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    Sara T.

    I was lucky enough to know how wonderful of an officiant Nilou is, years before my own wedding. She was my sister's officiant 6 years ago, and I knew that day that when my time came to tie the knot, I wanted her there. I speak for myself and my husband when I say that Nilou completely captivates you with her poetic words and her genuine warmth.. and I speak for our guests as well when I say that. Our wedding was Iranian/American, and Nilou was able to speak to the hearts of both Farsi and English speakers. From the moment we reached out to her about being our officiant, we received nothing but warmth and a genuine interest in us and the things that are the most important to us. Just in our first zoom call, she so easily absorbed the things that matter the most to us, and the things that make us who we are both as individuals and a unit. And on the wedding day she brought it all to life with her beautiful and powerful way of speaking, and shared those precious things with everyone that we love. Nilou's attention to detail is another thing that blew me and my husband away. From coordinating the rehearsal to asking what color of dresses my bridesmaids were wearing and the colors of the wedding so she can coordinate her outfit (which I've learned are always immaculate). I could go on, but I'll leave it with this. My husband and I could never have imagined a better officiant for what turned out to be the greatest day of our lives, and Nilou was such an important part of that.

    Sam A.

    I have only attended six or seven weddings in my life, so when it came time to plan my own, figuring out the logistics of the ceremony, vows, cultural traditions, etc caused me a great deal of anxiety. Enter Nilou: one of the kindest, coolest, and most put-together people you've ever met. And even probably more importantly, she exudes calmness, which is exactly the type of energy you want when planning one of the most stressful events of your life. Nilou worked hard to give us the ceremony of our dreams, one that we didn't actually know we wanted but absolutely needed. Her extensive experience in the wedding industry meant that she could give us insight into what people usually do and what normally works, but she was also willing to mix things up and create a ceremony that was tailored to our unique vision. Nilou was also familiar with our venue and vendors, having worked with so many others in the industry before, so she communicated seamlessly with our DJ, wedding coordinator, photographer, and venue staff to make sure everything went smoothly the day of. As a result, we ended up with the most perfect ceremony we could have ever imagined. I've always kind of written off the ceremony part of weddings, not being much of a mushy romantic myself, but after our own wedding, I realized that the reason why I've experienced some very unmemorable ceremonies, was because they weren't officiated well. It has been a month since our wedding and we're still getting text messages and phone calls from guests saying that our ceremony was one of the best ceremonies they'd ever seen. And I know it wasn't because of our profound vows or anything, it's because Nilou put together a ceremony that was both touching and entertaining, meaning that our guests (and us) experienced tears, laughter, cultural education, hope, and love all within a 20 min ceremony. That takes a skill not everyone possesses. I'm so incredibly grateful for everything Nilou did to make our wedding memorable and special, and I could not recommend her more.

    We are so happy we found Nilou!! She made our ceremony dreams come true. My husband is Persian and we wanted to incorporate both Persian and traditional ceremony elements. With the guidance and expertise of Nilou our ceremony was even better then we could have imagined. Nilou met with us virtually three times before our wedding in Mexico. She guided us the whole way on various ceremony elements and how the ceremony would take place. She provided various options and incorporated all the elements of a Persian/traditional wedding. With both Persian and non Persian attendees Nilou translated the wedding in Farsi and English, explained many aspects of the ceremony to our guests and made us feel relaxed, comfortable and excited throughout the ceremony! We highly recommend Nilou! Our wedding would not have been the same without her! All of our guests told us how wonder she was and how amazing the ceremony was!

    Jessica M.

    What a beautiful ceremony it was, and it's all thanks to our lovely officiant Nilou. From the moment we met her we knew she was going to be one of our favorite guests at our ceremony. Nilou is very organized, detailed, and super sweet. We talked about three times before the wedding and we never stressed about the ceremony, because we knew she would guide us through the process. I'm mexican and my husband is iranian, and she knew exactly how to tie our different traditions together. The ceremony was absolutely perfect and everyone raved about how amazing Nilou was, and to add, very elegant. We loved that she was able to keep everyone's attention throughout our 35 minute ceremony. I would not change a things. If you are searching for a officiant don't look any further, because Nilou will help you with your dream ceremony. I can't thank her enough!!

    Atefeh T.

    I was looking for a wedding officiant for our tiny wedding during COVID, and when looking through yelp profiles I came across Nilou's and remembered that I actually had seen her in a friend's wedding 1-2 yrs ago and was impressed with her style, grace, and professionalism. I contacted her and luckily she was available for our wedding date.  We were so grateful for Nilou's level of enthusiasm, professionalism, and kindness in planning and executing our ceremony. She facetimed with us and asked our story and even kindly offered to set up a small Persian wedding ceremony table for us. She asked me detailed questions about my taste, the color of flowers, and my dress and my friends dress and came up with the nicest table suiting our small wedding. She was so attentive during our wedding and even did a bit of unofficial wedding planning, and helped us with details of stuff during our ceremony making sure everything was beautiful and perfect. She herself also has a great style and dresses super nice and classy which is a huge plus for wedding pictures! Overall she was an excellent choice for our wedding. We are planning to have a big wedding after corona is hopefully over and we will DEFINITELY ask her to be our wedding officiant for our second wedding as well. Thank you, Nilou!!

    Sara T.

    Our special day was exactly what we dreamed of thanks to Nilou. She went above and beyond to make sure everything was beautiful and perfect. We couldn't ask for a better planner.

    Aram S.

    Nilou performed our civil ceremony in May. I had seen her at a few friends' wedding before and I already like her a lot. She has a nice voice and is very good at reading poetry. Although I had seen her work before, it did not feel repetitive. She makes the ceremony feel personal and tailored to the couple. I highly recommend her. And the cherry on top: she is always very well dressed. She asked me what is the theme before the wedding and confirmed with me what she would wear.

    We had the pleasure of meeting Nilou joon at our friend's wedding last year and immediately fell in love with her elegance, style and speech. My husband is American, and while he has attended a lot of Persian weddings, he shared with me that this wedding ceremony was the most engaging, and he'd hire Nilou as our wedding ceremony officiant whenever we began wedding planning. Coincidentally, we got engaged exactly a week later and immediately hired her as there was no second thought! We found her to be incredibly professional, thoughtful and kind. We enjoyed our meetings with her and appreciated that she took the time to get to know us and include facts about us in her ceremony script. She was also very considerate, highlighting angles, poses and stances to ensure our pictures came out well throughout the ceremony. She was timely and quickly mailed in our wedding license - we have heard horror stories about officiants who fail to do this! Of most importance to us, Nilou led a beautiful ceremony, with the perfect amount of Persian/English, poetry and eloquence, which captivated our guests. They continue to rave about our ceremony and how they could listen to Nilou for hours. We are so appreciative of Nilou and could not have hired anyone better for the most important portion of our wedding day. Thank you so much Nilou joon!

    Perfectly blending Western and Iranian traditions
    Roshan P.

    Simply put: Nilou made our wedding fantastic. Having a mixed Persian/American wedding posed certain challenges for me and my spouse. Based on word of mouth, I knew our only choice for an officiant was Nilou. Our wedding guests were 50/50 Iranian and American, and literally EVERY SINGLE PERSON, young and old, Irooni and American, raved out our ceremony-- how fun, light and joyful it was. As a pretty low-key bride, I only had one or two check-ins with Nilou and somehow she managed to capture our personalities and facilitate an amazing ceremony. Certainly not an inexpensive option, but truly worth every penny. Thank you, Nilou jan, for everything! We will cherish the memories forever.

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