Last night - Thursday, Jan. 15, 2015, I ate at Manna's Soul Food Restaurant ... the location on W. 126 Street & Fredrick Douglas Boulevard.
As I was eating my food, which is almost always DELICIOUS, a family with a little girl (about 5-7 years old) was leaving. As the family placed on their coats a man from outside came in and one employee told another employee "YOU KNOW THIS GUY WANTS TO TALK TO YOU?".
The other employee replied: " I DON'T WANT TO TALK TO THIS MOTHER F - -- ... HE'S A DUMB ASS, ETC........
This same employee carried on for a minute with this language - mind you the family with this little girl were at a table right in-front of the employee's table.
The family hurried up out of their and was VERY upset to hear such language being used by a staff member of MANNA'S - especially while said employee was on the clock and showed NO RESPECT the the little girl in front of him.
When the family left "I" stated to the employee that he showed no respect to that family nor their little girl. I further stated that as an employee of MANNA'S he showed NO RESPECT to the business nor its ownership using such profanity while working on the clock.
This employee told me: "YOU NEED TO MIND YOU BUSINESS BECAUSE PEOPLE GET SHOTS OVER SHIT LIKE THIS."
Now, for those those of you who KNOW ME, I had two choices to react to such a comment/threat. I took the option to finish my food. while doing so this idiot ran his mouth for 3-4 minutes with a FLEET of profanity from "FUCK YOU NIGGA. I DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT YOU .. to JUST MIND YOU FUCKING BUSINESS HOMEBOY'.
I was getting VERY annoyed with his mouth, his usage of language of profanity to ME and the massive level of DISRESPECT from him to me.
Thereafter I had to inform this employee that their is no punk here. *** On "HIS LEVEL" I could not allow him to think that I was scared of hm nor intimidated.
I only drew one conclusion and that was to close his mouth for him - which I truly have NO problem doing with all of this crap coming from him. I am more than capable of doing so. So I got up and looked at him. I wanted him to say just ONE WORD to me.
This employee must have felt the rage from me, my vibe & my spirit. I was going to do was to close his mouth. Fortunately it did not get to that. He looked at me and remained quiet as a church mouse.
I stood there for about 30 seconds & eye-balled him. He said NOTHING. So I left.
Sometime you can let things go.
Sometimes you have to address a problem to let it be known to the problem that you ar4e no child and you will FULLY take care of your business. If you don't, sometimes the problem will continue the next you come in here to eat.
I refused to allow this idiot to think that "I" was scared.
I refused to allow this idiot to feel that he could continue to run his foul-mouth about ME from that point on for any time he would see me.
i could just see it now. If I came in to eat on the following day he would more-than-certainly say OUT LOUD: THERE IS THAT PUNK, SISSY OR WHATEVER HE WOULD WANT TO SAY misjudging my meekness for weakness.
Folks, the food is DELICIOUS but something NEEDS to be done about that employee.
The owner needs to this employee go.
For what happened to me ... could have happened to the WRONG person.
What if that employee ran his mouth of to someone who does NOT care about life and was armed with a gun. What if that employees said the same thing to someone who was not slow to anger?
What if that employee spoke like that to someone who really could care less about going to jail. Saying all of that to someone who had a bad day, short tempered and carrying a gun? That could have been a fatal situation with the wrong person. No telling what could have happened to incident patrons.
We all think about WHAT WE WOULD DO in various situations.
Driving in your car someone could cut you off. you might THINK about knocking them off the road or over the bridge - - - however,it is a thought. A thought of reaction. You may not really do it.
I had "thoughts" too.
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