I went to Mizu yesterday, excited about getting my hair cut by an apprentice who had just finished advanced classes. I left an hour later, fighting back tears.
I met the apprentice, Judy, and explained that I'd had layers cut in my hair a year ago, but now they were all grown out and I wanted them redone. I said, emphatically, that I did NOT want much taken off the back. I explained to her (as I've explained to every stylist that I've seen in the last several years) that I know that the back of my hair is uneven, but that it isn't because I don't take good care of my hair or cut it enough, but because my hair falls out, a lot, from the roots, and that I think it's caused by a thyroid problem. Usually, when I tell a stylist this, they pretend to listen and then launch into a patronizing speech about how I need to cut my hair more often, because otherwise, the splits will travel up the hair shaft causing the hair to split, blah, blah, blah...Judy at least seemed to take me seriously. I had my hair washed and then Damian, the supervisor/senior stylist came over and Judy explained to him what she was going to do.
Damian commented on the length of time since I'd last had my hair cut. I said that I cut my split ends. Damian laughed and said, "Oh, you cut it YOURSELF", with the air of, "Oh, you poor, silly, retarded child, thinking you could actually cut your own hair". Now, I am not an idiot...I do not randomly hack away at my hair with a pair of dull, rusty craft scissors. I have a pair of hair-cutting scissors that are used only to cut hair. Once to several times a week, I go through my hair, painstakingly, section by section, and cut any split that I find. Therefore, the splits do not travel up the length of my hair. Of course, Damian then launched into the speech about getting my hair cut more often, because otherwise the splits will blah, blah. I should've gotten up out of the chair and left right then and there.
The haircut commenced and immediately Judy started trying to persuade me to cut more than I wanted, talking about how much fuller it would look. I agreed to letting her cut a little more, but then held my hand under my chest and said, "I don't want it any shorter than this". Long story short (too late, I know), my hair is a good 2 inches shorter than that. Actually, only the very longest part of my hair in the very back (since it's kind of u-shaped) is 2 inches shorter, most of my hair is MUCH much shorter! 2 inches = 4 months to grow back! I was so upset I practically had to bite my tongue not to cry and/or scream and/or curse. I left in a rage.
When I got home, I realized something else about this horrible haircut. Although my hair overall is too short, the layers that frame my face are actually much too long! I had wanted to be able to pull my hair back into a ponytail or put it up and leave a tendril out on each side to make it look softer and prettier. Well, I can't. The layers around my hairline (forehead to temple) are ridiculously long - 2 to 4 inches below my chin! - so I can't do it. I tried and the layers are too long, blunt, and choppy, so it looks ridiculous! This is not (as the post on SalonApprentice.com said) "a $300 haircut for $20". This is a $20 haircut. I 1st had layers cut in my hair 2 years ago. David Groshen at Face Station did it and it looked fab. That was a $100 haircut that looked like a $300 haircut. A year later, I had the layers redone by an apprentice at Salon Ziba and it looked fab. That was a FREE haircut that looked like a $300 haircut. A year later, I went to Mizu and now I hate my hair.
I am SO over Manhattan salons with their smug, superior, we-know-your-own-hair-better-than-you-do/we-know-what's-best-for-you attitudes. A few years ago, I wanted to get my hair trimmed but didn't want to be talked into a drastic haircut by a pushy, know-it-all stylist or pay an exorbitant fee just to get a 1/2 inch or inch cut off my hair. I went to a little, unassuming, unisex barbershop in my neighborhood that had a sign outside advertising $8 haircuts. I told the barber, "I know my hair is a little uneven, but I only want this much cut". The guy cut what I told him to and no more. I gave him $8 and a tip and walked away happy. The thing this barber understood that the know-it-alls on Park and Lex Aves. can't seem to grasp is that, when a client is paying you to perform a service for them, YOU DO WHAT THE CLIENT ASKS. You do not cajole or pressure the client into doing what you want them to do, and you certainly don't just ignore their request and do what you want! YOU DO WHAT THE CLIENT WANTS!
It's been almost 36 hours since I had my hair cut and I am still so angry I could punch someone. Every time I look in a mirror I want to cry. They did not f up my hair for a day or a week or a month, they f'd up my hair for MONTHS to come! I have to live with this every day. It's not even Winter yet and my hair won't be a length I'm at least somewhat happy with until Spring. read more