Look. I've been going to Kulshan Brewing since I turned 21--FOURTEEN YEARS ago. I've been there through all stages of life: newly 21, figuring out if I even liked beer; trivia night with my college friends, home for the holidays; post-college life, going to get beers with my dad and realizing he was actually my best friend; living two blocks away and walking to the brewery multiple nights a week after work; moving away from Bellingham and making Kulshan a must-do stop anytime I came for a visit. I buy Kulshan beer whenever I see it in stores in my new city. I own pins and mugs and tee shirts. I've been drinking Kulshan beer since the time when there was just one location. I have been a loyal, enthusiastic Kulshan fan for a DECADE AND A HALF.
But now, I'm in yet another phase of life: parenthood. What a gift it is to have breweries in this world. To have a place where adults can continue to gather in community after having children. Where families can exist in the world together. Or at least, that's how it should be, right? Especially in a place that advertises itself as family-friendly and positions itself as a pillar in the community.
Today, I went to the original Kulshan location in Sunnyland, with my two year-old. It's my birthday weekend and I had just over 24 hours to spend in Bellingham. In those limited hours, Kulshan was once again on the must-do list. So I brought my son there, eager to feel that sense of community and home that I have loved for so many years. Unfortunately, that was not to be. I had one beer while my son ran around and let other patrons' dogs lick his face, and then was asked to leave by the bartender. I was not given a reason except that, "Other customers were complaining." I'm unsure what they were complaining about, since the only customers I talked to: a) complimented my son's tomato outfit, b) talked about how parenting is the best thing they've ever done, and c) brought their dogs up to my son because their dogs "love kids". Not a single person expressed discomfort or upset. My child didn't disturb anyone or break/damage any property. He exclaimed loudly, once, but the only comments afterwards from other patrons were jokes about how he should be cut off from drinks.
Anyone who has had a toddler understands that it is a very busy and chaotic time of life. Wouldn't it be nice if people offered some grace and humor and support and understanding, instead of behaving in such a way that further isolates people who have taken on the already-impossibly-difficult task of growing the next generation of decent human beings? Instead of experiencing that support today--after YEARS of supporting Kulshan as a business, from both near and far away--my family was rejected.
Needless to say, I am angry. I am so disappointed in my experience today and I wish that weren't the case. I have loved Kulshan for many years. But not today. read more