Dan and his team truly treat you like a member of their family. Dan has worked tirelessly side by…read moreside with me to ensure that my brother's service is ready. When I have been paralyzed by grief, he helps me take baby steps and removes barriers. He uses his expertise to make an unbearable situation more manageable. I cannot recommend his companies more highly or convert in words how grateful I am for his help.

Karie Schaudt is absolutely the most rude and unprofessional owner to deal with. Apparently, she…read moredoesn't need the business and referrals don't matter. Filed complaint with Oklahoma state funeral home board based on interaction. Talking with others found out this is a major trend with Schaudt's specifically Karie. Karie had a chance to reach out to rectify situation before complaint was filed with state. Karie shouldn't have gotten involved in family matters by making comments like the second service would be an "appropriate" service for my husband.

Absolutely by far the best place for your loved one. We had a beautiful service and staff was…read moreextremely kind and caring. Thank you for everything

My wife Carrie Hert died from ovarian cancer while on hospice in January of 2025. They did an…read moreoutstanding job and was very compassionate and caring. I highly recommend them.

service requested…read more while i'd not gone on the day i did, the day after memorial day, to request information for a gravesite, i'd took note that the map that moms had to the family grave sites we were adorning, that she got previously from the cemetery office, was quite useful in locating the tombstone of great uncle patrick, that of great grandma, and also the above ground cube containing adjacent slots with the remains of grandpa ron and grandma sherrie. the latter gravesite is located near a main building of the cemetary, and the two former sites are near a relatively large tree by the same main building. quality while some of the grass growing over the tomb of great grandma is indicative of an occasional infrequency of maintenance at gravesites, the aforementioned graves and slotted cube container were each in good condition. the cube slots were also convenient for placing the decorative imitation flowers, with the flowers from the last visit of momma still intact. and while the imitation lemon tree branch i'd placed at the grave of great uncle patrick was more difficult to put at the site, requiring placement in the ground, the area around the gravesites do allow for more decor and rememberance gifts. and though i'd not put an imitation lemon branch at the site before, i'm drawn to the symbolism of that decor as it connects to bitterness in the circumstance of his death being a childhood shooting fatality due in part to improper gun storage. nevertheless, i'm of the belief that the color alone, and greater picture of growing life contrasts with the potential bitterness symbolized by the gift. value although much of the service offered by the cemetery is pricelessly valuable, i'm glad there is no additional fee for visiting the grave of a family member.

I just wanted to thank Karen who helped through the most difficult time in my life in a very…read moreprofessional and caring way. I had no idea of all the details that I needed to do to have a funeral. Her calm approach may me not panic and just trust her. Thank you for helping me through this Karen.

Needs an update. Very dated and worn furniture…read more Disappointed in the floral affiliates that work with the funeral home. We had several comments on flowers were not what they ordered. Our was very sparse in the middle of the $200 spray. Julia was wonderful. Props to her Pastor Lacy was wonderful. God bless you !! Communication might need to be revisited and notes taken to follow through on what the families were told vs what was actually received. When you have lost a loved one, the last thing you need is to not get the items in your pre planned package.

As a family member and fellow funeral director, the only thing that…read more5th star I feel like not enough help was given to the processional had the widow and children parked where they were at least ten cars behind the hearse where they should have made sure they were directly behind hearse; they had to walk too far to get to the gravside

Cassandra and her team at Stanley's could not have been more accommodating and compassionate. She…read morelistened to our wishes, addressed our concerns and provided excellent recommendations. She was always available to assist. She went above and beyond to make sure we were well cared for. Cassandra is exceptional at what she does and was a blessing to our family during our loss.

Prompt, professional and compassionate are how I would describe the people and service received…read morefrom Stanley's. I'm thankful they were recommended and they lived up to their evaluation. I have nothing but praise for them!

The people are very supportive. The facilities are perfect.ccxxxxxxxxozzodxxxxxxxxxxxxread more

Nice facility with lots of parking. I was pretty upset when I initially visited this facility and…read moremade an appointment to meet with the funeral director. The lady in the office was very kind and probably used to people crying. By the time I met with the John Monzingo, the funeral director, I knew what I wanted. They have all the usual things available at a funeral home, I have to say, I wasn't interested in all the side show stuff. Mr. Monzingo got a pretty fast read on me and was very helpful putting together a plan for my final wishes. The only expense for my family will be opening and closing the grave, that is the only thing you can't prepay. I gave Mr. Monzingo a real laugh when we parted and he shook my hand, he said, " I hope to see you again." I said, "You will definitely see me again, I just hope I see you again!" Here I am two years later. :)

This is a LONG review. Please READ IT and share with loved ones…read more I feel it's important, for the sake of other families who are grieving from the loss a loved one, to post this review. I don't want any family to go through, what our family went through, with this Crematorium. Do not use this funeral home or crematorium! "Cremations Society of Oklahoma", located on 9120 Toledo Street in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is absolutely horrible. Their mishandling of our loved one, and the services we paid for, was incompetent, insensitive, unprofessional, and inexcusable. I am convinced the reviews, stating 5-stars, are paid for. Gatlyn, Kristine, and their other female employee, should not be in this business. We were grieving the sudden loss of our loved one. This was a time when we needed the help, knowledge, guidance, caring, and competence of a crematorium. They were impersonal, did not take care of important details on their end, which resulted in four major errors, that significantly added to our distress. This company "lost" our paperwork. We took time and care to select a beautiful gold and silver Urn, inscribed with my brother's name, date of birth, and date of passing (3/28/23) on it. Our paperwork was completed, and the services and Urn paid for. 1. His ashes showed up at my house, in a plastic box, with a sticker on it. Kristine made excuses- saying they must have wanted to "rush his ashes" to my home. She then, after checking, said they had no record of my purchased Urn. In fact, they could not find the order details, or the $2200 that we paid for. I provided my copy and payment records. 2. After finally accepting responsibility, with no apology or "I'm so sorry for this error", the wrong Urn was sent out. They then re-ordered the correct one, and re-sent it. 3. To make matters worse- the "date of death" was incorrect. 4. I still have not received the death certificate - 6 weeks after cremation. There has been no apology, compassion, or even a phone call from Gatlyn, the owner, since all of this happened. In fact, the last two text messages we shared, he put on "read". He never responded, when I asked for an estimate of how much longer it would be to receive my brother's death certificate. I ended up calling the State of Oklahoma myself, paying an additional $40 to overnight a copy of my brother's death certificate. These people are incompetent and don't even understand or explain, the Oklahoma laws relating to death certificates. I am also reporting them to the Better Business Bureau

Do not have your loved one cremated here. I had my dad cremated here and when they brought me his…read morecremains it had someone else's name on The box. They told me there's no way of knowing if I have my dad or someone else and there's nothing they can do.

Dad has been buried here a couple of years now and the place looks good. The staff appears to take…read moregood care of the grounds, the views around the cemetary are nice. Location is a bit out of the way but all in all a nice resting place for deceased relatives.

There is a chapel inside one of the mausoleums, it is available for funerals. I decided I didn't…read morewant my funeral here, there are folding chairs for about 50 people. It looks like it could hold more. I didn't like the feel or the smell of the chapel, I will not have my funeral here, it would creep out my friends. There are several very big mausoleums and places for ashes too. I had only looked at the cemetery part.