I thought I should share what happened to my toddler in hopes of preventing it from happening to another child
My 3-year-old son almost drown during swim lessons. He was attending swim lessons through Escondido Recreation at the James a stone pool a 2 weeks ago. During his second class, another student pushed my son off the underwater platform submerging him underwater. His teacher was swimming around with another child. His teacher didn't notice nor did the two other lifeguards standing just above him. They don't allow parents inside the gate during class so I had to shout at the top of my lungs as I rushed to him, for someone to get him. Still nothing, it wasn't until the second time I shouted before his teacher saw and picked him up from under the water. I know with certainty had I not been watching him, he would have drowned that day. I told them it was unacceptable how long he was underwater and none of them noticed. I told them they all dropped the ball and that they all have an important job and when they drop the ball they put our kids' lives at stake. One of the lifeguards told me I can't talk to him like that, I wasn't his mom. Then threatened to call 911 on me. I'm a mom of 5, it felt like I was talking to a bunch of indifferent teenagers unwilling to acknowledge what happened or apologize. I called the aquatics supervisor at city hall. Who is new to the city of Escondido. She talked with her lifeguards and told me my son was never underwater. I told her the shallow end is 3.5ft deep and my son is a little over 2.5ft. When he was pushed off the platform he was submerged. It would be impossible for him to reach the bottom and keep his head above water. She told me to just forget about that detail. If they can't take responsibility how can they make the necessary changes to keep our kids safe. I worry that it's a tragedy waiting to happen. Drownings are the leading cause of accidental deaths in children under 5. Thank you for taking the time to read this. read more