We retained Melinda's service to help plan a wedding celebration from 3000 miles away. With a lot of moving parts, and our very busy lives on the East Coast, the process was a daunting challenge. Melinda came through in every way. Every single detail was perfect and the celebration was magical. She was a valuable resource for all of the non-event details, helping us coordinate numerous outside activities. On the day of our celebration, she was a whirlwind of activity, and not a single detail was missed. She was also a lot of fun. We don't plan on ever having another wedding celebration, but you should seriously consider her. We were very grateful for everything she did and can't thank her enough. read more

I gave Melinda a really hard ask: minimal time and make it perfect. We didn't know how long the Groom's father would be with us so we moved our date up to guarantee he could attend. Melinda was in constant communication. She attended my bridal gown appointment, checked out possible venues with me and managed the vendors on our behalf. On the day she set up the venue, greeted our guests and readied my Groom and I to walk down the aisle. Both of our families were in awe of her. She easily mixed and mingled with our guests then seamlessly called them into photoshoots or dinner as needed. We couldn't have done it without her. When I stepped into wedding planning I could only tell Melinda what I didn't like. With her professionalism and endless enthusiasm she somehow distilled it down into everything I loved. I will be recommending Melinda for event planning and coordination from now on, whether it's weddings or otherwise. read more

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Highly Dedicated Coordinator, arrived early morning and was on top of things. Work well with vendors and kept the flow going. Great positive attitude and had a smile even in the hot sun. Would recommend Highly for events. read more

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I have to say Melinda was so great to work with, very professional, such a pleasure to work with! As a florist and rental company owner/vendor, it's always great to work with an event planner that is positive, professional and approachable! Thank you Melinda for making this last wedding a very successful one! Hope to work with you again! Aylin Landaverry's In Bloom read more

Wow, where do I even begin. When I first started wedding planning back in the beginning of 2019, I remember reading on a wedding page that having a day-of-coordinator was an absolute MUST. I came across Melinda as one of our venues preferred vendors. I called her and received in depth, on-the-spot detail of her services and responsibilities as a coordinator. After one conversation, I was immediately drawn to Melinda's energy, attention to detail, and passion. After solidifying a contract with her, we found out we needed to postpone like many others, due to covid. Melinda seamlessly transferred to our new wedding date with no questions asked. As the big day approached, Melinda was a great communicator and support system. She answered any questions I had about how things should go, and gave great insight on things that hadn't even crossed my mind. Communicating with Melinda was transparent and natural. There was no pressure or push to do things a certain way. She made me feel comfortable and confident our day was going to be absolutely perfect, and that is exactly what it was. Melinda is a confident and reliable leader. My husband and I come from loud, wild Italian/Palestinian families and our friends are pretty nuts too. We needed someone strong and assertive to run our rehearsal. Melinda was on time, organized, and led our group of 20+ through the walks/turns etc. We had no idea what to expect with the rehearsal, and she completely exceeded our expectations. Both of our parents were in awe at how well she ran the show. Out of all of my vendors, Melinda is my number one recommendation, as she by far made our wedding day everything we could have ever dreamed of and more. One part of our wedding I was really nervous about was my sweetheart table, as I didn't have time to put together a vision for it. Our sweetheart table completely blew me out of the water with how beautiful it looked. Its been 3 weeks since our wedding and I still can't stop going back to look at picture of it. In addition to this, she made sure all of my special touches were placed beautifully for the welcome table, desserts, etc, and even added some of her own in honor/in memory of my mom. Her love and care pours into her work. I feel lucky to have crossed paths with Melinda and have her beside us for the best day of our lives. Thank you Melinda. #FinallyFreij read more

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Before having to close my flower shop due to a health diagnosis, I worked with In the Moment on several events. I can say as a colleague that struggled with communication with several local planners, Melinda delivers for the bride while keeping a strong bond with her vendors. That's important for brides to know when they are putting their faith in somebody to make their day perfect with little or no stress. In the Moment delivers their brides AND her vendors "no stress." I'd give her 10 stars if I could read more

Wow! Impressive, detailed and laser focused on perfection. Melinda's team works so hard to make your celebration memorable. I am very impressed with the team and how creative everyone was. The entire team is so committed to their roles and making a celebration perfect. We really appreciate everything they did for our family. I will use the team again for another event, no doubt. read more

It was fantastic working the Melinda at a wedding this weekend.. She has an amazing energy and focus, and always maintains a reassuring presence and has all the details under control.. As the DJ/MC for this wedding, I highly recommend working with Melinda!.. read more

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Melinda is incredible. A day-of planner that was guiding us months before the day. Her vendor recommendations were top notch, and enthusiasm for making everything perfect was icing on the cake. The day could not have gone any smoother, it was very clear she knows what she is doing and coordinated everything perfectly. 100% would recommend. read more

We hired Melinda as a day of wedding planner and from the time that we met her until the wedding day, Melinda was ready for any challenge and was happy to put her heart into making our wedding day effortless for not only my mom and I, but everyone else; and that is exactly what she did. On the day of the wedding, my mom and I were both able to relax and take it all in because Melinda was able to handle everything! She ran around all day taking care of the vendors and all of the big/small details including: setting up props, getting family members down to their seats, showing vendors where to set up, and making sure everything was on a timeline and got done! Melinda is full of energy and ideas and that is exactly what you need when planning a wedding! She is constantly thinking of great ideas that you wouldn't have ever thought of. If you want your wedding day to be free of stress and you want to be able to enjoy every minute, I highly recommend hiring Melinda for your big day! Plus her prices are amazing for how much she puts into your day! She gets stuff done and doesn't mess around! She is always on time to appointments and is great with communication, which is exactly what you need when planning a wedding! She's awesome and she helped make our day perfect! read more

You hear the horror stories on a daily basis...what is supposed to be the biggest and happiest day of your life,  goes horribly wrong. Why? Because you didn't hire the right coordinator. You figured you could save a few bucks and do it yourself. Or perhaps your friend who is uber organized can pull it off. Not so much. Its not a party, its not a gathering, IT IS YOUR WEDDING! As a wedding photographer who has shot well over 100 weddings, I've witnessed just about every scenario; the drunk brother, the lost rings, late vendors, even a forgotten wedding certificate. What I haven't seen though, or hadn't until I had the pleasure of working with Melinda is seeing someone handle all those issues (true story btw) with such grace, ease and amazingly charming personality. You would hope every coordinator is organized, so that should be a given. But what you can't assume is a personality fit. A passion for their craft. And above all, for someone to love your wedding day as much as you do. In Melinda you have that, no doubt. I wish i were better with words so that I may properly convey the importance in having such a talented and caring coordinator by your side on your big day. But don't take my word on it, just give her a call and meet with her. Interview her like you would anyone else you would hire. Then you can come back and tell me i was wrong....but you won't! You're gonna love her, you'll agree once you call her and set up the meeting. read more

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Mel is awesome and a pleasure to work with. Very detail oriented service. On time, friendly and full of personality. I highly recommend this service. read more

We would absolutely recommend using Melinda to help plan your wedding or special occasion. As a vendor we worked together in John and Jaime's wedding. We always had excellent communication ech other to ensure everything runs perfectly. read more

MELINDA IS AMAZING!!!!! I am not one to ever write reviews, but I had to write this one and rave about Mel. I hired her as my day of coordinator 3 months before the wedding and she was so available and willing to help me months leading up to the big day. Not only is she truly passionate and "in the moment", she is amazing at her craft. She is fun, high energy, but can also crack the whip when she needs to. My entire bridal party was very impressed by her ability to command a room without being overwhelming. She truly understands your vision and works at such a high level of detail that nothing in your wedding is ever missed. I felt so comfortable letting go of everything knowing that Mel was there to take care of it all. I wish I could do the day all over again because it truly was stress free with her as my coordinator. I HIGHLY Recommend her for any event that you have! read more

Fabulous... Wonderful... Incredible... AMAZING!!! Melinda- Seriously, how do you care so much about your clients... you treated ours better (as good) as family. SO authentic. You are gifted. Talent. Your work ethic is second to none........ I'm so thankful to have worked with you on my special day. Blessings! read more

Melinda is AMAZING!!! She is everything you could ever ask for from a day-of-coordinator, and much, much more. She's organized, energetic, directive, creative, smart, and an overall very kind person. She answered all of our wedding day questions, and made coordinating with all our vendors an absolute breeze. She takes full control as soon as she steps foot into a room, and she brings a confident and comforting energy as she goes about making sure that all is in place on the big day! Melinda is THE reason that my husband and I were able to host the wedding of our dreams! Thank you Melinda for helping us be "in the moment" on our very special day!!! We will never forget everything you did to make it happen! read more

I am a wedding photographer and had the privilege of both working with Mel side by side as photographer and coordinator AND also hired her as day of coordinator for my wedding. From beginning to end, Mel is amazing and puts in 150% love, effort, and care into all her weddings. She will meet and chat with you all throughout the whole process via email, text, phone. She is so responsive and always so willing to assist in any way and makes great suggestions for all things necessary when planning your wedding. She keeps it real and will also let you know what's costly and not. Not only does she set everything up beautifully, but she will also take into consideration so many other things such as safety. On my wedding day, the rental folks set up the dance floor unsafely and she made sure that they redid it perfectly. She gets sh*t done!!!!!! At the wedding I worked with her on, she handled all the drunk guests and groom with so much grace. During both the rehearsal and on the wedding day, she was so great with all my family members and friends. Everyone said it was like she was part of the family. She will make sure everything goes according as planned, but will also be the one who at the end of the night is dancing with you and doing the nae nae with the kids on the dance floor. We love her. I recommend her to all my wedding clients and all my friends. No need to bother shopping around for another wedding coordinator. She is your girl. She can handle anything! read more

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Great to work with Melinda. I received a call from her a month before the wedding in which she introduced herself and briefly let me know where things were at with the timeline. As a videographer I really appreciated this since I did want to mention a few things to her. Melinda was friendly and professional and followed this call up with another call a few days before the wedding. By this time we had the timeline and were able to iron out some details all on the phone. The day of the wedding I felt like we had already worked together. She was helpful and took care of not just me but my second shooter and assistant. Everything ran as smooth as things can run on a wedding and we even had fun. Melinda is funny and sweet and a joy to work with. I will definitely work with her and In The Moment Event Service again. read more

Melinda is a fireball of energy and will put all of her energy towards your event. She was able to help our wedding go very smoothly even though we hired her only a couple months before the event (though I would recommend signing her up sooner!). I'm grateful we were able to have her for our wedding day and you will be too! read more

Melinda Rowe is without a doubt the best wedding planner ever. If you are looking for someone who will think of everything without stressing you out before the big day, Melinda is your girl. Some of the problems she troubleshooted at my wedding include the following: Groomsmen brawl the night before the wedding Planning the walk down the aisle Coordinating with vendors (main reason why I was stress free!) Family drama Getting my wedding band on the phone (they would never call me back!) Offering stress relief aides Dealing with my bridesmaids Bridal Emergency bag!!! And much much more! She also had in depth knowledge about wedding etiquette which was very helpful. She is very personable, high energy, and always has a positive attitude. She did my wedding at zosa estate in Escondido in January 2015 and worked with me while I was living in Alaska trying to plan my wedding. She is worth every penny. If I had to go back in time, I would definitely hire her again. Future brides, listen up. You can do it yourself and be a mess of stress, or you can enjoy your day with your husband and let Melinda worry about the details. 8 months after the big day, I am still happy with my decision and know that my day wouldn't have gone as smoothly without her. read more

Melinda was our Day-of-Wedding Coordinator, but it's tough to say "Day-of" because she made herself readily available all throughout the months leading up until our wedding. She is exactly what you would want in a coordinator - assertiveness, energy, and experience. Throughout all of the chaos and stress that goes on with planning for a wedding, her cheerful personality becomes contagious as she reminds you that this is supposed to be a fun time in your life. Melinda exceeded our expectations and was the perfect fit for our wedding! She proposed creative ideas, kept our vendors updated, made several trips to the site prior to the big day, and made sure everything went smoothly! And even though it rained the day-of, she quickly adjusted and made everything run seamlessly. If you're looking for a wedding coordinator, we highly recommend Melinda! We are so happy that we found her and had her be a part of our special day! read more

Melinda wore herself out for us and offered to pick things up all over town for us in the weeks prior to the wedding. She is a very willing ball of energy! Bring her your list of wants from ceremony seating to the bride's room to the reception for her to execute and she will add her own suggestions too. Have some of your own willing friends and family there to help back her up for larger weddings. It is a HUGE job!!! Thank you, Melinda! read more

I have worked with Melinda & In The Moment twice now and look forward to the day I get to work with them again. I have a smile on my face as I type this review. Why? Because that's how refreshing it is to work with her. She is quick to respond whether it's by phone, email or text. I like that she texts back so quickly. The day of the event she is moving pretty quickly. She's all over the place making sure everything is just perfect. And if you have a question she stops what she's doing, looks at you with a smile and ask how she can help. So helpful! So, if you're looking for a coordinator with experience, is quick to respond, works your event as though it were her own and has a smile on her face while doing it then do yourself a favor and hire In The Moment. read more

So I just got married 2 months ago. I was hesitant about getting a coordinator because of the price but when I came across Melinda's services I gave her a call and I honestly did not call any other service. Her prices were unbeatable, I chose the 30 day wedding coordination service but let me tell you - she answered all of my phone calls, texts and emails even 1 year in advance. 30 days prior to the big day she took the reins on all of the coordination, she reached out to every single one of my 15 vendors and planned their arrival times. She created a day of timeline for the groomsmen, bridesmaids and family which made the day go by so smoothly. She coordinated the entire ceremony with 20+ people involved. The day of she showed up bright and early and was grinding so hard. I gave her all of my decorations and asked her to just put them wherever she felt it was best. She decorated all of my tables better than I could have ever imagined. She set up my entire seating chart, flower arrangements and even kept the biggest smile on her face throughout. At times when I was overwhelmed with emotion she would make me laugh and forget about all of the stress. Melinda became not only our "coordinator" but one of my husband and I's best friends. Her attitude is so positive and amazing. She is probably the best person for this job. She really loves her clients and what she does and it shows in the day of. Our wedding was the best day of our lives and I am so grateful for everything Mel did for us because it was her help that made that day so special for us. You absolutely must hire Mel for helping you coordinate your wedding! read more

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Where do I even start? Melinda is an amazing person. She's awesome at her job and she really takes the stress out of planning a wedding. We hired her a long ways away from our wedding date and she was there for us every time we needed her. She made great recommendations in vendors and decor planning. She gave us great tips in budgeting so we didn't over spend too. Rehearsal dinner she really took the jitters out of everyone and really made it a fun day by lightening up the mood. Day of the wedding she was just so calm and her mood really stuck around on everyone. I was doing great b/c Melinda was so calm day of. She made sure everything went according to schedule and my wedding was only 10min behind schedule due to another vendors fault but Melinda made sure everything was still on time and we were back on track. I wish I could have another wedding just to have her do it all over again. Thanks again for making our day so special Melinda! Love Mr. & Mrs. Correia! read more

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Everything that's being said about Melinda in the previous reviews is completely accurate! She takes everything on from the moment you hire her, and she really shines when she completely runs your rehearsal and day of! All you have to do is enjoy and she's make sure everything runs according to the plan you had previously set up. She'll leave you and your partner saying what would be have done without Melinda?? read more

Melinda is awesome! I was another vendor for a wedding (makeup and hair) and Melinda made such a great impression on myself and my assistant! She was highly prepared (even had an emergency kit!) and did her best to make sure the bride was relaxed and taken care of. As a makeup artist/stylist, I appreciated the fact that the bride was calm and focused, which allowed me to do my job well! I highly recommend her! read more

We used Melinda for my son's wedding at theTorrey Pines Hilton. She did an Amazing job. The rehearsal and day of event went very smoothly thanks to Melinda's suggestions and exceptional attention to detail. She does a tremendous job working with vendors, hotel staff, guests and wedding participants. We are all so glad we elected to use Melinda. As a result were able to enjoy the wedding knowing Melinda had everything under control. I highly recommend her and will definately use her again! read more

Melinda is the best! We had a big wedding and she had everything handled to a T. Every detail was perfect from the decorations, lighting, vendors, timeline. Everything was on point! She made it look easy but I know it wasn't. I hear that the bride and groom always stress day of and I didn't have a care in the world because I knew Melinda had it covered! I actually didn't see her during the wedding but every time I needed something, poof, there she was! Thank you so so so much Melinda! Our special day was perfect thanks to you!! read more

Mel was the Most Valuable Player at my son's and daughter-in-law's wedding this month (August 2021)! She took the heat with the florist, the baker, and several wedding guests and helped make this day of my loved ones' future together shine! From the beginning, Mel (the "Chaos Coordinator") was friendly yet assertive, exactly as you would want someone you have put in charge of running the show. She understood the process and directed the rehearsal, running through the ceremony details until all parties were comfortable. Her confident and matter-of-fact approach was reassuring. It was impressive that she had helped hundreds of couples with their weddings, and that she was so familiar with the venue (the Pala Mesa Resort). Mel was respectful of the bride's and groom's wishes in every way; she met with them several times and knew exactly what they wanted and expected on their big day. Armed with a schedule, notes about people and events, and copies of all their contracts with vendors, she was a powerful ally and advocate who never stopped working to make the day run smoothly. Her goal was to ensure that they had the perfect wedding - and it worked! Mel gave my son and his beautiful bride, my new daughter, a beautiful gift: the opportunity to truly experience their wedding day without worry about all the details and without any mishaps ruining the moment. I recommend Mel with TEN STARS and my whole heart. She is a gift to bridal parties - and to humanity. read more

If I could give Melinda 100 stars, I would! That's how awesome she is! We had our wedding this past weekend at Pala Mesa Resort in Fallbrook. I found Melinda last minute as recommended by the venue. She responded pretty quickly, I contacted her on Friday, we met in person the following Monday, wedding was that Saturday. She was our "day of coordinator" but as soon as we hired her, she contacted all my vendors, she worked on the timeline, she was readily available for me anytime of the day or night via text or phone call. Right off the bat, she was energetic, she was excited about our wedding even though I had just met her. As we went through the details of the wedding, she gave me the perfect recommendations and solutions, she knew exactly what she was doing. She is funny but honest and direct to point. The rehearsal and Wedding went seamless, everything was perfect. I was not stressed at all knowing that Melinda had everything under control. All of our family and friends who witnessed her in action were very impress by her work ethic. Even after the wedding was over, she checked back with me a few times to see how everything else are going with my other vendors. I definitely recommend her to ALL the brides out there, her rates are very reasonable for the amount of work, time and effort she puts into making your big day the best it could possibly be. She was the best decision I ever made as far as our wedding was concerned, I only wish I would've found her sooner! So what are you waiting for? you better call her NOW! =) p.s. I have not written a review in YEARS, but I just have to do it, that's how happy I am about her service! read more

I had my wedding 8/18/18 so this review is long over due. MEL and her beautiful crew, husband Tony and Jen had made my wedding magical in every way. Above and beyond customer satisfaction, professionalism and love put into this event magnificently. My husband, groomsmen, bridal party and I are grateful for their service. I can't thank them enough read more

When I got engaged, I immediately began planning my wedding. I felt that I could handle everything on my own. I am a perfectionist and I wanted to be a being a hands-on bride. I did not think that anyone, including a wedding planner, would be able to execute my vision as well as I could. Since I was having a casual wedding, I figured it would be easy for me to coordinate my own wedding on the day-of. Boy was I wrong. On the insistence of my family members, I met with Melinda to see if a day-of coordinator would be beneficial. I immediately connected with Melinda and knew she would be able to take care of everything that we needed. Looking back, I would have been crazy NOT to have Melinda. There is no way that I could have set up and coordinated my wedding on the day-of. Melinda made everything go so smoothly. The rehearsal and the wedding were executed perfectly. Melinda stayed in contact with me leading up to my wedding. She was always checking in and ensuring that I was taken care of. She stayed in contact with my vendors and ensured that they were in the loop. She ran the rehearsal the day before my wedding. She made sure it flowed smoothly. She was the perfect balance of fun and seriousness. Of course, my wedding day was an elaborate production and Melinda handled it flawlessly. I do not know what I would have done without her. EVERYONE that came into contact with Melinda loved her. They not only loved her personality, but they loved how organized, creative, and experienced she was. You need her in your life! read more

Cow By Bear and I recently had the pleasure of working with Melinda at a gorgeous wedding in Del Mar. This is not something we normally do, but Bear made a very special exception and prepared a decadent meal for all the guests. Melinda made sure she had every little detail the bride wanted, nailed down. From the bar to the lighting to the "Game of Thrones" style 50' table runner filled with fruit and flowers. She has an eye for style, is very professional, and is so easy to work with, even under stressful situations. I highly recommend her for any wedding! read more

Melinda was AMAZING to work with. She made our vision become a reality and we're so grateful we found her! Not once did we worry about a thing because she had it all covered. Our guests loved Melinda and continued to compliment what a great job she did even weeks after our wedding. We really can't thank her enough for everything she did. read more

Melinda was Amazing. She helped through out the process of my daughters wedding. We thought we were going to be able to go through the whole process on our own, we were wrong. She was so much help, she made the whole wedding go really smooth. Everything was perfect she did an amazing job!! We couldn't have done it with out her. We received so many compliments on the wedding planner. On what an amazing job she was doing. Just want to say thank you to In The Moment Event Service. read more

We got a list of planners from our venue vendor. Melinda stood out with her friendly, personable approach as well as her knowledge and experience. She is down to earth and we work well with her. On the day of the wedding, her skill really shined. She is so efficient and able to rally the troops and put things in order. She made our wedding event smooth and special. We highly recommend her as a wedding or party planner. read more

Melinda literally sparkles. But don't think for one minute she won't get everything you didn't think of done without you even knowing you needed it done. This woman saved our day. We hired her on a desperate whim when we realized we had done all the vendor planning but had no one to see it through on the day of our wedding! I do not recommend trying to do it all yourself (all you control- freak brides out there like myself ;) Meet with Melinda WAY ahead of time and have her take your burden away as she did for me on my most important day! She put out fires I didn't even know about, and somehow managed to give me little nuggets of wisdom and surprise gifts along the way!?! I'm still in awe of how amazing she is. Do not hesitate, and just make Melinda a priority and hire her first. She will guide you, direct others, and let you have the best, most relaxed and beautiful wedding day that you deserve. read more

I'm a wedding photographer, and I had the pleasure of working with Melinda recently. She is a dream come true for couples! She is so much fun to be around, and her outgoing personality helps brides be at ease. She is very thorough, and makes sure that everything is in it's place, as well as making sure everything goes as planned. My bride was able to relax and be herself knowing that Melinda had everything under control. I would highly recommend Melinda to any couple, and I will definitely be recommending her to my brides! read more

Melinda was absolutely amazing to work with! Melinda went above and beyond and made sure everything ran smoothly. She helped us with so many things....Melinda is extremely detailed oriented, patient, kind and easy to work with. Melinda handled everything with care and patience and we couldn't be happier. Thank you so much Melinda for everything, you are awesome! read more