To be frankly honest, if I can give this academy a negative 5000 star I would. And Mr. Wheeler and Laura I would like you to know if I can sue you for emotional abuse I would.
From grade 5- grade 9, I was baited into the academy, by well laura as you guys have already seen in the comment section. Through my 4 years here, I was severely bullied by the teachers and verbally harassed. I was told my accent will lower my speaker score, how I was never good enough at debate, and how I never contributed to the team because I didn't have any big wins. Multiple times, I was asked to practice speech by myself with a chopstick in my mouth facing the wall while the entire class is still happening. This caused me years of mental illness and at one point I even had to stop debate because this affected my confidence and speaking skill so much.
When I made it to one of the biggest debate competitions in Salt Lake City trying to prove myself to the coaches, instead of telling me congratulations on being the only team that moved up. Mr. Wheeler walked away after telling me that he is surprised and is not going to help me because quote "wow you are the last person I expected to win and I'm not gonna help you for this round cause you are probably going to lose" No one from the academy updated my mom on my success (keep in mind they literally have a newspaper that is dedicated to updating parents on student progress) and laura even told many parents that I simply moved up to national that year because I got lucky and the competition was rigged. I was told that I shouldn't have gone up and was taking opportunities from their top team aka. favorite students. therefore after I had this conversation, I moved my ass and left the academy.
I really loved debate when I started, and frankly I was pretty good at it too. But after being at Kudos, because of the constant belittling and bullying, I didn't want to put in work anymore for a bunch of "teachers" who supposedly cared about me. They truly made me hate speech and debate not because of the activity itself but because of the horrible memories and emotions that connect with it. I want to warn anyone who wants to join Kudos, if you want to send your kids to a sexist, racist, and unethical academy and receive an insecure, not confident, unhappy and depressed kid who 100% hates debate, then you've found the right place. If not, then run far away from Kudos.
Lastly, to Kudos, (this is my personal speech to them)
Hi Laura and Mr. Wheeler, words cannot express how you've ruining debate and my confidence. You've turned a previously enjoyable activity to hell for me. I hope you the worst, I hope no students ever come to you and that you'll never get a chance to ruin another child's dream. You don't deserve to be a coach and Laura, I hope you go bankrupt and lose all the money that you've made sucking on children's souls.
Lastly, I came on to yelp to say this after 4 years of healing and working on myself I've realized that I don't need Kudos to build confidence and that I wasn't the one that sucked, it was them. Toodles. read more