As a camper who went to HoneyRock very recently to attend a one-month program with 8 cabinmates and 2 counselors, I can say this camp is so wonderful.
Not only is it a chance to make friends and meet other people, it's a wonderful chance to get to know yourself and how you interact with the various kinds of people you will meet and see at camp, as well as what kinds of different walks of life people come from. Of course, it's a chance to build people's impressions of you from the first impression up and kind of explore what kinds of positive effects you can have on others in various ways (e.g. try saying the person's name every time you thank someone). It's also a chance for you to be very honest and vulnerable with people whom you don't fear judgement from. The honesty and encouragement I experienced as my cabinmates and counselors would talk with and about me has really helped me gain a better understanding of who I am to others and what strengths others see in me. This camp, and the program I attended (2:22) really focuses on building one's own understanding of God and how He works in our lives. There is a large amount of cabin discussion and plenty of time to talk one-on-one with both counselors and cabinmates.
Above all, this camp is so calming. During the school year I always feel a constant need to be doing something or feel like I'm falling behind; HoneyRock was "a place away" in the sense that I became comfortable with feeling peaceful and not needing to do something. We had plenty to occupy ourselves with, and there were certainly a lot of challenging days of hard work, but even though it was really tough getting through it at the time, I think it has greatly increased my appreciation for hiking and for the outdoors. This is especially true for this wilderness trip; some were doing a lot better than others, but this was reworked so that we were encouraging each other, distracting each other, trying to find high points and beauty in whatever we did.
HoneyRock is also a place where I felt comfortable being myself and not always feeling like I had to be part of the conversation or fit in with others, but rather take the quieter position of observing others and their interactions, and also reflecting a lot on myself and what I learned from my observations. That's not to say we didn't bond; we had literally hundreds of inside jokes and memories that we made and shared and talked about constantly. Even now, sometimes in my everyday conversations something will come up that reminds me of one of my cabinmates and something they've said. I remember the details of what various cabinmates have told me in such fine detail; facts about their families, their schools, their lives at home, what they like and dislike, etc.
My favorite event that took place during my stay at HoneyRock was Service Week, which is really only three days, but you get split into teams, roughly the same size as a cabin, but with members from both genders and all different cabins; you might have only one or two members that you're familiar with, including the counselors. The service teams each get assigned 3 different tasks, one for each day, in which they will serve the community in some way. It was absolutely amazing to work hard for a whole day and whine about the work but then come back to camp and know that the work you put has benefited the community more than if you put that work into doing something you just think is fun or entertaining. We worked at a camp for disabilities called Camp Daniel, did groundswork at camp, and helped a neighbor clear up her yard. It was hard work but very rewarding work, and the difference we were able to make was so obvious each and every day.
I will end this review by saying that HoneyRock is definitely a challenge. It takes effort and courage to put yourself out there, to get to know new people, and to try new things. The good thing is that you're not alone, and you are going through the same experiences many other campers are. I am so grateful to have found people who I know and love without judging them based on their background, on their appearance, etc. but only from the common experiences and thoughts we shared at camp. read more