THE WORST! No maintenance of the cemetery, trees growing through headstone, knee high weeds on…read moreMemorial Day Weekend! impossible to decorate grave, must bring your own lawnmower and weed eater. Everyones loved ones deserve better. Veteran services place American flags on veterans graves, barely seen because of tall weeds. This occurs every year, calls don't get answered & the office is closed. A note on office door blaming rains, it rains every spring & over the past few years '24 & '25 they didn't plan or mow at all (hence the trees growing through graves). HORRIBLE!

we had a funeral here in the summertime. Everything was completely overgrown. There was no signs to…read moresay where the funeral was. I called the office. Someone said they stole all the signs and why did we not have maps to this site, unbelievably unprofessional. It's very sad. This is the only Jewish cemetery. This is completely so disrespectful

Great service with great food! The lunch specials are at a very good price! We find the dinner menu…read morevery reasonable for the amount of food they service you!

Terrible service. The personel are rude and they want to charge for anything and everything. They…read moredon't show any type of compassiom for the grieving family.

Cassandra and her team at Stanley's could not have been more accommodating and compassionate. She…read morelistened to our wishes, addressed our concerns and provided excellent recommendations. She was always available to assist. She went above and beyond to make sure we were well cared for. Cassandra is exceptional at what she does and was a blessing to our family during our loss.

Prompt, professional and compassionate are how I would describe the people and service received…read morefrom Stanley's. I'm thankful they were recommended and they lived up to their evaluation. I have nothing but praise for them!

Update: After I placed my review, the owner of the company reached out via personal rep and he took…read morecare of all the issues out of his own pocket. I greatly appreciate his response to the matter and getting the marker issue fixed for my family.

HORRIBLE!!! I DO NOT RECOMMEND!!!! My mother passed away in Tulsa & needed to be embalmed before…read morebeing shipped back home. They did not tie her hands together before embalming her, they did not remove any of the hospital bands, EKG stickers or tape. Jennifer Beaty told us that we didn't need to give them any clothes and that they would put a gown on her she did not mention that the gown she meant was the hospital gown she was in when she passed away. They also did not tie her down correctly when they shipped her so she was moving all around in the box. When my mother arrived back home she looked nothing like herself I didn't even recognize her. Jennifer's communication or lack thereof is HORRIBLE. I was supposed to be the one who she communicated with and she never reached out to me. She stated my mother would be shipped back home on a certain date and she was not and she did not communicate that with me I had to find out from a family member. They did not allow my stepdad to see my mother although when we met with Jennifer she said we could see her in a couple days if we wanted to. My stepdad called several times for days and they gave him the run around each time he called. We just had a HORRIBLE experience with Butler-Stumpff & Dyer. Only positive is that they were able to pick my mother up from the hospital within 2 hours of us contacting them.

My folks had prepaid plans for 20 years. When my mother moved to Colorado they told her everything…read morewould be taken care of. When she passed away they complained that there wasn't enough money in her trust and told me that they didn't make any money off of prepaid plans and wished they didn't sell them. Right....they had her money for 20 years and didn't make any money. Don't buy a prepaid plan from them!

My situation was very different than a normal one. They…read morequoted me one price and then I got a bill for an additional $.

We just recently moved from Arkansas to Owasso & we just lost our nana. I have to say this is…read moreABSOLUTELY THE WORST FUNERAL HOME. Not even 24 hours after paying over $4,000 to hold a funeral at their facility, we're informed we can't have a video because we stated we didnt think we would be doing it. seeing as we just moved and don't know where the photos are. After going home to find that we did in fact have the pictures at our home we drove 30 mins out of our way after sending an email letting them know we would be bringing pictures to only find out they don't have time and won't be able to do it. moral of the story they didn't give us all of the information and put us in a shitty position. APRIL would be the one I would ask to not deal with. They got their money so they got what they needed. i highly recommend finding another funeral home.

They handled the cremation and the memorial service after my sister lost her battle with cancer…read more Jennifer was so very helpful and understanding, handling all of the paperwork and copies of the death certificate. She recommended Roger Shepherd to do the officiating for the service and he did an outstanding job. They allowed us to bring food for talking and meeting after the service. I would highly recommend them and they are also very affordable considering the cost of other funeral services in Tulsa. The chapel is at the same location with plenty of parking.

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Cemetery that is owned and run by the city. It looks like they cut it every couple of weeks and…read moreedge around the monuments every couple of months. You can walk over markers and not even know it. There are new monuments, so people are still being buried there. Maintenance of the markers is the responsibility of he families. Many are damaged and need leveling. Anyone looking to volunteer could probably get set up with the city to help care for the grass.