THE WORST! No maintenance of the cemetery, trees growing through headstone, knee high weeds on…read moreMemorial Day Weekend! impossible to decorate grave, must bring your own lawnmower and weed eater. Everyones loved ones deserve better. Veteran services place American flags on veterans graves, barely seen because of tall weeds. This occurs every year, calls don't get answered & the office is closed. A note on office door blaming rains, it rains every spring & over the past few years '24 & '25 they didn't plan or mow at all (hence the trees growing through graves). HORRIBLE!

we had a funeral here in the summertime. Everything was completely overgrown. There was no signs to…read moresay where the funeral was. I called the office. Someone said they stole all the signs and why did we not have maps to this site, unbelievably unprofessional. It's very sad. This is the only Jewish cemetery. This is completely so disrespectful

Great service with great food! The lunch specials are at a very good price! We find the dinner menu…read morevery reasonable for the amount of food they service you!

Terrible service. The personel are rude and they want to charge for anything and everything. They…read moredon't show any type of compassiom for the grieving family.

Cassandra and her team at Stanley's could not have been more accommodating and compassionate. She…read morelistened to our wishes, addressed our concerns and provided excellent recommendations. She was always available to assist. She went above and beyond to make sure we were well cared for. Cassandra is exceptional at what she does and was a blessing to our family during our loss.

Prompt, professional and compassionate are how I would describe the people and service received…read morefrom Stanley's. I'm thankful they were recommended and they lived up to their evaluation. I have nothing but praise for them!

Update: After I placed my review, the owner of the company reached out via personal rep and he took…read morecare of all the issues out of his own pocket. I greatly appreciate his response to the matter and getting the marker issue fixed for my family.

HORRIBLE!!! I DO NOT RECOMMEND!!!! My mother passed away in Tulsa & needed to be embalmed before…read morebeing shipped back home. They did not tie her hands together before embalming her, they did not remove any of the hospital bands, EKG stickers or tape. Jennifer Beaty told us that we didn't need to give them any clothes and that they would put a gown on her she did not mention that the gown she meant was the hospital gown she was in when she passed away. They also did not tie her down correctly when they shipped her so she was moving all around in the box. When my mother arrived back home she looked nothing like herself I didn't even recognize her. Jennifer's communication or lack thereof is HORRIBLE. I was supposed to be the one who she communicated with and she never reached out to me. She stated my mother would be shipped back home on a certain date and she was not and she did not communicate that with me I had to find out from a family member. They did not allow my stepdad to see my mother although when we met with Jennifer she said we could see her in a couple days if we wanted to. My stepdad called several times for days and they gave him the run around each time he called. We just had a HORRIBLE experience with Butler-Stumpff & Dyer. Only positive is that they were able to pick my mother up from the hospital within 2 hours of us contacting them.

Absolutely by far the best place for your loved one. We had a beautiful service and staff was…read moreextremely kind and caring. Thank you for everything

My wife Carrie Hert died from ovarian cancer while on hospice in January of 2025. They did an…read moreoutstanding job and was very compassionate and caring. I highly recommend them.

Dan and his team truly treat you like a member of their family. Dan has worked tirelessly side by…read moreside with me to ensure that my brother's service is ready. When I have been paralyzed by grief, he helps me take baby steps and removes barriers. He uses his expertise to make an unbearable situation more manageable. I cannot recommend his companies more highly or convert in words how grateful I am for his help.

Karie Schaudt is absolutely the most rude and unprofessional owner to deal with. Apparently, she…read moredoesn't need the business and referrals don't matter. Filed complaint with Oklahoma state funeral home board based on interaction. Talking with others found out this is a major trend with Schaudt's specifically Karie. Karie had a chance to reach out to rectify situation before complaint was filed with state. Karie shouldn't have gotten involved in family matters by making comments like the second service would be an "appropriate" service for my husband.

My brother passed suddenly and the hospice we used said this place was a great place to help until…read morewe could make arrangements. (They were shocked about the following information as well and had no idea of the expensive fee we incurred). Within 24hrs we called and had him transferred to a different crematory. Moore charged us 390.00 to release him to the other crematory. Our family as well as other crematories were shocked by this charge. Manipulating money from a grieving family. Unbelievable. We were never told of this hold and release fee or we'd definitely not use them. They did nothing but pick up and hold for 24 hrs and charged 390.00. That's very unethical not to disclose this kind of expense. A company 40 miles away would only charge 200 but Serenity doesnt charge at all and we're very compassionate. Moore is shady and definitely bad business. Sure they'll help and pick up your love one but if you dont use them for services expect to be emotionally and financially hit, and no they wont tell you that even less than 24hrs will cost 390.00 on top of all other funeral expenses you'll incur.

Dyer helped me coordinate viewing and cremation services for my loved one. They are knowledgeable,…read moreresponsive and compassionate. The go to funeral service in Tulsa.

This is the business that took care of Mrs. Tinsley's service at Antioch. I walked away from her…read moreservice organized by these folks more impressed than ever. Typically the funerals I go to have 2-3 people from the funeral home to drive the hearse and limo and to move the body in and out of the church. Most of these people are dressed nice but I can't help but notice they do what I would consider the bare minimum when it comes to service. Minimal work on an anouncement, no real participation during the service, etc. Watching Dyer work at Mrs. Tinsley's service was an eye opener. They had a minimum of 6-7 sharply dressed people working the service, being ushers, setting up the reception afterwards, shoot they even had an organist and singer there. The music was superb, the folks working were solemn but warm, and the whole thing ran clockwork smooth. The funeral home presented the family with a very nice plaque testimonial as well. I know the Tinsley's are not folks of means so I am sure they couldn't spend a whole lot but they sure got their money's worth with Dyer and Dyer did very well by them. If you are in Tulsa and in need of funeral services this would be a place I would call. Don't be put off by the north side address, great service is great service no matter the location.