." "They treat sex workers really badly." "I get misgendered by staff all the time." Then the owners started fighting and/or blocking anyone criticizing them on social media. Then they started leaving supportive messages on the social media pages of other businesses with sexual harrassment/abuse allegations, saying victims shouldn't be believed, etc. It's just... nah. It's the only game in town, so here's hoping some enterprising business-person with better ethics opens something up! Previous review below: This is a great place to go for a special occasion or just to relax. Play in the dungeon, enjoy watching others or being watched, or just grab a towel and relax in the sauna, jacuzzi or steam room. The staff are outgoing and polite. The clientele have a reputation for being far less skeezy/inappropriate than most places. Single men must be accompanied by a woman to visit the upper floors; this is to make the space safer for women, though I am not sure what this means for men who come to play together. I guess one of the nearby men-only bathhouses would be more suited to them. I give Oasis 4 stars because I love going to events there, but the flavour is pretty het and vanilla. Still a nice night out! read more

Super nice people, lots of various settings to have fun, wet and dry saunas, hot tub, pool...! Totally worth it for swinging couples and women (single men only allowed on Wednesday nights). Check out the website thoroughly. We'll definitely be going again! ;-) read more

This is a very open and honest place to explore your bounds, get in touch with like minded people or just have a great time swimming or taking a spa day. I usually come here for the shows, since they are a little unique for what Toronto has to offer but always end up having a good time. This is not a place for the tinder scumbags with lousy personalities, it's where consenting adults can find others for two/three/four+ engagements in a safe regulated environment. Let's make no mistake, aside from the nice spa and pools this is a sex club, know what to expect and you'll have fun. read more

Oasis Aqualounge is without question, one of the most beautiful adult clubs out there. But along with the steep cover charges, outrageous parking, and the limitation on "who can attend when", Oasis feels a little too exclusive, especially for someone who can't attend regularly. Granted, I'll be the first one in the heated pool, but that seems to come at the cost of a non-existent dance floor, nor anywhere else for people to socialize indoors. Hot Tub & Dry Sauna are nice (size 8-10ppl) but Steam Room is now permanently closed. The Shower room is kinda sucky: it's literally a tiled room with two showers sticking out of the wall. They do have expensive looking showerheads, but no hand-held attachments so women can wash off their nether regions adequately. Lockers are included, although they are not very big, especially in winter; don't hesitate to ask for two. Towels are included. Condoms included. They do have "Events" but again, there really isn't any significant area in the club to host them, and so you end up squished and not able to see, or forego the event altogether and stay in the pool. Attending as both a single female and as a couple, I've found it difficult to make connections (more so the "weekend" crowd) if you aren't a thirty-something hipster. On the nights when single men arent allowed (which is Wednesdays, and one or two Sundays and Tuesdays, so 6-8 days each month), Oasis Aqualounge feels less like a Swing Club and more like a hotel alternative. A Night at Oasis: $80/couple, $12-20 for sketchy parking lot (they have zero on-site parking, and you get a ticket after midnight if you park on the street). Drinks aren't terribly over-priced, but should be cheaper given cover charge. So including two drinks each and a tip, expect to pay about $140 for a Friday night. read more

Went with my boyfriend last night. Been meaning to try this place for a long time, I was not disappointed. It was pretty slow for a Thursday but we got comfortable fast. The vibe is very relaxed, and nobody was really creepy. Everyone we encountered was friendly, open and welcoming. I really liked the staff as well, they were all respectable and knowledgable. POOL The pool area is really nice. Great place to go to relax, especially during the day time but even at night. FYI, on Wednesday's women are free and Mondays womens entry is $5. So if you live near the area or happen to be around these days, I'd take advantage of the pool !! It's heated so it's good even for winter ! People are allowed to have sex in the pool though, and they do. I'd just be mindful not to dunk your head under. ROOMS Each room has a different feel, some are more dim and others are brighter. Others are more public and some offer privacy. The higher up you go the more privacy you get. But it becomes commonplace to see others and know others can see you. Not weird at all after a while. Every room is a nice space tho, the club is set up like a house! It's awesome. There's bars on the main and third floor, and stripper poles by each bar. Unfortunately I didn't get to see the poles in use when I went, but anybody is welcome to use them. The dungeon room was really cool, I'm glad we got to try some new stuff in there. They have a suspended swing and some kinky chains to keep you pressed on the wall. The place is very tidy, staff are always walking around and keeping things clean. The showers are fully stocked so you can clean up ! They only have two showers, I'm sure sharing won't be a problem. Towels were always available but some of them didn't look so clean... I'm sure they were just stained but I was eery. The locker room is unisex and the shower. So make sure you're ok with this or don't go. DRESSCODE I was confused about what to wear, don't make this mistake, I ended up naked the whole time. Casual or formal, any kind of dress goes but don't even bother, just let loose. It's an awesome feeling and it doesn't feel out of place since most people are nude also. It's like a nudist community, which depending on your comfort level was really enjoyable. I came in heels, which I thought was a good idea cuz it was sexy, but I'd encourage ladies to avoid this. You're not allowed on any furniture with heels on, so it's just a hassle to deal with AND less comfortable. This place is all about comfort. For the germies like me, maybe bring a pair of flip flops with you to walk around in. I was barefoot and it wasn't a huge problem, but I would have liked some footwear in retrospect. BOOZE Drinks are kind of expensive. Since you're there all day you can rack up quite a bar tab. They don't allow outside liquor but they don't actually search you so... If you're morally ok with this, you might wanna bring some with you but just be sneaky about it. Or step out for dinner and grab some drinks while you're there. There's an LCBO literally one block away, at church and Jarvis if this helps anyone. OTHER I'd recommend you check the website calendar before you go, they always have events happening and certain days of the week are cheaper than others. Last night there was a live performance and a showcasing of some of the artwork around the place, we got to meet the artists as well. Really interesting talented people. I will be going back for sure!! I want to try a Monday night for a younger crowd, but even when we went there was a nice mix of people of all varieties, young and old. They also give you lockers when you arrive to put your stuff away, I don't think you're allowed to have your phone on you for obvious reasons, but the lockers are easily accessible so you can go check it whenever. Also you have in and out privileges, which is great cuz you can leave for as long as you want, grab some dinner, come back whenever. Place is open from 11am-3am, so lots of time to get busy or just mingle and take a load off ;) haha wordplay. Since January 2015 there is no smoking on patios! Urgh this was the only annoying part. If you're a smoker I suggest bringing a robe with you, because you have to stand out front to smoke and I didn't like having to get dressed every time I needed my nicotine fix. Also the area is not the "safest" so I encourage anyone especially ladies to bring a buddy out with you after dark. Definitely try this place out!! It's really an interesting experience, I'm glad a place like this exists in Toronto. Especially if you're a couple that's looking to spice things up, it's very exhilarating to be in an environment that's so sexually charged and permissible, you can keep to yourselves or also watch/join others. But to keep it classy always make sure you have permission, nobody wants to feel disrespected so make sure you know your boundaries. All in all great time. Hope to become a regular here. So worth it read more

Step out of your comfort zone and visit Oasis. Truly an experience for those comfortable with themselves and trying something new. I had been meaning to visit for a long time, but hadn't really mad the time to do so. It's important to check the website for different days and events offered so as to be informed prior to arriving. Once you sign in, get your own locker with key.. you are red to explore past the curtains... There is a bar conveniently located right at the entrance so a dose of liquid courage can calm any first timer. I believe there are 3 floors with different themed rooms. Can't forget the hot tub, sauna, and outdoor heated pool. I think in the summer time they offer a bar along side the pool as well, but it was closed for the season as we did visit in winter. Had an amazing time and want to go back for sure. Glad I was able to overcome the first hurdle of actually going in as I had my doubts at first coming through the door. I can't lie, it was interesting and fun all the same. I prefer going with a friend who is equally as comfortable. Groups are cool too if you know enough people interested. Drinks are a bit pricey but they also offer bottle service. read more

Oasis is a fantastic swingers club the multi level rooms are decorated and themed beautiful. Pool, hot tub and sauna are to die for. However that being said I don't go there too often. Mainly because it's expensive. While I understand they have to recoup costs somehow for the place which is extravagant - $20 for a single female and $80 if you're a couple. Sorry but it's just not worth that, also it's downtown Toronto - parking is a nightmare! read more

Oasis Aqualounge has become one my favourite places to visit in Toronto. It's a fabulous water village of like minded sex positive people, right in the middle of the city! Kindness, courtesy and consent are a big part of the culture at Oasis. The result is that it really is "a little bit of sex heaven." I tip my hat to the team at Oasis Aqualounge for their vision in creating and maintaining a friendly place where no one is judged and everyone can feel that they are free to be their happy sexy selves. Frankie G (author of Sex and the Single Man) read more

I personally had a good time. I went in for Magic night and apparently was the only one who dressed up as a Wizard. I feel the advertising should have made that more clear. The Dungeon area is not for fighting or roleplay and if you go in it might be a better idea to bring a partner. My wizard costume prohibited my glasses so I did not have a clear visual of what was going on but everyone sounded like they where enjoying themselves. read more

Hands down the city's best swing club, this club is very much for couples and females. It has a very relaxed atmosphere compared to other clubs with a friendly staff who are always looking out for the safety of everyone there. Their major events are fun and engaging the staff who run the events are great and they really make sure everyone's having a wonderful time. Great place for first timers, great place for women to go in the group or by themselves and amazing place for couples. read more

Oasis was one of the most unpleasant experiences I have had in my whole life. I went there tonight with my husband and, after a 30 minute long waiting in the line in the freeze weather, I've been told to step aside because I was not a member. After a few minutes I asked the check-in girl, Paige, why we should wait, after all, we were in the line. She, in very rude manner, answered this was the rules and talking to me was making the waiting time even bigger to the other customers. I kept telling her this was not fair and, out of the blue, the security guy came over and banned us. All the time I was talking in a nice way and just asking her why... It is unbelievable!!! Shame on Oasis!!!! Update: Ok, we were not banned, however, it was our first time in the club, after everything that happened I felt like been banned. As I explained in the message I've sent to your e-mail, I tried to contact you before, in order to check what would be the rules and procedures. You could have replied saying we could wait a little longer, because we were not members. The only info I got was to arrive after 7:30. Paige only told us to step aside, she never informed neither what was the reason, nor how long it should take. We already have been waiting for 30 minutes in a cold weather outside, imagine how we feel when she said we should wait more without any reason. Then I just asked her why we should wait more and she, in very rude manner, started to say I was making the waiting time, for the other customers, even longer and I shouldn't have been talking to her. After I said this was unfair, the security guy came over and asked us to leave. Honestly, I felt like I was a criminal when I was escorted out of the club. It seems you don't care about new customers, as you already have enough members. read more

Really a great place to unwind and relax . Atmosphere is great , vibe is excellent, bit costly , kindly find some solution to parking issue. All in all Great place to enjoy have fun and make memories . My favourite spot is ref room where you can pull the curtains and enjoy and people can participate with you from one sided glass windows. Love this place read more

New here, This is my first yelp review but I wanted to post about FIRST TASTE days for newbies at Oasis Aqualounge They have twice a month meeting nights for people that want to explore a sex club, but were always afraid to take the dip. We went on Jun 2nd after toying with the idea since we heard about it six months ago, and it was well worth the hour trip. Its a great way to ease into the scene to check what its all about. I'd been before to others in the city on my own, since I work there on business but never took part in anything too much. This is fairly new to Toronto and I'd say its the cleanest, best staff and funnest. My GF and I really enjoyed ourselves, it was a good choice. She was shy, and very nervous but sure not anymore! lol It is amazing how you can get caught up in the atmosphere in just one day and let yourself go. The facilities are great and perfect location downtown to hit the nightlife after. If you are thinking of trying it, please e-mail me for an open and honest glimpse of the first tatse night, with some friendly tips and advice :) read more

Went for our very first time with my partner. We attended on a Cple and Single ladies only night. A Saturday. We had researched the webpage and googled the reviews both good and bad. We were up for an out of the box adventure and that is exactly what we were served! We are first timers in love with this place. It was amazing and freeing. An all around great experience. Like anywhere else you are going to get the odd person that is uptight but you laugh it off and continue to enjoy yourselves Loved the demo but was looking forward to enjoying the swing which they removed for the evening due to the demo going on. Love the clothing optional dress how your comfortable or not at all rule. Me being shy and anxious to bew things went in a dress and ended the eve half naked in lingerie. All in all a great first time and we will both be returning together to enjoy Oasis Aqua loung again very soon!! Hopefully the swing is up read more

Wonderful place with lots of potential. Love that anyone can feel comfortable there and we happened to stumble upon an incredible scene to ice the cake when we visited. Was surprised at the vanilla aspect. Is it just people being respectful? read more

Couldn't ask for more! Great club, friendly employees and welcoming environment. Love the dungeon but the pool is the highlight

Great place for some midnight fun! Very sexy especially if you go with a beautiful woman.

I went with my boyfriend last night. I'd say we're pretty open and adventurous so we picked Oasis for the fantastic reviews on the place. The price was pretty steep for a couple - $80 on a Saturday night, but when you take into account the furniture, pools, bar, upkeep, I suppose it makes sense. The pools were great. They definitely added a nice touch. Oasis is divided into several floors, with narrow stairways leading to each floor. The higher you go, the more private the club becomes. Like several people have mentioned, the locker room is unisex and people will check you out while you get undressed, so bear this in mind. We walked around naked for the most part and grabbed towels for when we decided to sit and/or lay down. We had no complaints about the place itself - it was very neat with staff cleaning up on all floors. There are bins for used/dirty towels on every floor and most importantly condoms and lube were provided. The music was okay, not my type, but it was upbeat and set the mood in a good way. I've been to other swingers/sex clubs, like M4, and the one thing that's driving my rating is the segregation of couples. I understand that on nights where single men are allowed, it tends to get hectic in an annoying way for couples, but everyone was paired off and doing their own thing and there wasn't much mingling going on. I guess if you just enjoy the thrill of having people watch while you have sex it would be perfect. Most of the couples were not interested in play so we just kept to ourselves and had our own fun. Though for $80/couple we could've threw on some porn and went to town at home. Would I go back? It depends. I had high expectations. Overall it wasn't very busy. We got there around midnight and stayed until nearly closing time, but it didn't really pick up. Oasis is beautiful though. Perhaps we'll try a different night next time? read more

If you are looking for a fun and very unique experience, Oasis is definitely the place to go. My wife and I were definitely a bit apprehensive about going our first time, but it is a very relaxed, non-pressure environment. I also really like that by having different rooms and multiple levels there are different vibes throughout the club. If you are new to the whole scene you can just hang out downstairs at the bar and/or in the pool which is a much more relaxed and social setting without a lot of the more sexual things going on - once you are a bit more comfortable and ready for adventure you can explore the other levels of the club where more of the play is going on. The club is very clean with a second floor locker room. There are a variety of different rooms/activities: downstairs bar with a small dance floor, an out-door year round heated pool, indoor hot tub, sauna, ball room set up for shows/performances, dungeon and a top floor bar with multiple play rooms and even a shaggin' wagon 70s van on the top floor. This is definitely a place that caters more towards couples (which I certainly prefer) and the women are generally in charge - so for any curious couples out there you don't have to worry about aggressive single men - just a relaxed friendly atmosphere, with great staff and fun people. read more

I stopped by here last week and it was definitely an amazing, comfortable and fun experience. Everyone is very open-minded and very body and sex positive. You can feel free to wear whatever you'd like or nothing at all, there is no pressure by anyone to do anything you do not want to do. Their outdoor pool is beautiful, along with the indoor hot tub, sauna, bars, etc. Upstairs also has a variety of playrooms where you can have a little fun. Towels are available for you to grab and lockers are assigned to you and you can keep any valuables inside. Overall, it is a very clean club and the staff are lovely people who constantly keep the place tidy, and welcomes you once you walk in. Very good customer service. The guests are also very friendly and easy to strike up conversations with. This is perfect to come alone, with your partner(s) and friends!! read more

What a great place !!! My wife and I went this last weekend and were blown away "no pun intended ", we were blown away right from minute 1 how comfortable the staff made us feel and how respectful the people were , we will definitely be back , amazing , fun , unique , great theme rooms , clean , what a great time , all shapes and sizes , all age groups , read more

It is My Naked Cheers! Staff is personable and yes, they know your drinks when they know you! Place is clean, sexy, and always an adventure! Sometimes I go in to relax by the pool in the summer and evenings is good for play times! Not there is nothing wrong with a daytime romp! read more

I've enjoyed going to Oasis Aqualounge for years, whether it's on my own, with a girlfriend to tan and hang out or with a date. Someone recently posted some comments about what a terrible time they had and I really had to say something. Oasis IS just like a regular bar or club, except that you can have sex right on the premises. It is not an escort service. The club does not control the weather or the flow of guests. No one would ever write up a review about a pub or jazz club or nightclub after an "unsuccessful" night and complain about how the facility sucks because they didn't get laid. There is absolutely no guarantee about what is going to happen when you go there. This place stresses the concept of "consent" and appropriate sexual/social behaviour. It's one of the reasons women feel safe there and keep going back. Yes indeed, you do need to talk to people before getting in their pants. If what you're looking for is a guarantee of sex, pony up the money and hire one of the many lovely, beautiful escorts in this great city of ours and have all your wildest fantasies come true. But don't go to Oasis with those kind of expectations. Whoever shows up shows up and they can do whatever they want. No one is under any kind of pressure to have sex. It's one of the reasons people love going there. read more

Its amazing spa all there are friendly and I'm planing to cone back with my partner next week it's really wonderful spa and staff are very kind . read more

I decided a review was in order... Goodness knows I have been clothed, naked, and in the pool there often enough to write a review. Oasis occasionally allows their venue to be utilized by other people or groups. As with any great venue it is in demand. Some are open events and some are closed. Unfortunately the event mentioned in the previous review has tainted the public view. Hopefully I can help set the record straight a bit. While I am sorry that person experienced that... It was a unique event and experience. If you are going to Oasis to experience something we've not previously had available in Toronto. You are going to love it... I've heard the patio compared to a "naked backyard party with your friends"... I have also heard others say they wished there was a franchise opportunity back home. The people are friendly... But not intrusive. Which basically means that if you want to chat with those around you... It will typically be welcomed. If you choose to sit with only those you came with... That will be respected. At the end of the day most have the courtesy to use their manners. The drinks flow as often or as slowly as you wish. There is no pressure to go for alcoholic over non-alcoholic drinks. For a bottle of wine (for those who prefer that over per glass) the price is on par or slightly better than most restaurants in the downtown core (at least the ones I frequent). Mixed drinks are reasonable... Beer as well from what I gather. They have reasonably priced fruit juice, and even more reasonably priced pop. There is typically a variety of things to nibble on (which comes in handy when you've expended a lot of energy), not to mention the ease of either ordering in, or wandering to one of the many places near by. You are never going to please everyone... But at the end of the day one has to realize that experiencing an Oasis event can be quite fun. It's gradually become my home away from home because I have gotten so comfortable there... Yet at the end of the night it always makes me smile a bit to know that each time is just a little bit different. The only real problem is that the smell of a properly chlorinated pool makes me tingle from head to toe, and a sunny day has me grinning from ear to ear and starting to blush because I know where I would rather be. read more

We've been to Wicked, Ozone and M4 and were curious to try this place out with some friends. We went down on a Saturday night after going out for dinner with another couple who also hadn't been there. It was crowded and the event was some grecian orgy thing. It was amazing!! People were wearing toga's, towels or little else. The place has a heated outdoor pool, hot tub, sauna, steam room, funky theme rooms (check out the room with a van in it or the one with 2way glass) and a so-so dungeon. People and staff are friendly, drink variety galore and music was ok although the dance floor is small. Its also pricey at $80 couple and after parking and drinks we ended up spending over $200!! We'd be coming back more but after dinner, babysitting and the club, its a very expensive outing...maybe for special occaisons read more

I'm going to make a suggestion because I had a bit of an uncomfortable experience (which to be clear was completely my own doing...I didn't follow the rules) but I cannot emphasize enough that I love this place so this in no way should be considered a "negative" review. I went for the first time last week as a single male on a Wednesday afternoon with no expectations and I really had a wonderful time. I didn't look for, expect, or have sex. I just lay out in the sun, had a few beers, and enjoyed the freedom of being without clothes. Today I went back and had a similar experience but left feeling a bit bad after an hour or so. Full disclosure first as I think I am a bit of a unique case. I have been gay my entire life but am starting to realize I am actually more bi than gay. So I guess I am coming out in a reverse direction from most. The website says the atmosphere is inclusive and it absolutely is. I also make sure I don't make anyone uncomfortable and respect the fact that most of the men are probably straight (i.e. I am not hitting on anyone). Here is the thing. There is a rule that single men cannot go to the third floor without a woman or couple. I completely get the reasoning. You don't want to change the whole atmosphere of the place by having a bunch of single men all over the place. It could actually be quite creepy. In my situation, I am not even sure if I am ready to be with a woman or couple, but I feel a bit marginalized because I am restricted from going up to the third floor at all times unless I find a woman or couple to escort me. I certainly don't want to stalk anyone just to go up. Today I was bad, and I broke the rules so to be clear: This was of my own doing. It was pretty empty upstairs so I wandered up to the third floor on my own to see what it was all about knowing full well I shouldn't. There was an absolutely beautiful couple having sex on display just as I came up to the top of the stairs. They clearly wanted to be watched and I was the only other person up there so I watched and we were all happy. The bartender saw me and she said very nicely: "Are you with anyone else?" and I said "No" to which she responded: "No: then you need to go downstairs". She was right and I was wrong and she was not impolite (nobody is there), but the place was seriously empty. I was watching a couple that wanted to be watched and we were all happy. I left Oasis because I was feeling marginalized. Like I was once again in a place where I wasn't accepted. I am not suggesting single men be allowed up onto the third floor all the time because it would probably be a disaster for the club...but if people like myself are to feel like they belong as well, there should be set times when we CAN go up. If everyone knows that single men can go up on say, Tuesday or Wednesday afternoons, then everyone can make their decisions accordingly. There were only two people up there today. Maybe there would even be more business if single men were treated equally to everyone else one day of the week? I don't think I should be allowed to go all of the time...but there should be at least one time when I can. read more

About us: Married professionals, 30-40, first timers. We found the other reviews very useful so would like to pass on our experience. We attended last Thursday with an open mind about what could/would happen. When we arrived the staff were friendly and gave us a brief rundown on the club. We ended up dressing up for the occasion, which was fun even though we knew we would probably go with the towels or au naturel - which we did right away. Ample towels and the club itself was as advertised - clean and comfortable. We weren't sure what to expect in terms of crowd, being a Thursday, but there were enough people when we arrived (~8:30pm) to feel comfortable and the numbers grew throughout the evening without getting packed. We spent some time by and in the pool before heading upstairs and fooling around, just the two of us. We had discussed and were open to playing with others but as it was our first time we didn't have any firm expectations. We definitely sensed that there was interest from others but never felt any pressure. In fact, people seemed so respectful that you probably need to be fairly active and outgoing to make a connection. That suited us just fine for our first time. The crowd was a mix of ages and body types - I suppose we are on the more attractive side of the scale but everyone seemed to feel comfortable and at ease regardless. Which was great. We ended up playing quite few times throughout the night in most of the rooms on the third floor. Usually there were one or more other couples in the room with us. It was really nice to be able to take pool and shower breaks in between. Pretty amazing experience overall and we would recommend to others without hesitation. We will be back for sure! read more

I like that strangers got to see my penis, but the fact that it didn't shock anyone was a big turnoff for me. Something about the safety of it all was kinda boring, does that make sense? All I know is that while here I was soft the whole time, but when I let the bird out to breathe at a Burger King or a Bed Bath, I'm good to go. read more

This place is AMAZING. I have never felt more comfortable in my entire life, everyone is super friendly including the staff! it is well maintained,very cleanly, they provide you with warm clean towels, a locker to leave your valuables in and so much more! There is no pressure coming from anyone to do anything you don't want to do and if anyone gives you trouble they will not hesitate to remove them. If you are open minded and like exploring I recommend you pay Oasis a visit. the pool, hot tub and sauna are super fun! They have 3 floors of greatness and every one of them is very different. I've made some good friends here, which keeps me coming back! read more

My wife and I visited the Oasis Aqualounge on first-taste night (Thursday night). We are first-timers to the lifestyle and have never been to an "adult playground" before. We had an amazing time. All the other reviews sum it up and our experience aligns with them. Friendly staff and wonderful respectful sex-positive people. We felt zero pressure to participate in anything we didn't want to participate in. One additional comment about staff; they are ALL respectful and confidential. We noticed that they hold eye contact when speaking to you. There is no eye-wandering. They also aim to please and go way above in terms of customer service. We were so impressed with the hospitality and professionalism. All of our concerns and worries turned out to be unnecessary. Would we be the only people there on a Thursday night? Not a chance. It wasn't crowded but there were other newbies and a collection of regulars. There were enough people to make us feel comfortable but not so many that we had trouble finding a place to relax. Would we feel like the place was sleazy or unclean (e.g., strip club)? No again. The facilities were clean and designed to be easily maintained. There are Lysol wipes everywhere and along with patrons cleaning up after themselves, we watched a very friendly "spot cleaner" moving around constantly cleaning and wiping everything. Everything felt clean to us. Would we feel pressure to "swing" or participate in things that we are not ready to explore? Again no; however, I have to say that we felt much more comfortable than we thought we would. We spent some amount of time considering what we would wear to Oasis. It turns out we didn't need to worry. We changed from our street clothes into towels, then we were naked in the pool followed by naked upstairs, followed by naked everywhere. We didn't need to bring anything with us, and next time we won't :). It was fun to watch the other newbies move along their own naked-timeline also. We watched them go from bathing suit/lingerie , to topless, to towel, then naked. There was no expectation to be naked and no pressure from anyone if you felt more comfortable in a bathing suit or even clothes. Won't everyone be staring at me/us? No. Being naked and enjoying each other in a place like Oasis is more "normal" than being uptight and clothed. Naked in a space like Oasis; when everyone else is naked, is just the new "normal". It is our most liberating experience so far. I am 100% certain that most of the people at Oasis last night saw more of me and wife than anyone else has ever seen before (including our doctors), but everything felt natural. Will my body be "good" enough? Oasis describes on their website that patrons "look after themselves" and are "image conscious". We would agree; however, we saw and enjoyed watching normal folks with curves. There were also extremely fit people there. My wife is extremely fit and received many compliments on her body. I have a few extra pounds and felt at home, confident and comfortable. Will I be able to perform? Hmm; well, I don't think you will know that until you get there. My wife thought she might have insecurities and not feel sexy. She didn't and felt very sexy. She thought that she would need more privacy, but she didn't. I needed a few extra minutes for warm up, which I don't normally need in our home. In the end, we had a great fulfilling experience. We had other more pragmatic questions too. How do we buy drinks with no pockets? (you open a tab with a credit card) Where do you keep your locker key? (it's on a wrist band) Where do we keep our "preferred" condoms? (Oasis has condoms everywhere; however, we prefer our own brand. We kept them in our locker and went to get them when we needed one... or two) We are wishing that we were back there tonight. We are planning our next trip as I write this review. read more

we have been there twice with my husband and we have enjoyed SOOO much. we were totally newbies to the lifestyle and the environment at Oasis made it so easy for us, absolutely no pressure environment, everyone is so friendly, and we found everything we were looking for. the pool in the winter, marvellous experience, its super hot so u wont feel cold at all, the jacuzzi great. but the real fun starts upstairs where u can find a spot for u no matter what u are looking for. we love it there! read more

Oasis is the BEST! I love this place. I try to go there as often as I can. As a young woman I never feel pressured to do anything sexual when I'm there and while I am sometimes approached by men I am always given my space when I request it. The staff are amazing, it's wicked to see everyone of all different shapes and sizes being comfortable in the buff (including MANY hot people. Oh man...the hot people. There are many), and it's my fave place to go relax. Oasis kicks the ass of any swingers/sex club hardcore and blows them all out of the water. Seriously, GO THERE. read more

I have enjoyed clothing optional experiences at other venues in the past, but honestly I found this place to be uncomfortable. Many areas were completely deserted, and even though they advertised that no single men were allowed on the night that I went, I did see at least one man creeping around alone for the entire time I was there. The night I went, they closed the upper bar early for lack of customers. I've been to empty clubs before and that's always disappointing, but this felt different. The vibe was unsafe. read more

I loved my experience when i visited. At first i was a little skeptical due to it sounded to good to be true but when you first walk in i felt like everyone was genuine, and all respectful. The bar tender remebered my drink and kept asking how my experiance was. The day i visited was on a mon with my bf, it was a slow day, but never the less still a blast. I would highly reccomend this to anyone who either loves to be free, or open minded couples or singles. I cant wait to go back. It was definitely my favorite part of my vacation while visiting Canada. The employees were all professional and relatable, the customers were very respectful to beginners and the regulars. Everyone knew the boundaries. Everyone respected the club rules and regulations. Highly recommend!!!!!! read more

We attended for the first time on the student night, for us (a couple) it was only $25 to attend, which was great. Then we tried to go on Thursday because on the website under events it said that couples could bring a friend for free AND there was a student discount involved as well. When we got there, we were told that the manager had denied this student discount to the couple in front of us and that it would be $80 for a couple, or $60 for a student couple. When we showed the website to the woman at the front desk she merely repeated that the manager/owner had denied to honour the deal listed for that day's event. This is not something you would expect a business to do. Also, I don't quite know what is "upscale" about this place. It seems a bit run down, yes granted the shaggin wagon is awesome and is probably the only thing about this place that I would consider upscale. The bar area decor isn't the greatest. Honestly this place was really hyped up to us by friends, and the people we met there were the most down-to-earth and open, but the management style really needs to be changed...or just the manager. Also $80 cover is A LOT of money...you could honestly spend maybe $10-20 more for a hotel and do the same thing. Not really sure where these prices came up from and where the value stands. read more

I returned to Oasis Aqualounge for the monthly DTF night, which is one of the few nights single men are allowed onto the third floor. While this night had A LOT more men than women, it did give me a better idea what Oasis Aqualounge was about (it was also on this third visit that I finally had sex). My visits to Oasis Aqualounge were more experimental than anything else and I doubt that I will become a regular. However, I have decided that it's a place worth going to explore your sexuality. read more

This was my first time to Oasis and I went on a Monday during the day (from 1-5), when single men under 35 can go. I'm 30. VIBE: Kind of incredible. It was very chill and casual, more like a hotel pool in a good way, with groups kind of doing their own thing, keeping to themselves, but enjoying each other's company and presence. Only most were nude and some were giving blowjobs. Walking in, I was greeted by a group of three women and one man who worked there, and they were just like, "Hey man." It was the perfect hello and really changed my expectation that this was a friendly kink-positive group instead of a skeevy sex bar or a douchey club. CROWD: The under-35 crowd was surprisingly hot. A group of regulars around 30 were hanging out together and they were all very attractive. A few other girls came in who could have been models. This surprised me as I was expecting an older clientele. There was that too, but not nearly as many. Ratio was actually more girls than guys, which also surprised me. One note on the "under-35 single male rule": Those were some of the oldest looking 35-year-olds I've ever seen... in other words, not everyone there was under 35 or otherwise accompanied by a woman as far as I could tell... unless the woman was sleeping upstairs the entire time. I saw a few 60+ nude guys with no accompaniment for almost four hours. I'm sure there's an explanation but this was surprising and it was honestly a bit of a buzzkill. My theory: the guys came in with someone, fooled around, she left, he stayed. BEING A SINGLE MAN: I was really there for the nudism, suntanning and a bit of eye candy. I got all of that, so it was perfect for me. I read a book. I laid in the sun. I skinny-dipped. I didn't talk to many people, and I definitely got the vibe that if you were there alone, you shouldn't really bother anyone, and wait to be approached. But I think if you're charming, non-abrasive and have a good ice-breaker, you could open a group--especially as the night went on. But I wouldn't really expect any single man to get action here, that didn't seem the vibe at all. FACILITIES: The place is huge but the non-sexual group spaces were a bit on the small side. By 4 p.m. all the chairs and seats were taken outside. Some people laid out towels on the concrete. The second floor has a big play area and dungeon, but didn't have the vibe that you would hang out there except for messing around. The hot tub was big but mostly unoccupied. Didn't see the third-floor. WHAT TO WEAR: When you get in, change out of your clothes, wrap a towel around, and move to the pool (at least, if it's warm). In between places, most people wrapped a towel around, but were otherwise nude. There were a few people in swim gear, but it felt a bit out of place. Still, the vibe was great so no one was judging. I saw a few newcomers change into something like club outfits (nice dress and pants/dress shirt) but they did a 180 when they got downstairs saying "we're overdressed" and they stripped down to towels/bathing suits. I was worried it'd be weird to be single and nude, but it wasn't -- can't explain it, that was just the vibe. Overall I really enjoyed this place and would love to go back. It was really just an experience like I've never had and not sure I'd find anywhere else. read more

My partner proposed this place as a fun night out. I kinda knew it existed but didn't know any details. Was a bit apprehensive since we've never been to a sex club before. But oh boy, was it fun! We went on a Friday night, and it was busy. They do have themed nights and events all the time; we chose Spectator Sex which is basically live sex performances, good for couples and single women. People are encouraged to watch or join in. Single men were not allowed on that particular night. Of course, everything has to be consensual; they are pretty strict about that. Here's what to expect if you are a first-timer: You walk in through two sets of doors into a small reception area. You pay your fee with credit, debit or cash, and have your account created for you. Email address is required but you can fake it :) You are then given a brief orientation by a cheerful club staff, which is basically the same as in their Miss Oasis videos: You should be Ok with sex and nudity, no shoes on the furniture, no sex in the hot tub, absolutely no photography, get consent before touching etc etc. They give you a clean towel and a locker key - you can also bring your own padlock - and off you go through the curtain into the lower bar area. The lower bar is where people congregate and chat; there is also a stripper pole, porn videos on a large screen, DJ music and occasional live shows in that area. Lockers, showers, hot tub and sauna are all on the same level, which makes it a bit damp and dingy. There is a lot of traffic here, so I suggest going up one level to another, quieter and drier locker room. Once you have showered and changed, the club is yours to explore. If you are not wearing a costume, do not overdress! Most people are walking around simply wrapped in towels, and those come off pretty quickly. Fully dressed people look a bit out of place, unless it is a theme night. Next up: The pool area. It is awesome, with white banquettes, umbrellas and loungers on all sides. Keep in mind people in the surrounding tall buildings can see what's going on in and around the pool; not that it stops anybody from being naked or having sex. In fact, people are having sex everywhere, including the pool - but not the hot tub, which is verboten. "Play rooms" are located on the upper two levels. The higher you go, the more private it gets. Top floor has fully private rooms where you can lock the door; other rooms are completely or partially open. You can peek into any of them and catch or partake in some hot and heavy action. There are (synthetic?) leather couches and cushions for you to get down on. There is a well-equipped dungeon; people are welcome to use the amenities or watch live BDSM demos.. drinks are not allowed here. Third floor has another bar area which is quieter, and to me, nicer than the first. A small red room next to that bar is equipped with one-way mirrors; it is great if you are an exhibitionist or a voyer. We got lucky in that a beautiful young couple decided to go there while we were in the bar area watching; man, what a fantastic show they put on! :) Talking about people, the majority of the clientele was in their 30s and 40s like us, but there were younger and older couples too, a nice mix overall. They do have student nights (under 35) on Mondays; I believe single men are also welcome on Tuesdays and Wednesdays. Check their website for more info. Not too many single women, and most couples kept to themselves... if you are a single guy looking to get lucky, lower your expectations. People generally are not model material, just average bodies of all shapes and sizes. We are fit, and felt like one of the more attractive couples there - But sometimes you do glimpse a spectacular body. There were a few obvious hired guns as well. I thought it would be weird to mingle with naked or semi-naked people but everyone seemed chill and friendly, and eventually you get used to it. Same with having sex or watching people have sex in public... It was a new sensation for me, and it really turned me on! We ended up enjoying hot sex more than a few times, mostly with each other. But we were also eyeing another attractive couple we spotted at the pool. So... by the end of the night, we were in a foursome with them! My GF got her first taste of a woman, and I got a nice BJ :) Great end to a memorable night! Everything is clean; staff is always walking around cleaning up, and they do have supply of condoms, lube, tissues and lotion in every room. I have never felt icky, though I opted to wear flip-flops, and suggest you do the same. It does smell like sex though, all these pheromones :) Why not 5 stars? Well, drinks are pricey, and the lower bar area a little off-putting. We will not be making this a regular place to hang out, more like a special treat, but it fully deserves a visit now and then... If you are a couple looking to spice things up - You will not be disappointed! read more

the great thing about toronto is there's something for everyone. just kidding. we don't even have postmates or car2go. oasis aqualounge- the sex club in the heart of the city- almost makes up for that. we all know the feeling of a bipolar manic episode and if you've forgotten come back after listening to kanye west's yikes. when my manic energy increases and hovers dangerously close to psychosis i become hyper-sexual and boy did i unload that triggered-break-from-reality at this conveniently located sex-club (there's a bus-stop right in front!). when i was a little girl, i always hoped i would one day ride a high-powered, vibrating sybian machine naked in front of a bunch of strangers that coincidentally, was operated by the only asian dude i ever slept with. it sure was nice to see him with a job for once and i even got to skip the line of ladies waiting their turn for the world's most terrifying machine-horse/shaky-dildo-ride. i'll quit bragging about my connections. i experienced a magical moment at the bar when i reached over a man getting a blowie to grab my drink. in that moment i realized, "sometimes dreams really do come true". my favourite things about oasis are: smoking joints in the pool. sex-stuff. end of list. here's my advice: 1. pay attention and be self-aware or before you know it you find yourself as someone's secondary in a polyamorous relationship and you'll have to read all these stupid books about how humans aren't meant to be monogamous because monkeys aren't blah blah blah. b) if you do naked karaoke (and you will)don't sing anything by the spin doctors. it doesn't even matter if you're naked at oasis sex club or not. show some respect because they're a terrible band. 17. don't eat the bar snacks. read more